Originally posted by: aparnauma
Ganga and J
Jagya in bad mood can be rude and nasty which is well established trait of his.Today Ganga got a glimpse of it.But soon he realised that he was taking it out on G2
He was very much like this with Anandi soon after he met G1.Anandi was equally bewildered and baffled by this behaviour but dealt with it patiently
Disagree with you on these points ..You are comparing two opposite situations to prove him nasty and rude Here he didn't mean to be nasty or rude neither he is bringing his established trait and neither this situation is comparable with what he was doing to Anandi at that time , In his place you and me could do that what he did many a times we must have done that Here no issue of his basic nature its basic nature of almost everyone human being they get angry when they are being forced into something they don't want With others trying to take decisions of one's life not listening to him once properly .His frustration is very valid after everyone forcing him to do something for which he is not ready and he is refusing The are continuously lecturing him like he doesn't know his well being only they do Stopping him each time in between how he thinks he can lead his life they bring in their ideas and lecture him to follow theirs They are continuously asking him to do something thinking about which he breaks down despite him making it clear once he don't want to marry but they are forcing him How much a person can take here ?.How patient was Anandi when she was being forced into marriage She tackled the issue patiently NO She even yelled at Shiv many times , threw Choti maa's necklace away so was she here bringing her established trait of being nasty and rude ? No she was right on her frustration when everyone was forcing her into something she doesn't want so she lost control here same for Jagaya that don't make him nasty or rude here because this accidental action happened from him not intentionally he did that as his mind was occupied with something else and when Ganga started to lecture him for his health already fed up with others lectures about marriage he let it out all his frustration on her but he immediately understood as well his mind was occupied with something else and he brought out his frustration on wrong person
Only this is the case here His situation is similar to Anandi here when she was being forced into marriage with others taking decisions of her life not like the way she wants she behaving much similar same for Jagaya here They are not understanding him but lecturing him to understand them only like only they know what is better for him he doesn't In his place i guess anyone would be frustrated at same time when we are frustrated on something many times it happens if some person brings us a similar issue on which we are frustrated then unintentionally only accidentally we let out all our frustration on that person but later realize the mistake and make things better too so same for Jagaya here and he has also realized he will set things with Ganga
Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago