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Ok it is the stupidest thing to do.. but well had i done what Chhan Chhan did (i would have had it been my best friend who was taking the pheres) and had I been cursed/sworn at and was held responsible in the manner UB held her responsible...
well my best friend's parents might not blame me.. they might even be appreciative of what i did.. and my best friend would be grateful too..
even with all of this, somewhere in a corner of my mind i won't be able to forget those words that say that I am somehow was instrumental in breaking my best friend's marriage..
my mind will know I am correct and there was no other way out of that situation.. but somewhere in my mind I would feel guilty.. a nagging weight would be there in my mind..
And when on top of it something like this happens.. where the friend's dad loses the job too..
well had i felt even 1% responsible. i would try to rectify it right?
the thing is for us UB is like an alien character right? we laugh at her rigidity in incredulous humor... so in real life if we encounter someone like that will we honestly register how twisted that person is?
wouldn't we try to approach and talk 'sense' to that person had we been standing in Chhan Chhan's shoes?
cz really UB herself decided that what happened was an insult to herself when she was a 3rd party! it wasn't her son's marriage that was stopped! So in such a situation we would most likely have tried to talk to that person too.. maybe try to justify our stand.. or to simply apologize in case we offended them...
anything to try to help..
So i don't think what CC is going to do is exactly melodramatic and reel life..
but in this situation it would be like putting ghee to the fire..but not illogical at the least or typical 'i will solve everything' mentality of lead heroin in shows..
cz today it was clearly shown that CC was a spectator while Purvi took her own decision with her dad..
so in this one instance CC is doing this cz she does feel responsible.., the words spoken to her about her being the cause is not letting her be in peace.. she will go only to put her conscience at peace not cz she thinks she needs to fix things as she can...
well my best friend's parents might not blame me.. they might even be appreciative of what i did.. and my best friend would be grateful too..
even with all of this, somewhere in a corner of my mind i won't be able to forget those words that say that I am somehow was instrumental in breaking my best friend's marriage..
my mind will know I am correct and there was no other way out of that situation.. but somewhere in my mind I would feel guilty.. a nagging weight would be there in my mind..
And when on top of it something like this happens.. where the friend's dad loses the job too..
well had i felt even 1% responsible. i would try to rectify it right?
the thing is for us UB is like an alien character right? we laugh at her rigidity in incredulous humor... so in real life if we encounter someone like that will we honestly register how twisted that person is?
wouldn't we try to approach and talk 'sense' to that person had we been standing in Chhan Chhan's shoes?
cz really UB herself decided that what happened was an insult to herself when she was a 3rd party! it wasn't her son's marriage that was stopped! So in such a situation we would most likely have tried to talk to that person too.. maybe try to justify our stand.. or to simply apologize in case we offended them...
anything to try to help..
So i don't think what CC is going to do is exactly melodramatic and reel life..
but in this situation it would be like putting ghee to the fire..but not illogical at the least or typical 'i will solve everything' mentality of lead heroin in shows..
cz today it was clearly shown that CC was a spectator while Purvi took her own decision with her dad..
so in this one instance CC is doing this cz she does feel responsible.., the words spoken to her about her being the cause is not letting her be in peace.. she will go only to put her conscience at peace not cz she thinks she needs to fix things as she can...
