Parents Annoyed With IF Addiction

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Posted: 19 years ago
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heyy guys

well, my title probably caught ur attention😳

Whenever I am on IF, my mom gets mad. 😆She thinks I spend too much time on the computer. I really do not know how to explain to her why I love IF so much. She thinks I watch too many Tv shows and that they aren't meant for the young crowd like me. TV shows screw up the minds of many peopel's brains is what my mom always says. Many of you probably relate to me.

Do you agree???😕

Questions for you:

Do your parents ever question you on IF?

Do your parents think you watch too much TV?

What do you do to get them to stop bugging you about it?

What are your views of this topic?

Im pretty sure you all of have an idea on what I'm asking. Please share your views.😃

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Nice Topic! And yes, your title did indeed catch my eye. As for my parents, I haven't told my mom. Yes, I know its not right; but believe me, my mom would freak if she found out I was actually spending time A) talking to people online I didn't know and B) i was doing all this for TV serials. Lol. As for the TV problem- yes. My mother HATES it when I watch TV and she often gets annoyed and yells at me. I was obsessed with KYPH before it ended, and just to get me not to watch it, she took out my dish. So I started watching it online (thanks to IF) and when she put the dish back in like a month later, she saw that I was still as hooked and I still knew the exact storyline. (and let me tell you, she was not pleased!). My views? Well like I said, it's a nice topic and I cant wait to see what others say about it!

x3 Prakriti

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Do you agree???yes hehe

Questions for you:?

Do your parents ever question you on IF? no

Do your parents think you watch too much TV? yes

What do you do to get them to stop bugging you about it? nothing they dont bug me abt it

What are your views of this topic? my parents say ill need glasses but i already do but i wear contacts now

for i dont no how long befor if i would be bored nor im not and my parents give me a time period to go on but i neve listen to it
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Posted: 19 years ago
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thankoo 4 replyin
where's evrybody else 😕
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Well...yes they do question me.In fact,my dad was jus in my room right now tellin me to get off IF but its jus so addicting! 😆 😆 My parents think that i spend too much of my time talkin bout tv shows and they're always tellin me to stop thinking bout tv shows 😔 and that there are more important things i shud be thinking bout right now...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: bubblezz

Well...yes they do question me.In fact,my dad was jus in my room right now tellin me to get off IF but its jus so addicting! 😆 😆 My parents think that i spend too much of my time talkin bout tv shows and they're always tellin me to stop thinking bout tv shows 😔 and that there are more important things i shud be thinking bout right now...

i go through tat 2😳😆

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pyaari_Shailee

heyy guys

well, my title probably caught ur attention😳

Whenever I am on IF, my mom gets mad. 😆She thinks I spend too much time on the computer. I really do not know how to explain to her why I love IF so much. She thinks I watch too many Tv shows and that they aren't meant for the young crowd like me. TV shows screw up the minds of many peopel's brains is what my mom always says. Many of you probably relate to me.

Do you agree???😕

Questions for you:

Do your parents ever question you on IF?

Earlier,they used to but now they dont Kyonki My sis joined IF too and even my dad visited If soo he thinks its ok but sayd tht u should always vist the Debate Mansion coz its the place of knowledge and waise bhi they understand my madness about IF,...my madness of turning into an IF-ROCKERZ in just 6 months 😉

Do your parents think you watch too much TV?

No they dont coz whateva i watch even my mum does...We have the same Choices and i study too soo they hardly have objections

What do you do to get them to stop bugging you about it?

Sometimes when they bug me i start acting ke dekho mumma yeh kitna accha hai...she's doing this i posted tht....Yeh dekho main aapko video dikhaoon and stuff like tht and she cools down.

What are your views of this topic?

Awesommmmmmmmmm main saari bhaadas nikaal li😆

Im pretty sure you all of have an idea on what I'm asking. Please share your views.😃

Ya..Pata nahi

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I will only add 2 words to ur title - "AND SPOUSES" 😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pyaari_Shailee

heyy guys

well, my title probably caught ur attention😳

Whenever I am on IF, my mom gets mad. 😆She thinks I spend too much time on the computer. I really do not know how to explain to her why I love IF so much. She thinks I watch too many Tv shows and that they aren't meant for the young crowd like me. TV shows screw up the minds of many peopel's brains is what my mom always says. Many of you probably relate to me.

Do you agree???😕 nope

Questions for you:

Do your parents ever question you on IF? nope

Do your parents think you watch too much TV? sumtimes

What do you do to get them to stop bugging you about it? they dun bug me that much..well not at all

What are your views of this topic? idk

Im pretty sure you all of have an idea on what I'm asking. Please share your views.😃

wel - actually, by meeting u knew people, and interacting with them here, u can LEARN many things...I've learned alot in my time here...
If people are bored, they can come here, and have Fun...they won't even realize they're learning stuff as they chat and discuss things

so IF is a great place 👍🏼

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Are you addicted to the Internet?
Mental health professionals are becoming increasingly concerned about Internet addiction, writes DIVYA KUMAR
PHOTO: S.R.RAGHUNATHAN

CITIZEN OF THE CYBERSPACE? Not a healthy option
"You know you're addicted to the Internet when... — Your dreams are in HTML — You turn off the computer and get this awful, empty feeling like you pulled the plug on a loved one — Your dog has its own web page — You name your children Google, Friendster and Blogger — Your wife drapes a wig over the monitor to remind you of what she looks like — You check your mail. It says, "No new messages." So you check it again. — You sign off and the screen says you were logged on for 3 days and 45 minutes — You can immediately think of 10 people you want to send this list to." You've probably seen such jokes in your email inbox. They've been doing the rounds in cyberspace since... well, since 'cyberspace' has existed. But some mental health professionals are beginning to take Internet addiction seriously. They consider it an addiction comparable to pathological gambling or alcoholism, and worry that it is increasingly on the rise. For example, a recent study from Stanford University estimates that one in eight adults in the U.S. are addicted to the Internet. China opened its first Internet Addiction Clinic in Beijing last year to help wean addicts off the Internet. And mental health professionals in Chennai are among those growing concerned at this trend. "I'm seeing far too many people having some sort of Internet addiction for comfort these days," says Dr. Vijay Nagaswami, psychiatrist and marriage therapist. Addictive behaviour Internet addiction can refer to a range of behaviours. You have the online gaming or gambling addict, the po*nography addict, or the 'information junkie' who surfs the Internet for random information, often trivia. There are those who are addicted to chatting online or those who engage in compulsive cybersex. But in all these behaviours, Dr. Nagaswami is careful to draw a distinction between the casual or recreational user, and the addict. "Addicts are not defined only by the number of hours they spend online, but by the impact it has on their personal and professional life," he says. These effects could include work or school performance being hurt by late nights spent online, or social networks and marriages suffering due to the addict eschewing all sorts of social activities in favour of spending time on the Internet. Real-world responsibilities get postponed or neglected as addicts become so involved in their online activities that they dream about them at night, and fantasise about them during the day. "When you're aware that you spend too much time online but can't stop, you've crossed the line into addiction," says Dr. Lata Nithyanand, a clinical psychologist. "You've lost control, and the Net is dictating how long you're staying online." The profile of those who get addicted is varied. There is the housewife who doesn't cook as she spends the day downloading recipes online. Or the middle-aged man who searches online for po*n to galvanise his sex-life only to get addicted to the actual act of surfing for po*n. Or the boy who is so obsessed with online gaming that he refuses to go to school and threatens suicide when his parents say they'll cut him off from the Internet. Or the IT employee who gets hooked to surfing for trivia online simply because of the extent of access he has to the Internet. Underlying causes often dictate who gets addicted and who does not. "Frequently, these people fit the profile of addictive personalities," says Dr. Nagaswami. "Or there could be issues such as clinical depression, disturbances in social life, or even childhood trauma." Although concern over Internet addiction has been around since as early as 1995, the question of whether it is a distinct disorder or simply an expression of such underlying causes is one that continues to plague researchers. In fact, Internet Addiction Disorder is not yet included in the official listing of mental disorders, the DSM-IV. This controversy is confounded by the multifaceted nature of the Internet. "Unlike gambling or alcoholism which are almost entirely negative behaviours, using the Internet has several positive aspects to it such as enabling communication and enhancing knowledge," says Dr. Nithyanand. "That's one of the reasons why people are not certain whether to label it as a disorder." However, evidence for the existence of Internet addiction has been mounting in the West from various studies, and mental health professionals in India are feeling the need for such insight into Internet use here. "Often what we find in the Western literature doesn't relate to India because of cultural differences," says Dr. S. Parvathi, former head, Department of Psychology, Madras University. "We need empirical evidence to identify what the psycho-social and physical impacts of excessive Internet use are as more and more Indians go online." With 37 million online users in India as of September 2006 according to Internet and Mobile Association of India (IAMAI) and IMRB International, and around 38 per cent of them identified as 'heavy users,' there's no doubt that India is now experiencing an Internet boom, and this makes it all the more important that we become more aware of the potential hazards of too much time spent online.

Meanwhile, the next time you find it hard to tear yourself away from the Internet and head outside, do yourself a favour and unplug the modem. Just think of all the money you could save in therapist's fees down the line!

https://www.hindu.com/mp/2006/11/15/stories/2006111500160100. htm

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