wrong message sent out to the viewers - Page 7

Originally posted by: shrav_virman

@kays94 see dude i dunno whether you will watch virman scenes or no but in one of their scene,virat clearly was angry and frustated of accepting gifts from his family..even viren heard to that convo and he as a elder brother of virat knows how clearly virat would have felt after knowing about this truth..as i already said,this time viren should have left over to virat.. Jab time ayega,virat ko hi offer mil jayega..what is the use of giving a false contract like this when virat really wants to something on his own..and yess viren did all this to see virat happy but by doing this ,it would hurt virat more and i guess even viren knows it.

Originally posted by: shrav_virman

Exactly.. When you believe that we need not agree on everything,you should not have quoted my reply too..as you quoted,i had to reply you back..

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

I did not read through all posts,

but is it a wrong message... I guess NOT... first thing .. never search for messages in a fictional show..

next, I am a mother of 2 toddler boys... when they first started taking steps at 10 months.. we held their hand and helped .. but after 2-3 weeks, they refused to take my hand.. they used to sit and cry and refuse to walk.. but being a mom, I didn't want my babies to fall and get hurt.. but on the other hand they never wanted to hold my hand and started running .. they used to fall and cry.. when once I lift him and soothe him .. they were ready to walk on their own ... even climb steps on their own.. but never used to accept my hand ...they used to hold my hand only to get up when they fall and not to hold and walk .,.. What I did.. I let go off their hand, and they fell for quite a few times before gaining the confidence and started walking, running and climbing the stairs...

what I learnt from this ... I let go off my kids hand.. allow them to walk on their own.. and only support when they fall and hurt ...

A parent, is one who should be behind the kid and hold him, support him when he stumbles and not to try to walk with him .. as the kid does not like it.. while a life partner is one who should be next to each other, treading the path of life with mutual trust and understanding ...

Viren should let go of Virat and let him tread the path, as Virat is similar to my kid (not that i have a 28 year old kid😆) ..,..my kid wanted to prove to me that he can walk alone without my help to gain the self pride in himself..and a "a winning smile, a good job and claps" from me... Virat wants to prove to Viren and to the family that he too can walk alone to the destination and he wants to see the pride in himself and in the eyes of the family ...

you cannot hold the kid (Virat) all his life .. you have to leave them, let them go and allow them to grow and lend a hand when they need ...

Jeevika is right here, she understands Virat more than Viren in this situation.. call it her motherly instinct which a woman has in herself..

this is what I as a mom feel and this what I do with my kids .. parents should be a guide to show the way .. they cannot walk to the destination with the kid..

so no wrong message .. instead no message to be taken from any fictional show.,..

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

I did not read through all posts,

but is it a wrong message... I guess NOT... first thing .. never search for messages in a fictional show..

next, I am a mother of 2 toddler boys... when they first started taking steps at 10 months.. we held their hand and helped .. but after 2-3 weeks, they refused to take my hand.. they used to sit and cry and refuse to walk.. but being a mom, I didn't want my babies to fall and get hurt.. but on the other hand they never wanted to hold my hand and started running .. they used to fall and cry.. when once I lift him and soothe him .. they were ready to walk on their own ... even climb steps on their own.. but never used to accept my hand ...they used to hold my hand only to get up when they fall and not to hold and walk .,.. What I did.. I let go off their hand, and they fell for quite a few times before gaining the confidence and started walking, running and climbing the stairs...

what I learnt from this ... I let go off my kids hand.. allow them to walk on their own.. and only support when they fall and hurt ...

A parent, is one who should be behind the kid and hold him, support him when he stumbles and not to try to walk with him .. as the kid does not like it.. while a life partner is one who should be next to each other, treading the path of life with mutual trust and understanding ...

Viren should let go of Virat and let him tread the path, as Virat is similar to my kid (not that i have a 28 year old kid😆) ..,..my kid wanted to prove to me that he can walk alone without my help to gain the self pride in himself..and a "a winning smile, a good job and claps" from me... Virat wants to prove to Viren and to the family that he too can walk alone to the destination and he wants to see the pride in himself and in the eyes of the family ...

you cannot hold the kid (Virat) all his life .. you have to leave them, let them go and allow them to grow and lend a hand when they need ...

Jeevika is right here, she understands Virat more than Viren in this situation.. call it her motherly instinct which a woman has in herself..

this is what I as a mom feel and this what I do with my kids .. parents should be a guide to show the way .. they cannot walk to the destination with the kid..

so no wrong message .. instead no message to be taken from any fictional show.,..

Originally posted by: vishwa94

not a slap but slap with his words that what I meant