Originally posted by: dipsy80
Harini..Goki could forgive them..but there is something known as karma. And I firmly believe in it. I believe you harm someone it will come back to you if not now then sometime in the future..I would have been ok with the CVs theory if there was some sort of remorse in Rashi...like we see in Kinjal. But even that is not happening! The CVs are not doing the right thing by calling Rashi taking advantage of Goki's goodness as just immaturity or innocent mistakes..she is no child đ¤˘
Dipsy, you, me and some of us others in the forum.. Our concept of Karma and justice I have seen is very different from how it is perceived by a lot others. And CVs are no exception.đ
Not just in SNS, I have seen it across other serials and have read the views differing when it comes to good Vs. Bad.
The concept that it is alright for Rashi to be this evil because Koki is always behind her is in itself wrong in my PoV which is what the CVs are bent on showing. Even if Koki is wrong (I do not think she is in anyway), I still do not see that it justifies Rashi being evil.
Why is it that person who has a fierce sense of family and pride is called as a monster while the acts of Rashi who really is a monster in disguise (my opinion entirely) is called as 'childish' and immature?
The reason Dipsy, I have come to see is for the fact that Koki's physical appearance, her voice are more a reason and her strictness is not something that people have really seen or even understand, just adds up to it.
I grew up in a family that was big as it was varied. We were brought up with the sense of togetherness, loyalty, family and love drilled into us from the time we were young.. The concept of lazing around being called up and one being scolded for a mistake is not alien to me.
I find that a lot of my peers never had that kind of an experience, either due to parenting style or maybe because they never had a chance to grow in the environment I grew up in... I am not going to argue which is wrong and which is right. However my point is, when Koki asks Rashi to cook or clean or sweep the floor, I find her cribbing very irritating while others find Koki as being a torturer.
You see, I grew up pulling my weight around the house. We loved working on various things in the house because it was a big deal to see something you have worked on shine and look nice. It gave a sense of belonging..You took pride in your work and how well you could do it.
But I also have friends who would not lift t fork that fell down. That is how they were brought up.
However, even these friends never were spoilt enough to crib and cry when they were asked to help or were given a responsibility. That is why I find it hard to accept Rashi as being immature or childish..Rather they used to try more to make sure that they could do it.
As one grows, one sees the outside world and learns from it. As we gain experience, we change ourselves understanding the right from the wrong.. Neither Rashi's friends (whoever they have shown) nor her neighbors are in a category where you can say Rashi is influenced by them.
Nor is Rashi still a 10 year old to go and cry to mummy for every small thing. I find that attitude really irritating to say the least. đ¤˘
And yes.. No redemption is what makes me go mad.. Kinjal who is trying to redeem herself has Karma poured all over her attempts as Dhawal does things that she used to do before but yet UrShi remain untouched Just for how long?
I have come to see that you can expect Karma in real life but not in SNS. The CVs will keep up the pretense of Rashi 'not being evil' until the end and unfortunately by that they will also make me dislike MBP to the core for being the spineless, selfish, totally blind and foolish family ever.
It is a pity that Koki and GoHem just do not walk away which is the only way I see out of this mess. MBP will never change, nor will Rashi and I have to see Koki and Gopi suffer for just being too generous and caring for a family that does not deserve their loveđ
Anupamaa
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