Confession drama - my views

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Confession drama is going on at present, and in true filmy style, misunderstanding, problem in communications have been thrown in. I don't like this track, even if CVs wanted to show that a woman cannot move on that easily on emotional/physical front, they could have shown it more logically. The intimacy issue seems illogical because:First thing is this was not a forced arranged marriage. Anandi was shown expressing her desire to marry Shiv at least three times. We can give benefit of doubt for her words 'Kar lijiye mujhse shadi' becuase she was mourning her mother's death and acting all zombi like. She must have thought about the relation when choti ma asked her to return to jagya- 'abhi bhi time hai'. But Anandi chose Shiv here (I dont remember what her reply was). Again during mandir sequence when Shiv asked then also she chose Shiv and not Jagya. Lastly, when Shiv refused to marry her (due to Jagya's manipulations), then also she was upset and ultimately Shiv agreed to marry her. She was happy during marriage and during the first day at KB. Suddenly she was shown scared of intimacy and avoiding Shiv. And those comments of a college going girl is just not tolerable. (How can they show such things in this serial?) If it was indeed necessary to bring out this intimacy issue, it should have been done before marriage. There was a long gap between engagement and marriage. They could have shown Shiv trying to hug Anandi (friendly hug just like with Ashima) and Anandi all scared. Shiv could easily understand Anandi's hesitation and his promise to not touch her until she is ready could have shown. Anandi could have deliberated her hesitation during the period before marriage and realization could have been before marriage (when DS told they should not meet till marriage). This way, they could still show current state of Anandi where she wanted to talk to Shiv but is unable to talk due to circumustances. But the drama has unfolded and there is no use posting about this. The idea of this post came when I read forum member's posts - how CVs lifted the button scene from forum or how they played exactly the same song which some members wished. So why not we can suggest them (apart from songs etc.) to show the tracks in logical way, to make the tracks closer to reality.
So now I want CVs to show confession ASAP, preferably in monday episode. Bring back the magical Ansh moments. If CVs don't like the word honeymoon, let them send Ansh to at least on vacation- away from problems of haveli, away from nasty comments of Sanchi and away from that chief minister also. They should even leave their mobiles at CH, otherwise they will be bothered about DS having headache or other similar things. Let them be together just like other newly married couple. And in the menwhile let Ganga start study, please show her an independent woman, marriage is not the only solution of womens' problem.
Sorry for the long post. Views of forum members are welcome. But one request- you can bash me for my views but please don't start bashing any actor/charecter, because that is not the intention of this post.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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@TM I agree and second that the confession drama is be sing over dragged now... It is time that they close this sooner and show other aspects as well like
How a woman balances her career and married life?
How a woman can become self-sufficient and strong through education and empowerment through Ganga which will send a very strong message?
I would also like if there is some handicrafts business or any other co-op opened for women to gain them emloyment
And many more the list is endless...

Good Post TM...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Of course CVs could have handled Intimacy issues in a more logical and matured manner.
And forum members not only suggested few romantic scenes and songs but many times requested CVs to apply more logic and sense.
And totally agree with you that unnecessary dragging of confession is stealing and diluting the charm of Ansh.
Then CVs can concentrate on more professional and other side tracks.
Edited by anshurg5 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post Rkalpana

Actually Anandi was very fine with shiv's touch before marriage. He held her in his arms ...she fed him...all was so cool.These incidents combined with her promises of moving on probably made Shiv think that she is really ready to move on. Her hesitation after marriage was also understandable to some extent..until Shiv promised her to give her the time she needs. She continued freezing to his mere touch even after that which didn't make any sense. Anyways i'm just glad that she is finally in love with him. If not for the over elaboration of the scenes and purposeful dragging...this confession track would have been so sweet.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The problem was Anandi froze then coz it was going to THE HOME RUN.
If she knew it was just going to progress slowly to first base, second base etc., she wouldn't have felt so threatened.

Romance has to be allowed to carefully build up. Rushing it just the little bit can douse out the flames like a cold shower. That's what happened to her.

And now that they are married - anytime she is comfortable with a little thing like letting her hand be on his neck when adjusting his sweatshirt - Shiv gets that "are you ready for the ultimate ?" look in his eyes and scares her off.

She would be good, if he went about it gently - not leaving her totally alone but not scaring her off with his hungry look. 😉. Anyways - this is all moot now - she is desperate and will probably attack him first before he has a chance to figure out what happened 😆. Am waiting. No pressure - even if they skip it on monday - this is sweet torture. Let Anandi initiate it...the more Shiv gets delayed - the stronger the possibility that Anandi won't get cold feet and back out.

Good post TM !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I wld love it if anandi initiates it first...shiv wld be bonkers :-D
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hooked

The problem was Anandi froze then coz it was going to THE HOME RUN.

If she knew it was just going to progress slowly to first base, second base etc., she wouldn't have felt so threatened.

Romance has to be allowed to carefully build up. Rushing it just the little bit can douse out the flames like a cold shower. That's what happened to her.

And now that they are married - anytime she is comfortable with a little thing like letting her hand be on his neck when adjusting his sweatshirt - Shiv gets that "are you ready for the ultimate ?" look in his eyes and scares her off.

She would be good, if he went about it gently - not leaving her totally alone but not scaring her off with his hungry look. 😉. Anyways - this is all moot now - she is desperate and will probably attack him first before he has a chance to figure out what happened 😆. Am waiting. No pressure - even if they skip it on monday - this is sweet torture. Let Anandi initiate it...the more Shiv gets delayed - the stronger the possibility that Anandi won't get cold feet and back out.

Good post TM !


@bold - hooked, I was talking about her freezing after Shiv promised her to take time . There was no reason for her to freeze after he assured her. She could trust Shiv that much! Anyways i guess it's all a part of the drag drama😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I AM SORRY BUT I DO NOT AGREE WITH YOUR POST TO SOME EXTENT...YES IT WOULD BE GOOD TO SHOW ANANDI MANAGING BOTH HOUSE AND WORK AND GANGA STUDYING BUT ABOUT THE INTIMACY PART...ITS NOT THAT ANANDI WAS NOT READY OR THAT SHE NEVER GAVE A THOUGHT ABOUT IT...SHE NEVER BLAMED SHIV THAT WHY IS HE DOING SUCH THINGS WHEN HE PROMISED ONLY FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN THEM...SHE HERSELF COULD NOT UNDERSTAND THAT IF SHE HAS ACCEPTED THE MARRIAGE FULLY AND SEES SHIV AS HER HUSBAND THEN WHY IS SHE NOT READY TO GIVE HERSELF COMPLETELY...SAYING AND DOING ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS...BEFORE MARRIAGE ANANDI MUST HAVE THOUGHT THAT IF SHE READY FOR MARRIAGE THEN SHE IS ALSO READY FOR SR BUT WHEN IT CAME IN FRONT OF HER SHE GOT WEAK KNEES AND EVEN HATED HERSELF FOR REMEMBERING HER PAST WHICH SHE THOUGHT SHE HAS FORGOTTEN...BV ARE ALWAYS TRY TO SHOW THE TOUGHEST SITUATION NOT FOR DRAMA BUT TO SHOW DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF LIFE...THAT'S WHY THEY HAVE SHOWED ANANDI AS A OVER-EMOTIONAL GIRL WHO FIRST FOUND IT DIFFICULT TO MOVE AND THEN FOUND IT DIFFICULT TO GIVE HERSELF COMPLETELY TO SHIV...THEY SHOWED THAT WITH PATIENCE AND RIGHT HANDLING ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE...NOW ANANDI IS NOT ONLY HEAD-OVER-HEELS IN LOVE WITH SHIV BUT ALSO WAITING FOR THEIR SR...IT'S NOT DADISA WHO DISTURBS ANANDI-SHIV...SHE NEVER CALLS ANAnDI TO COME TO HAVELI...EXCEPT FOR THE MAKAR SANKRANTI I HAVE NEVER SEEN HER INTERFERING IN THEIR LIFE AND OPPOSITE OF THAT SHE TRIES TO MAKE ANANDI UNDERSTAND THAT NOW SHE NEEDS TO CONCENTRATE MORE ON HER IN-LAWS...ITS ANANDI WHO HAD BEEN IGNORANT BUT EVEN NOW SHE HAS CHANGED...SHE TOOK PERMISSION FROM SHIV TO GO TO HAVELI AND IT'S NOT THAT SHE LEAVES HER DUTIES AND GOES THERE...SHE WENT WHEN HER WHOLE WORK WAS FINISHED AND SHE HAD NOTHING TO DO AND ALSO THAT SHE WANTED TO TALK TO GANGA REGARDING THE CASE AND HER STUDIES...SHE HERSELF SAID THAT IF SHE WOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT SHIV WAS LEAVING THEN SHE WOULD HAVE COME IMMEDIATELY...YES ONE THING I SHOULD AGREE THAT IS THAT DURING JAGYA'S MUMBAI TRIP IT WAS UNNECESSARY FOR ANANDI TO BE DRAGGED IN THE MATTER AND HER STAYING IN HAVELI FOR ONE WHOLE DAY...SHE COULD HAVE CALLED AND ASKED HAVELI MEMBERS WHETHER JAGYA HAS RETURNED OR NOT...STAYING THERE FOR WHOLE DAY DID NOT MAKE ANY SENSE TO ME.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agreed the confession drama is being dragged not required, but this is BV strategy, they will turn around just in time when people will get fed up.
Personally, I want shiv to be busy for some time more, and when he has work he is far away from any romance, that is his character. Anandi knowingly and unknowingly has given a lot of pain to him. Now it is her turn to worry and feel the pain. For shiv he knows he has to wait and has not put a time limit to it.
So let BV sent him anywhere in the world from Jaipur, not return for some time, ignore calls, even he can go to london for rural development project, have nice time with Ashi.Let anandi get frustrated and spent time with her new interest in life Ganga. Let her shift to haveli make them happy with her gyan and beautiful home management. CH mein aise hi kuch kam nehi hein.
This is my personal view as i cannot forgive her stupid reaction after marriage, even after she had time given by her husband. This was ridiculous for me. Guys this is totally my view , so do not get annoyed.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dsupriya

@TM I agree and second that the confession drama is be sing over dragged now... It is time that they close this sooner and show other aspects as well like
How a woman balances her career and married life?
How a woman can become self-sufficient and strong through education and empowerment through Ganga which will send a very strong message?
I would also like if there is some handicrafts business or any other co-op opened for women to gain them emloyment

And many more the list is endless...

Good Post TM...

@ bold, thanks for the nice idea. Hope CVs get this co-op idea. Education is not necessarily for job only. Job is empowerment for one person, but co-operative will empower a group of persons.

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