Hello Madhubala-ians! 😃
So before everyone runs off...let me start by saying that this is not a Rishbala topic or a Sulbala topic...obviously everyone is entitled to have their favorite jodi and defend them against the other "camp"...so lets leave RK and Sultan out of the euqation (so to speak) and focus on the main lead...Madhubala...the show is titled after her after all...😆
So here is my reaction to the latest article about RK forcing Madhu to go back home with him...
SERIOUSLY!?
And here is why im having that reaction..i'm trying to put myself in Madhu's shoes...now i know that its a show and not real life...but as they say...life imitates art and art imitates life...so there's my justification 😛...
here's my issue...what are teh CV's doing to her character? When RK betrayed her and broke her...she had the crying, the denial and all that drama...which is normal...no one is all happy-shappy after what happened to her...at that time...the CV's did an amazing job in having her get herself together...she faced the fact that what happened was done...you cant go into the past and change things...we're not time travelers (though i wish i was 😉) ...she realized that dwelling on the past would get her nowhere...instead, she moved on...she got a job...she tried to go back to as much of a normal life as possible...she didnt let the taunts of anyone get to her...even when RK misbehaved with her, disrespected her and humiliated her in front of her fellow co-workers...she held her head up high...yes, she cried...how can she not...but she did that in solitary...in front of the world...she held her own...
Same goes when it came to Sultan...he was cold towards her...mean to her...and the way he talked to her at times...it was down right condesending...and thats a huge...HUGE...pet peeve of mine...no one has the right to be disrespectful or condesending to anyone...just cuz they ruffle your feathers doesnt mean you can treat them that way...😡...she was there to help him and Aryan and yet he found some way to attack negativity to it...but she stayed strong...she stood up to him and put him in his place when that needed to happen...and she did it with such grace...never once saying anything that was disrespectful...
to me...these instances showed Madhu that she was a force to be reckoned with...she held her own in front of these over bearing, arrogant and egotistical males...she held on to her selfrespect and dignity in the process...BRAVO to her 👏
But now...what is this...is she kidding me with this back to ex-sasural track...RK gropes her...manhandles her...and quite literally forces himself on her...and she has no qualms...really? just like the TT article/analysis said yesterday...yes, as viewers we see that RK has his deamons and only now is he realizing that he wronged Madhu...what he did to her is unforgivable and inexcusable...he realizes that...good...im glad...last saturdays episode of his hallucination of Madhu was eye opening...but instead of apologizing or making up for it...he's focring her...instead of making her see that he has finally seen and understands what he did...he's letting his ego play the game...yes...sure...he's been burned in the past..but never once did Madhu give him reason to doubt her feelings...so why cant he rectify that...
ok so im getting off topic and going onto something else...but here's what im saying...as a girl...as a woman...would i ever be able to forgive my husband if he did this to me...H*LL NO!... i know its easier said than done...but once trust is broken, its hard to repair in any relationship on any level...but what happened with Madhu is in a class on its own...know what i mean? so how can she just give in...you're a grown woman...are you really going to allow someone to dictate your life like that...
if not...does that mean that Madhu has some sort of plan...revenge or something...if she does...does it make her any better than RK? if she's gonna get him emotionally attached and then do what he did to her...does it justify her actions because its a 'tit-for-tat' situation?
over all my questions...WHAT ARE TEH CV's DOING TO HER CHARACTER!? 😡
forget RK and Sultan...she needs to be single and just figure out life on her own with out the complication that is boys/men 😆...we've all been there at some point right? i know i have...just take a step back Madhu...for once think of yourself and not everyone else and what they need...think of what is best for you...and who you want in your life...have them there because you want them there not because they squirm their way into your life 😳
ok...enough with my ramblings...just had to get it off of my chest...not meant to offend anyone on either camp...i love Sulbala and Rishbala...each for various reasons...so im not bashing or anything...i know i talk about RK more but thats because he's been in her life longer...and lets be honest...she's in the perdicament that she's in because of what he did...
JAZ
Edited by jnawaz - 12 years ago