@Shobs- my answers are in blue below
"Anonee: All said and done, was it right on AarYa's part to invite Radha to stay with them? Boa wisely tried to prevent it and Gayu reacted, yet, Yash insisted on Radha coming into SM. Wasn't that foolishness? Of all people in SM, it is Yash and Aarti who should understand Gayu's feelings most...because they themselves have been married before to other people. Would Yash like it if P was living in SM with them and co-parenting Ansh? Would Aarti like it if Arpita suddenly came to life? Aarti was never really jealous of Arpita because she was dead, but Yash knew the feelings of jealousy when P entered their lives."
I am looking at the appropriateness of AarYa inviting Radha to stay with them - from the viewpoint of a son and DIL inviting the mother whom they see afte 30 years to come and live with them. In addition, AarYa did not want to cast aside the mother who tended to their half-brother for 30 years and was worried about his acceptance by a father who had just taunted him with a blackening of face.
SP was never married to Radha nor lived in a separate establishment with her unlike Arpita and P. Besides as we have seen Radha keeps a low profile and has never interacted with SP after Ak-Ish wedding. So the comparison to Arpita and P is invalid. Also I do not think SP-G3 relation is so shaky that she is jealous of Radha and worried that she will steal SP from her.
Yes, I can understand she is terribly angry at being cheated and abused by Radha for swapping babies. But then again Radha feels the same at being abused and cheated by SP. The difference is that G3 has just become aware of those deeds so has not had time to process it in her head. However that applies to AarYa too and given who they are they cannot disrespect Badi Ma and not provide her shelter with them!
If the fact was only acceptance of Aakash, Gayu would have done it as she did after listening to his tirade about his 30 years of life. But having to see Radha in SM...isn't that too much for a woman to take?
As I mentioned earlier I believe G3's behavior would be the same even if Radha were not in SM because her wound is raw. As we saw earler she would lash out at the least vulnerable like Ansh.
In my opinion SP too does not think that Radha living in SM should affect G3. His viewpoint is that it Yash/Ak presence in SM that will affect her.
However, if it is as you say why can't G3 request AarYa to restrict Radha's movements so that she does not have to see her face. SM is big enough for that to be done. Why cannot G3 be proactive for once? If she is hesitant why does she not use Vidhi, Pari or Bua to convey her request to AarYa?
On top of all this is SP...he has not apologized for his mistake, he is also strutting about SM without feeling ashamed and he refuses to accept Aakash. It is for SP to find a suitable living arrangement for Radha but he is not going to do it. Since Yash is taking over all his father's responsibilities, could he also not have arranged for a separate living arrangement for Radha and visited her rather than install her in SM? He is going to pay for this foolishness with everything he holds dear. If Radha was not there in front of her eyes, Gayu would behave better. I am not saying all Gayu is doing is right, but I understand her better than I understand AarYa at this point!
Yash is doing his duty as a son to his Badi Ma - he is not looking at her from SP-G3 perspective, period. Yash would willingly and gladly pay and loose all his mateial wealth (he does not consider them dear to his life) as well as involvement in SP's business if it would result in G3 being happy and Akash being accepted by all in SM.
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