Does Asad love Zoya????

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Do u guys think he loves her????? No i don think...he is ATTRACTED TO HER...he had given answers to all of us for his mixed emotions towards her (or rather CVs have given us the answer)... throughout this serial...his looks/glare at one time and sudden change in his behaviour/looks the other time...we also got clear answers from the horse's mouth...din we...

BUT MY QUESTION IS,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,IS THIS TRUE LOVE?????????????????

NOOO

1) 1st of all, U need to understand your partner...when that itself is absent or u have a reverse meaning for whatever ur partner does...it is not love

2) Respect ur partner...does he????? he jus thinks she is an ill-mannered MIS-FIT for him and his family...(i could not tolerate when he said that she is A MIS-FIT NOT ONLY FOR HIM BUT FOR ANY GUY!!!!)...How dare he'll call her like that????? how can he decide for otherts...


3) He is judgemental towards her or rather in his entire life...he has been...(and calls her always so not understanding who is judgemental)...

4) He is just attracted to her...its a MERE attraction wherein u want her to romance with her, hold her when she falls and stare at her, dance with her and when it comes to MARRIAGE... A BIG NO AS SHE S NOT THE MARRIAGE MATERIAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


5) A perfect MCP...

6) Fine ...even if he is having such opinion about her...what is the main rule of love..."LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY AND ACCEPT FOR WHAT THEY ARE"...even if he had said that...i would try to change myself for u or even if u try to change as per me lil bit...we can still make a good pair...THODA SA TASALLI MILTI THI MUJHE...


MR. AKDU...actually U should have heard Dilshaad's convo during Khuran Khwani...IT WOULD HAVE BEEN AN EYE OPENER FOR HIM RATHER THAN THOSE FAT LADIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The understanding which is Mother has for Zoya OR the thought process which Najma possess saying that they both r the perfect JODI who would balance each other...U DO NOT HAVE...

ALL THESE THINGS CONCLUDE TO THE ORIGINAL PLOT WHICH I THINK THE CVs HAVE PLANNED... I would be happy to see that but Don make dem marrying , then Divorcing and then getting together...HOPE THEY DON FOLLOW OTHER STUPID SERIALS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope u all will agree...correct me if am wrong anywhere...

AS OF NOW AKDU DOES NT DESERVE OUR SELFLESS ZOYA...LETS SEE IF AYAAN DESERVES OR AKDU LEARNS HIS LESSONS RIGHT THIS TIME FROM HIS SO CALLED PICTURE-PERFECT TANVEER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and its NOT TOO LATE FOR HIM TO REPENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😕

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honestyfirst thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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He loves her but dont want to accept it ...
As he thinks she is not perfect wife for any guy ...
How dare he ...

Zoya is perfect she cares n loves ...asad ur mother knows better than u...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: honestyfirst

He loves her but dont want to accept it ...
As he thinks she is not perfect wife for any guy ...
How dare he ...

Zoya is perfect she cares n loves ...asad ur mother knows better than u...


Exactly...how cn he decide for others???? no one is a fool to loose a girl like Zoya...which he'll understand later...but gud dis show has shown the different side of a hero rather than always imagining a picture perfect one...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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But that is what 'Qubool hai' is about - learning to accept

He dsnt love her yet, but he cant stay away from her...an invisible string binds them and he'll realize his love for her once something major happens. In mangalpur he realized she meant a lot to him but has he mentally accepted that? no he has not. The min they got back he tried to fix the fact that he lost 'control' of his emotions.

AAK dsn't like loosing control of anything (not matter's at work, not personal issues- to the extent that he goes ahead and sets barriers e.g najma & zoya to come home on time to prevent things from potentially getting out of hand.) He is a fixer and likes to keep control at all times in order to fix & protect what he cares for and to prevent losses.

In this case he is fixing his wandering heart from possible 'Zoya invasion' and when he is saying she's not the right fit or is batameez or not marriage material, all he is doing is (even at a subconscious level) controlling his feelings for for from taking over him.

He rationalizes by instinct and is doing so even when intoxicated but he actions speak louder than his words. He is not liking this because to he feels that once you loose control you are left un-protected and vulnerable & of all the things in the world he does not want to loose his heart!

little does he know - Mitwa ishq per zor nahi! (There is no 'control' over love) 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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all love stories are different and even this love story would be different...there are acutally people in this world who form judgements about others and end up falling in love with each other!!!!!
just wait and watch
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Love might be a strong word for now. Attraction and a crush might be it for now😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think he wants to love her, but is blinded by his habit of prejudging/his rigid view of the world. He's thought of Zoya as his wife but then stops himself by saying that she's not wife material- so the thought has occurred to him, but he's stopping himself from going any further because he's convinced his viewpoint is right.

It's going to take a big shock to get him to change that viewpoint!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -ElmoFuj-

Love might be a strong word for now. Attraction and a crush might be it for now😆

i agree!! at d moment its just a Crush...which (we hope) will turn into Love!!😉😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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infect i too was heart broken on listening this misfit part of their convo... he loves her but doesn't want to accept, he accepts her only when she is in danger and he feels he was going to loose... i hope he needs his importance in his life soon...
Posted: 13 years ago
#10
He has never understood love...
he has only seen dejection, hurts, rejections...
these r the consequence of growing up earlier than ur age...
he is learning... slowly n slowly...
at least he did came out of his proportionate PRECONCEPTIONS of girl...
sooner or later he will understand that too...
love is a process... not an instantaneous flow...

For example-

He ran away from the place wen zoya was narrating her pain...
coz his heart ached badly...n he don't want zoya to see it...

For a man who has been deeply hurted by his own dad, his own blood relations... he will take time to trust a stranger 2...

At least zoya is lucky this much that he never faced such trustcrashes from her blood relations...<or is unaware of>

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