But my dear Waneeka, just look at the
red part in my last message. It was written after I had seen the Friday episode, and it mentions exactly what you have pointed out so forcefully! And then, have you forgotten what I wrote just yesterday, that
for Purvi, there are only 2 categories of people - those for whom she will do anything, which would be her aai , baba, Ovi, Soham and her aaji - and those to whom she will do anything to further the interests of group 1, to wit Arjun first and now Onir, plus another half for baby Pari?
As for Onir, he is in love. As I once wrote in my own last thread of few weeks back, my first in months, of course he should have handled Purvi much more firmly all along, even if it was quiet firmness. But then, in some people, love makes them weak,and even the best of them succumb,whether it is an impulsive boy like Arjun on the hilltop, or a much more mature Onir now.
Waneeka, one has to have pity for such failings, and not pillory people for them. It would have been far better for Onir to have put his foot down with Purvi and read her the riot act, but she is his greatest weakness. He is not a young man in love, you see. He is someone who was perfectly happy with his patients and his idealism, till one day this girl came along and turned his well ordered world topsy turvy. When love hits an otherwise unlikely candidate like that, it hits him very hard. Now he cannot bear to see her unhappy, and that warps his judgement.
Even then, he is more sensible and firm in lecturing her post facto about the need, once she has made this decision, to stay the course, and on one occasion, he snaps her out of her hysteria sharply and decisively. But he is going to have a very tough time with this unstable and inconsistent girl, who is like nothing so much as a full fledged demolition machine.
Were you able to read those two posts of mine on Kools March 1 PR thread, on pages 44 and 45? I am curious to see how you react to them.
Shyamala B.Cowsik
Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird
Did you watch today's episode? She, for not even once, did not apologize for all the trouble she landed Onir in ..she was MORE CONCERNED ABOUT ARJUN AND OVI ..
At least have decency if not gratitude ..
what is Onir doing? dancing to her tunes? what is this 😡
Originally posted by: sashashyam
Dear Waneeka,
That is a lovely, meaningful name. You should thank your parents for having chosen it for you.
You, my dear, have a real flair for hitting the nail on the head. First it was the animal sacrifice, and now it is Purvi treating Onir like a PS. Only, no PS will run the kind of risks he does for her, no way! Then again, gratitude is something that grows on you, it seeps into every crevice and cranny in the heart, and slowly, slowly, it takes it over piece by piece. Something of the kind is at least beginning to happen to Purvi, though today too she does not, until the moment of going to court, even mention her part in getting him where he is now.
Have you read Jane Austen's Sense and Sensibility? If so, you would agree with me that Purvi and Onir are like Marianne Dashwood and Colonel Brandon.
If you are interested, you might like to take a look at my post on today's PR on Kools' thread, at http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3461880&TPN=44. See how far you agree with me.
Shyamala B.Cowsik
Edited by sashashyam - 12 years ago
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