Similarity between Singh and Shekhar family

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Singhs and Shekhars are very different. However, today I found a similarity.
When Jagya went for MBBS studies, it was assumed by Singh family that he would like to practise in Jaitser. They built the hospital and presented to Jagya as a surprise gift.
Same way, Daddu assumed that Shiv would be happy to get a transfer to Udaipur and requested Chielf Minister for Shiv's transfer.
Both families did it out of their love for their son. They did it in secret. Assumed that the son would be super happy after hearing the news.
My question is, why can't parents of grown up children atleast discuss with them before pushing major career decisions on their bahalf? If the young people know in adavance, what is cooking up, they would be in a better position to handle the change.
What do you say?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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good question. I totally agree. Dadu should have discussed with Shiv before doing anything. Regardless of whether shiv was in jetsar or any other place, why not talk to him first.

This is not fair to shiv.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I totally agree and another similarity is that is that in both cases anandi gets hurt in the process
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Totally agree with you! How I wish parents stop giving surprises to their grown-up children who may have different priorities in life!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mozart66

Totally agree with you! How I wish parents stop giving surprises to their grown-up children who may have different priorities in life!

Instead of surprise, it becomes a shock for them.😲
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i havent seen today's episode but going bythe post i gather that Daddu asked CM for the transfer of Shiv and hence he is transferred.

I had mentioned in one of my posts earlier as well, that it is quite odd that a DC is transferred just within 8-9 months of his posting and that too from the district which is newly formed and he is doing exceptionally well!! it happens either due to sifarish, ghotala or political pressure.
but o nwhole i didnot like the reson behind his transfer. if it would have been that because of his exceptional work he is given greater responsibility then it was great...but due to daddu's request i am not that happy. agreed CVs want to seperate out tracks and also we all want anandi to leave jaitser, but not this way.
they should leave for now but i think should be brought back by the people of Jaitser.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@rdjha, I agree. The reccommendation part doesn't look good. CVs could have shown some other reason.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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loved today's episode. BV creatives showed such an important point about love of their children and decisions made on behalf of them.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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your very right in this point...
no disrespect meant but people your deciding and jumping to conclusion without even bothering let the other make a decision for their life...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Correct me if I am wrong, but didn't Jagya decide on studying medicine aftr experiencing the poor facilities prevalent in Jetsar and part of his motivational speech to his family when convincing them to send him to Mumbai was that he wanted to come back and help his village. So his intention was already known to his family and they went on that cue from him and built the hospital for him. In fact it was he who surprised them with his change of heart.
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