Why a homewrecker is always a woman?

Objective analysis

I don't think srk or chitrangadha cheated LOL

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Reality:

I do agree that above is not often the case. The reason women are blamed is because of this mindset that we expect women to be better and when you expect someone to be better then their such actions are seen as taboo and one gets more fascinated, surprised and in case of bollywood its more newsworthy. If you analyze objectively and technically then yes this should work both ways equally.

Sorry for quoting u...u have just pinpoint the truth...Yes it s frm the old ages that accusations r hurled upon on the woman...whenever any woman mingled with a man out of wedlock...It can't be helped prejudice and hypocrisy will not let it go...

I'd say both are faulty...who more than the other is not the issue. And in any case, much as I dislike infidelity, I frankly won't butt inside the matters of someone else, unless it affects me personally.

There is a kannada actor who got into a public brawl with his wife. She pressed charges against him, and he went to jail. She had taken some ugly beating beatings, and accused him of trying to tear off her earlobes and burned her with cigarette.

The producers tried to persuade the wife to withdraw her case, but she ordered them to get rid of a co-star who was rumored to having an affair with him. So the film association banned her from Kannada industry for three years. The wife withdrew the case saying she fell on the bathroom floor. After public outcry, and media slandering, they withdrew the case with a half baked apology. That actress continued to challenge concrete evidence of their affair, apart from media gossips.

So, a man beat his wife, but people punished other woman, who may or may not be his mistress. What did the actor do? He complained a series of illnesses, and spent his jail term in hospital. Finally he was released on bail. Now he is back to acting in movies, with blind fans supporting him. Sadly, a man always get away, with others supporting in his favor. 🥱

http://www.guardian.co.uk/business/2011/sep/16/nikita-thukral-film-ban-lifted

Both, the married man and his gf should be blamed equally. It takes two hands to clap.So the guy too is equally responsible, in fact more responsible than the girl because he is breaking his home with his own hands.
But our patriarchal society loves to blame the woman rather than the man even today. In olden days,kings used to marry more than one woman. The Ramayana and Mahabharata are examples of polygamous marriages. So it has become a general notion that a man can never be happy /satisfied with one woman. It's his nature since olden days to have many women in his life.So if a man commits adultery,our society calls it his nature and blames the woman saying that she must have 'trapped' him.
This mindset of society needs to change asap.

In my opinion both the cheater and his lover are equally at fault for wrecking a home and both should be termed as a home wrecker, but unfortunately in some societies men are put in a high pedestal and it doesn't matter that he was wrong as well the women will always be blamed that bit more. In fact when a husband cheats on the wife, people and hear this most of these people will be women themselves will blame the wife for her husbands infidelity saying "She must have done something to drive him away" "she probably didn't satisfy his needs" and all that bullshit, and honestly how can we expect people not to always blame the women when women themselves blame other women? As much as we talk about equality the truth of the matter is that whenever something goes wrong in a marriage the women will be blamed, be it if the women cheats on the husband or the husband cheats on the women.