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The epi made a lot sense to me , especially Megha and her guilt. Just how many of us (the fans) assumed ,Megha hates herself for falling in love ;for grabbing the second chance in life ,for falling for the person her son used to dislike. In a nutshell ,she hates the love between her and Mohan ! Got it ,and sympathize with her as well !
Megha is just seeing the root of all reasons for Addu going missing - her decision to grab the second chance of happiness in her life. If she'd have stayed a widow ,things would never change. If she'd not married Mohan without talking about it with Addu ,Addu would have been with her. These thoughts are roaming in her mind.
I really understand where she's coming from ,and feel for her. I even don't have any doubt in her love for Mohan since her cries when Jiji says that she doesn't believe her words did explain that she (Megha) still loves Mohan.
Megha is just seeing the root of all reasons for Addu going missing - her decision to grab the second chance of happiness in her life. If she'd have stayed a widow ,things would never change. If she'd not married Mohan without talking about it with Addu ,Addu would have been with her. These thoughts are roaming in her mind.
I have seen someone among my relatives breaking her marriage with her second husband for her child. It is so common in our society! So I'm not surprised ,and I feel for Megha. Go ahead and bash me for that if you like.
My suggestion to CVs would be - the conflict in Megha in her roles between a mother and a wife should be shown frequently n clearly !
As per Saumya's suggestion, here's I quote my reply to her in the first post:
Originally posted by: -MohanKiMeera-
I never said that Megha is always right. She was wrong in taking Addu casually. She was wrong when she, instead of making Addu understand that Mohan loves him as much as Nanhi, went ahead and married Mohan too soon. Even now she's wrong in seeing the situation from one perspective, AND she's guilty for this. She hates herself for her damn casualness. She loathes herself for being blind in love and going ahead with the marriage since of handling Addu's issues first.Mohan's calling Addu piddi was his way of showing affection. Right! But did Addu ever understand this fact? Nanhi loves when Mohan calls her Chavanni, but things are different in Addu's case. Time and again, he told Mohan not to call him Piddi, and he even got annoyed and angry with it, but Mohan did because he never took his words seriously. This is his fault! But yes I don't blame him for this since he didn't know how a good father is supposed to behave as he said in today's episode.Megha knew Mohan. She knew that Mohan never differentiate between Addu and Nanhi. But her opinion did change when Addu went missing ,and Nanhi blamed Mohan based on what she saw in those days. Megha also went on blaming Mohan since she was broken, which ended up in separating them, but perhaps her perspective did change later on,and she believed in his promise.After 12 years, Megha met Mohan again, but Addu wasn't with him ,and here, her thinking that Mohan never loved Addu became stronger again! In the past, Mohan found Nanhi in just a day. He found his bike in two days, so why 12 years for Addu? This question baffled Megha, and she could not see the bigger picture that sometimes fate can be so cruel that we can't find the lost ones even if we search for him/her for our entire life. For all these wrong reasons, Megha ended up thinking that Mohan never accepted Addu. So how could she love the man who never accepted her child? That's her guilt; the guilt of a mother.Now why didn't she change her perspective? I'd say that her perspective did change, and she believed in his promise that he'd bring their Addu back, BUT things went back to square one when she didn't find Addu with him, and then she went back to her shell / guilt trip.I really don't know if I made sense. Sorry ! 😆
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