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Posted: 12 years ago
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'usne toh sirf rishta tora tha kusum, maine toh usi koh tor diya'

Realization, better late than never. The girl who took forever to thank the same man when he saved her father from that awful fire immediately realized the pain she gave him when she reopened his old wounds. The girl is full of ego, but she does have a heart and realizes her fault in bringing back those disturbing memories of Saras's past. When he hurt her by rejecting the proposal, she threw her attitude, remained stubborn, and held her nose up high in the air, but now the game has changed. She's still stubborn...however, she has vowed to now go to any length possible to achieve his forgiveness.


Kusum was right- the two give each other pain, but they understand each others pain as well. I think that's the beauty of this show. It adds a much needed dose of passion in the story without all these physical romantic close scenes...you still end up feeling the essence and the beauty of the scene even when the characters aren't in close proximity. Saras came all the way to Ratna Nagri cause Kumud's voice attracted him but he also felt guilty for doing what he did somewhere down the line...he knew he hurt Kumud and that too deeply when they had that video conference. At the moment, Saras isn't in the right frame of mind to accept her apology and is being stubborn as she was, but I'm sure somewhere, when his mind is clear, eventually he will know that Kumud isn't at fault when she didn't even know about his past.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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kumud was hurt that she was rejected, even without him seeing her face...

thats usual.. any girl would feel the same... it was a small prank fom her side... how can she knows whats the realtion, if there is a relation b/w saras and that taalab...

whatever, saras couldnt hold his pain.. he blames her which is natural tooo

lets see how thy will overcome this...pain for each other!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Both r rite in their way.
Kumud was hurt because he rejected her without seeing her.She was not aware about his mother and tallab ka hissa.
SC has no frame of mind to talk to her.He feels all this happened because of her.
We have to see how they will sort out this situation.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It was natural to be hurt that she was rejected. Any girl who gets a rishta begins to weave her dreams and so did Kumud. Especially when the eyes she saw in her dream were those she saw of the man who was probably going to be her husband. The dreams were broken even without an explanation, so she was right in being hurt in her place. Her akad didn't like that Saras accepted her challenge and proved her wrong that he wasn't selfish and careless. To prove herself right and him down she played a prank but it cost him and is costing her heavily now. Mistakes happen, and especially when they're done unintentionally. Kumud has a heart of gold, who can never be at peace when she knows she has heart someone so badly. And today's episode proved it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: craziekudi

kumud was hurt that she was rejected, even without him seeing her face...


thats usual.. any girl would feel the same... it was a small prank fom her side... how can she knows whats the realtion, if there is a relation b/w saras and that taalab...

whatever, saras couldnt hold his pain.. he blames her which is natural tooo

lets see how thy will overcome this...pain for each other!!!

@ underlined that is not true...I disagree with due respect..
Saras did not reject Kumud at all...Saras rejected the rishta which came from his dad for Kumud...There is a difference...He did not want to get married period...So he is not rejecting her personally...He is rejecting gettting married...She took it personally and made it abt herself inturn got on the soapbox ranting "He rejected me w/o seeing my face" She made an issue out of that declining of marriage as how can he do that w/o seeing my face??? Thobda had nothing to do with Saras's NO for marriage...
These day and age one needs to be more open minded, use intelligence, logic and understanding why a person would say no to a marriage...Instead of making it abt her looks or face..
My POV ofcourse..
Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

@ underlined that is not true...I disagree with due respect..

Saras did not reject Kumud at all...Saras rejected the rishta which came from his dad for Kumud...There is a difference...He did not want to get married period...So he is not rejecting her personally...He is rejecting gettting married...She took it personally and made it abt herself inturn got on the soapbox ranting "He rejected me w/o seeing my face" She made an issue out of that declining of marriage as how can he do that w/o seeing my face??? Thobda had nothing to do with Saras's NO for marriage...
These day and age one needs to be more open minded, use intelligence, logic and understanding why a person would say no to a marriage...Instead of making it abt her looks or face..
My POV ofcourse..

But she isn't aware about that fact. Also, it was saras's dad who started this whole rishta thing and then his son write a letter to girl, rejecting the rishta.
Obviously she feels that saras is a coward who couldn't say no to his father but rather wrote letter to her. Why would she alone have to face all the consequences?. She was right when she asked him to come ratnagiri and say no by himself.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rummy.

But she isn't aware about that fact. Also, it was saras's dad who started this whole rishta thing and then his son write a letter to girl, rejecting the rishta.
Obviously she feels that saras is a coward who couldn't say no to his father but rather wrote letter to her. Why would she alone have to face all the consequences?. She was right when she asked him to come ratnagiri and say no by himself.

I agree with you abt the underlined...Key word is Rishta and not Her Thobda...Yes Saras rejected the Rishta but he never wrote that he is rejecting Kumud...He should have been honest to his father...She challenged him to come reject the rishta to her father...So he came to do so...She could have let him have a chance in explaining why he rejected the RIshta but meanwhile she had made it all abt herself and thobda...Also other events that happened which did not allow him to tell Vidya abt Saras not wanting the marriage..
My issue with Kumud is she should have been walking the brave walk that she keeps talking and is hyped by her parents that is all..SHe is supposed to be the 21st century educated, learned, intelligent, knowledgable mature woman...Lacking understanding and commonsense of giving someone benefit of the doubt...She is stubborn and this stubborness will make her unhappy no matter what she does...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

I agree with you abt the underlined...Key word is Rishta and not Her Thobda...Yes Saras rejected the Rishta but he never wrote that he is rejecting Kumud...He should have been honest to his father...She challenged him to come reject the rishta to her father...So he came to do so...She could have let him have a chance in explaining why he rejected the RIshta but meanwhile she had made it all abt herself and thobda...Also other events that happened which did not allow him to tell Vidya abt Saras not wanting the marriage..

My issue with Kumud is she should have been walking the brave walk that she keeps talking and is hyped by her parents that is all..SHe is supposed to be the 21st century educated, learned, intelligent, knowledgable mature woman...Lacking understanding and commonsense of giving someone benefit of the doubt...She is stubborn and this stubborness will make her unhappy no matter what she does...



I get what you're saying but I still see it differently. Yes Saras rejected the rishta, that I agree with. But I don't think its wrong for Kumud to take it the way she did. She's a girl full of pride. Why should she have showed her face to the guy who didn't want to get married... why should she humiliate herself further by showing her face to him when he has no interest in marriage to her at all after he humiliated her sentiments and her family's sentiments by writing a letter to her. She challenged him to come there and reject and he did. But he also admitted that her voice managed to attract him and brought him all the way to Ratna Nagri.

I agree when you say she should have gave him a chance to speak- I also felt she took the face thing too far, but I realized it's not more about the face to her...she feels more hurt about her family's sentiments and she thinks showing him her face will further humiliate no one but her. Her family is all praises for Saras...she doesn't want to give anyone false hope and show her face to him again to be rejected directly. I do agree, she should have gave him a chance to talk and not made assumptions.

She's stubborn, but she's not the only one whose stubborn..both Saras and Kumud are. At least she's realized that she's done a far worse thing than he did...that I think is a huge thing for Kumud to do since she's a girl of her own principles.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ankita.M

It was natural to be hurt that she was rejected. Any girl who gets a rishta begins to weave her dreams and so did Kumud. Especially when the eyes she saw in her dream were those she saw of the man who was probably going to be her husband. The dreams were broken even without an explanation, so she was right in being hurt in her place. Her akad didn't like that Saras accepted her challenge and proved her wrong that he wasn't selfish and careless. To prove herself right and him down she played a prank but it cost him and is costing her heavily now. Mistakes happen, and especially when they're done unintentionally. Kumud has a heart of gold, who can never be at peace when she knows she has heart someone so badly. And today's episode proved it.



I agree completely Anku! Her reaction to the rejection wasn't about the face, it was more about her dreams and her family's expectations and praises for this man. Like you said, mistakes happen- and accepting them is a huge thing. I'm glad she's done that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anita🤗,
I could not agree more. I would prefer a flawed character than someone, who is the perfect bahu in soaps. I think she did overstep the line, but I know I have done that in the past and have regretted it. Sometimes we tend to say things and not realize how this may impact the other. The important thing is to realize that you were wrong and apologize.
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