Purvi so far, has taken all the decisions of her own, whether it is giving up Arjun, getting him married to Ovi, Asking him to give Ovi her rights, leaving Mumbai for Kolkata, getting married to Onir and Coming back to Mumbai.
All these in the name of her aai happiness, Ovi's happiness , Ovi's health etc. She does not take other people's situations/ feelings once she make up her mind.be it Arjun, Archana or Onir. They are left to deal with the situations arising out of her "sacrifices"in the way they have to. So holding other people solely or largely responsible for the mess she has created in her own life by taking these decisions is not correct.
If she sacrifices on her own tomorrow for Ovi's sake or whatever reasons she deems fit, there is no point in blaming others because as per her past records, she listens to nobody. So please, first let the situation unfold before passing on the blame.
Archana as a mother has to balance between the needs of her various children, adopted or otherwise . Manav as a father has to take care of his child. Does not mean that they are neglecting one or the other .After bringing up Purvi in the most loving manner, if Archana has to be judged continuously for each word and gesture, I wish that she had not adopted at all!
My views again. No bashing please.
Edited by vishwap - 12 years ago