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Posted: 12 years ago
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They've been rubbing it in saying that MSK is the ideal traditional tahzeeb wali ladki (ITWL) coz she wears those yards of fabric while Zoya is the outgoing non ideal type of ladki who according to the orthodox though process (In Asad's mind) can not be an ideal Baho or bibi for anyone...
Ok!! so let look at it... If MSK is that tehzeeb wali orthodox ladki...
1. She will NOT hug any male outside her family (i.e apart from her dad or brother)... no matter what the circumstances she hugged Asad back - that too publically and also let him clean her wound
2. She has to cover her hair in the true respect... not just put pallu on her head and let all her hair dangle outside... the reason why fellow muslim female sect wears pallu is to cover their hair competely, unlike in Hindu's its more from respect for elders.
3. She wouldn't be walking into Asad's room soo freely and holding his hands... If I haven't mistaken, physical closeness with the opposite sex (apart from father & brother) is not acceptable for ITWL
Watching QH for all these weeks (nearing 100th episode yay!! 👏)...Asya have actually never come physically close unnecessarily... accidently bumping into each other is the only type of closeness they have primarily shown...apart from that it's been more of 'Coffee wala luv" 😛
Forum members... positive debate on 2 sides of the coin: MSK / ZOYA
Does just wearing yards of fabric make u ITWL ???

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well i agree completely.

Traditional or orthodox women do not hug and touch strangers hands that are no related to them.
They do not walk into strangers rooms without their permission.
I may be mistaken but Humeira is also not a modern girl. She also wears Shalwar Kameez all the time.
i can't recall her touching Ayaan when he was physically hurt.. They are the best friends however she did not hug him when he was upset .
Zoya is modern. She never touched Asad when she brought biscuits when he was upset. Mr Asad Ahmen Khan always complained that she was always rude and came into his room without knocking.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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agree.asya are best.zoya was is and will be the best
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree. Will traditional muslim girls have men as best friends??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: mallik4ever

Agree. Will traditional muslim girls have men as best friends??

Yes ofcourse they can I guess... only will they be touching & hugging in public especially if they claim to be from a conservative or tahzeeb wali background is the question.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes
Traditional muslim women do have boys as their best friend. I am 1 of them. There are boundries and limits that we have to follow regarding this friendship.

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