Uh-Oh The Precap, Can't Blame Gayatri!

Yes, I know that Yash is going to be very hurt when he hears all of this, but can you seriously blame Gayatri for this? Her son isn't actually her son, it's someone else's. That's got to hurt, that really does! =(

Yeah I can blame her...but not wholeheartedly the whole S clan seems to be very good a few sports that aren't quite Olympic worthy but they excel at none the less, like conclusion jumping and poor long range processing.
3G is hurt and well she should be and she's angry which a again she should be but she is also trapped in a mind set that says everything is "one or the other". Either Yash is her boy or Aakash is...the fact that she will take her disappointment and hurt out on everyone around her ...well that just doesn't speak well of her ability to process and focus on the source of her hurt... which is ultimately incredibly immature.

Originally posted by: gmhatcher

Yeah I can blame her...but not wholeheartedly the whole S clan seems to be very good a few sports that aren't quite Olympic worthy but they excel at none the less, like conclusion jumping and poor long range processing.
3G is hurt and well she should be and she's angry which a again she should be but she is also trapped in a mind set that says everything is "one or the other". Either Yash is her boy or Aakash is...the fact that she will take her disappointment and hurt out on everyone around her ...well that just doesn't speak well of her ability to process and focus on the source of her hurt... which is ultimately incredibly immature.

It's got to disgust her though. It's got to make her wonder who she was actually raising! She was raising someone else's child beyond her knowledge while her real son got such a bad life. I know that she loves Yash, but right now it's hard for her to comprehend because she's in a tough position. She shouldn't be in this position at all! But she is, so she is definitely going to start to take her anger out at Radha's son, because Yash is technically the one who will be her reminder of why her son was taken away from her. Of course, it isn't Yash's fault, but when she looks at Yash, she'll only see someone else's son from now on, and not her own.

She should have shouted this to SP instead of weaker people

I understand what you're saying but the fact of the matter is that because G3 is so very rigid about her definition of what makes family she is willing to throw away 30 years of love, adoration, and devotion because of blood. That is incredibly short sighted thinking. The fact that she can't or won't allow herself to recognize what it has taken from both herself and Yash to make their relationship as strong as it is and that others can be included without taking away from each other also makes me wonder where exactly does SP and the 2Ps fit into this family dynamic?

Originally posted by: gmhatcher

I understand what you're saying but the fact of the matter is that because G3 is so very rigid about her definition of what makes family she is willing to throw away 30 years of love, adoration, and devotion because of blood. That is incredibly short sighted thinking. The fact that she can't or won't allow herself to recognize what it has taken from both herself and Yash to make their relationship as strong as it is and that others can be included without taking away from each other also makes me wonder where exactly does SP and the 2Ps fit into this family dynamic?

Yup, she is ready to throw that away for the time being. But she still loves Yash, so once some time passes, she'll open her mind a bit more and will always want Yash by her side. However, for the time being, she's just in way too much pain and is so confused, that she can't make these sensible decisions yet.

Thoughtless behavior effects every relationship, and what G3 will expect after her fit of pique is the same relationship with the same Yash and that will be exactly what she won't get or be entitled too after thoughtlessly hurling hurtful words not at but about Yash in front of whole family.
It's very much like the saying "Think before you speak. Never say anything you may have to unsay."

Originally posted by: gmhatcher

Thoughtless behavior effects every relationship, and what G3 will expect after her fit of pique is the same relationship with the same Yash and that will be exactly what she won't get or be entitled too after thoughtlessly hurling hurtful words not at but about Yash in front of whole family.
It's very much like the saying "Think before you speak. Never say anything you may have to unsay."

Yeah, and that's exactly what's going on right now. Gayatri isn't thinking. She's letting her pent up pain and anger make her decisions for her. I'm sure she'll regret it later, but for the time being, this is how she'll perceive things. I honestly think I would do the same if I were in her position too.

I understand it from G3's place but I also see it from Yash's position and regardless of how angry or hurt G3 is by SP and Radhi, Yash has never been less than the perfect son and that is what she is overlooking in anger.
out of everything the loss of this relationship will be hardest on her. The irony is it's the one she should be most secure in.