Why always a woman is blacklisted??

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Today's episode presented the same old thought process of our society... The fault of men are meant to be overlooked and the flaws of woman to be highlighted. Wasnt it more of Anirrudhh's fault than of Meera's??? But most women in asthana family did not think twice before branding Meera as a home breaker. I am ready to discount Nandini considering the emotional turmoil she is going through but what about our 'feminist' Nupur??? How can she shout on Meera like that when clearly her brother is to be blamed?? I loved the maturity displayed by Biji and Shyama in tackling the sitiuation. The only sane members in the lot. And also Ammaji got an excuse to condemn Meera's dressing sense. If Aniruddh had indeed been a faithful person then no woman would have been able to come near him but he himself gave Meera the license to come close to him... But obviously our society will always blacklist women like Meera ( who is completely innocent here though) and will excuse the faults of men who clearly have commitment issues.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree with u. i was appalled by the pathetic mind of ammaji also nupur and payal didi turned out to be big disapppointment. shyama and akhil gave the most sanest idea that was to tell meera to leave from house then and there but ammaji had to say kaali pothne se pehle kaise jaane de usko. she wanted meera to get insulted and blacklisted before getting thrown out very uncivil way they behaved. nandini's anger can be justified she is in a personal tragedy she is in another tangent but ammaji, nupur and payal didi were wrong.the worst thing was them blaming on meera of trapping anirudh and men being a loose char woman.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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thats the unfortunate mindset of many people...the reaction amma ji gave out was just incorrect. its not the first time meera's dressing style and her modern ways are being interconnected with morals. women are easily called names...with fingers pointed at their characters. men are equally responsible for adultery and in this case the man here anirudh is fully at fault because meera did not know he was married...i hope meera speaks up to say the truth...her keeping her mouth shut can worsen situation
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Exactly . But worst among all is Nupur, she is the most annoying
She can't act
And she tries to be strong but accuses another woman even before thinking twice
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: yehdil028

i agree with u. i was appalled by the pathetic mind of ammaji also nupur and payal didi turned out to be big disapppointment. shyama and akhil gave the most sanest idea that was to tell meera to leave from house then and there but ammaji had to say kaali pothne se pehle kaise jaane de usko. she wanted meera to get insulted and blacklisted before getting thrown out very uncivil way they behaved. nandini's anger can be justified she is in a personal tragedy she is in another tangent but ammaji, nupur and payal didi were wrong.the worst thing was them blaming on meera of trapping anirudh and men being a loose char woman.



i thnk so too...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree.. But the mind set of people especially in a country where the men is never blamed,, itshard.. Meera is no what responsible because she never knew ani was married.., he cheated both of them
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with you! No one pointed fingers towards Ani's character and blamed it all on poor Meera! 😲
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SparklesDB

I agree.. But the mind set of people especially in a country where the men is never blamed,, itshard.. Meera is no what responsible because she never knew ani was married.., he cheated both of them


anirudh dying made matters far difficult for meera to cope because now fingers will only be raised at her. anirrudh who was the culprit in the situation goes unharmed all free from the vicious tangles he webbed around more than one life.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: yehdil028


anirudh dying made matters far difficult for meera to cope because now fingers will only be raised at her. anirrudh who was the culprit in the situation goes unharmed all free from the vicious tangles he webbed around more than one life.


thats correct anirudh's death has almost made a criminal out of innocent meera for no fault of hers...anirudh only knows about the entire truth of him giving her false hopes and hiding his marital status from her. the only witness is dead and the only one who believed her was agasthya so lets see if agasthya faith remains unshaken
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shyama bhabhi said not to talk about dead person as when he died all his sins died.
It's true no point in keep thinking about it, however none of them were aware of Anirudh's true character so they all should understand who did what. Thinking of what he did will only destroy their mental health.
Nandini did blame Anirudh, that whole scene was about her saying how he disrespected something she believed as sacred which was her marriage and her relationship with him. She was blaming Meera mainly for lying and staying there under the pretense of Anirudh's friend.

It's true Meera did not want to hurt anyone, she wanted to stay away but ended up giving into Nandini's request, I think cuz she felt v. sympathetic towards Nandini.

Besides Biji, Shyma Bhbahi and Akhil others charged up towards Meera as they all felt betrayed by her. It's the immediate reaction after finding out the sad truth. Yes they all should equally be angry towards Anirudh too but he is not alive to fight with them or listen to them.
They are wrong to accuse Meera w/o finding out her side of the story and more importantly why she came to their house.

In coming episodes, I'm pretty sure Meera will find her strength and will stand up for herself and bring out the truth as much she can.

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