Bani in KS - A Misfortune!!!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Its so strange that people always blame Bani for every misfortune in the Walia Household. I just wish if I could turn back time, I would have not let the three sisters into that House no matter what!!! Even if they had to live in penury!!! As if the Walia house and its members are all 'doodh ka dhula' hua! 😡

And its always Jai, Jai and Jai. I love Jai's character myself but I am more of a JnB camper, so I think that he has made his fair share of mistakes and some of them are so huge that they cannot be transferred to somebody else, however much we wnts. And I am still not talking of the ONS over here! 😡 Why does he drink every time there's a problem and pass out? Can't he go out like a man and solve his problems, using his business acumen? No wonder, Bani always have to do something stupid to save him.

I am not supporting Bani over here but this really takes the cake. The Creatives are hell bent to resurrect the Jai that they have lost due to their atrocious handling of the ONS and the resultant fallout, and the fall guy is …. You all guessed it right, Bani! Who else? 😭 The most easily available, hyper, over-the-counter punching bag!

The creatives will never resurrect Bani and Pia no matter what, because they have understood pretty well wherein the strength of their once-classy now-crassy Show lies. So they are going full frontal on their Mission. 👎🏼

At least Bani's been proactive, she meets the problems head along not like the Walias, hiding everything behind walls and sweeping everything under carpets. What's the problem in letting Bani know about the Senior Walia's affair with Barnali and the following consequences? If she's a Bahu of the so-famous and revered Walia household and if she has to act and behave accordingly, she must be treated as a Bahu in the first place. Everything is kept hidden from her. Why? ❓

And Sahil, he's my hero. 😡 😡 😡 He does the mistake, blames it on Bani. Babes, probably you don't know that if you are borrowing a huge amount of money from any source, be it a financial institution or any individual, you have to do checks and cross-checks on that. And here, you have gone and taken that HUGE amount of money from an unknown person. And then you have the cheek to call Bani names? ☢️ Yes, you will na, after all she hasn't done anything for you. I really wish Bani wouldn't keep on thinking about these useless people and jeopardize her love, life and everything – really ungrateful they are. It would have served better if Saahil had got this thappad on the jagraata day. 😡

And Jigs didn't Barnali tell you that you should question your stupid son Saahil about the money that he had collected to buy the shares? You just tried to find out and then your insistence gave way, while Bani will have to find that out for you too. Why? 😳

If Bani really comes to know about Barnali's involvement with the Walia family, will it make her love for Jai and his family dim? If Jai and others think so, then I am sorry, probably he doesnt deserve Bani. Bani only knew Barnali as the opponents of the Walia's in the business starta, how on earth is she supposed to know that she is Jai's stepmom or whatever? She's using options that are available to her. I know some of them are highly debatable but KS is now a Show of 'First Among Equals'. I will be happy if they show Bani dying somehow or leaving Jai and goign away somwehere for ever. Jai will then also get a chance to start his life afresh without the huge bumbling mistakes of Bani. Let it be that way. At least, it will take away her hurt, her pain of being the taken-for-granted person in the Walia House. Surely she is the one character in KS who will never get her due.

All these are being done so that we forget the ONS, the 'dhandewaali' incident and stuff, but is it worth it? The pain that Bani has suffered all the time for her loved ones, can it be washed away by the triviality of the multitude of sins and mistakes that others commit? I don't have an answer but I know for sure Bani will always be a severely flogged horse.

KASAMH SE IS DEAD!!! LONG LIVE KASAMH SE!!!👏👏👏


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Posted: 18 years ago
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👏 👏 👏 ,sangita was waiting for ur comments really very eagerly,even i am a strong JB camper ,hence even after themyriad stupidity dished out am still watching to see them together as a normal couple(now ekta minds that 😡 )
more than bani am very angry with creatives they have made a royal mockery of bani the one we fell for , their excellent storyline 😡 ,a card party ,wager compnay shares and bani is playing to save it oh plzzz give me a break 😡 and sahil factor am sure rano is going to side him but i really want bani to give bacck to him scream that be a man and accept his mistakes(again wishful thinking) 😡
just want and pray bani declines the card offer getz bck home to her drunk husband with a psycho sis around 😡

i thought balaji made serials for the audience keeping in mind what suits our taste and intelligence but seemz KS has been developed suddenly for ektas private collection under the title-comedy of profound errors

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Sangita,I too was a jb camper but no longer.Bani gets my goat these days 😡 .sorry!jai has made huge mistakes,no doubt about that,but inspite of that,perhaps its the creatives way of handling or the dialogues and for sure Ram's histrionics,he comes across as a a normal human being , his drop dead looks notwithstanding.
Bani's character unfortunately doesn't strike a chord in me anymore!!sorry again!She's saccharine sweet and that makes me sick. 🤢 The dialogues or should I say monologues given to her fit for a mother not a wife. 🤢
No wonder he fell into pia's arms.Atleast he got unadulterated passion and love(or so she maintains) from her 🤢 🤢
The serial is in a right royal mess and we are the losers. 😭 😭 😭
Have put up quite a few posts today.Have to give vent to my frustration.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey Sangita:

Very well thought out and written post on the state of affairs or should I say character of KS. The ONS fiasco flopped completely and to correct that the creatives are making more of a mess everyday.

I agree with you on the point of Bani being treated like a Bahu. I too do not see the point of everyone hiding the relationship of Barnali with the Walia family.

Yes KS is near death. If they are planning on reviving it - it's a mammoth task.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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You are very much right sangeeta. There is nothing worth to watch now in Kasamh se. The creatives have really killed all characters. I really wonder what they are trying to do with Bani. They are showing her really stupid.
And yeah, even I agree, why she is blamed for everything. but one thing, its because she never opens her mouth. She could have told, that I came to know bout sahil-barnaali only later..infact she had come to know just few dats before..
if people are blaming bani, she herself is also one of the reason for it. When she expects Jai to tell everything to her, why doesnt she say anything at all to Jai? And when she gets a chance to Justify herself why does she never do it. If she does, then everything will be smooth and the serial will end fast...thats y creatives are spoiling it this way.
I feel really bad that the serial is going this way....it had started really good...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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sangita i agree with u that bani will never get any encouragement from this so called walia's. No one in family gives her the rights and involvement which a bahu is supposed to have. They just don't want to ruin the image of walia family by telling her barnali's truth. Even in yesterday' episode when it came out that bani was aware of sahil and barnali deal no one, not even massi or aditya or dadi tried to know the reason for her not telling the truth and no body showed any confidence in bani. so they r all selfish people who do not really cares for her.

and for jai i must say he is a person who don't want to face problems. he is an escaper and at least bani is having guts to face the truth/problems.

earlier i was also a J*B jodi supported, but now even i think it will be better if they part and start a new life and this will be better for both, but of course i in no way want J&P together
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Like you even i am/was/still am a JB camper, the characters aren't half as interesting apart as they are together. Earlier, their interaction made me feel that they were perfect for each other, they complemented each other perfectly. Now it looks like they're driving each other mad. Don't know what the reason is, maybe Bani's over the top sweet-lady act or Jai's terror struck behaviour with respect to Bani finding out about anything or both coupled with a lot of other factors.
But i don't think that the creatives are achieving the ressurection of Jai whatsoever. Because i'm sure Jai driving himself to a drunken stupor is something no one wants to see. In the process, Bani's character is also being mercilessly butchered. The silent strength she used to emanate, her dignified presence has been missing for a long time now, ever since the park road raaz came out. Jumping blind into missions of self destruction isn't part of the Bani whom i loved.
Finally what the creatives are achieving is a regular saas bahu soap, which strikes a chord with the 10-11 audience. Not with people who are craving to see something different for one on Indian telly.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: varun261969

Sangita,I too was a jb camper but no longer.Bani gets my goat these days 😡 .sorry!jai has made huge mistakes,no doubt about that,but inspite of that,perhaps its the creatives way of handling or the dialogues and for sure Ram's histrionics,he comes across as a a normal human being , his drop dead looks notwithstanding.
Bani's character unfortunately doesn't strike a chord in me anymore!!sorry again!She's saccharine sweet and that makes me sick. 🤢 The dialogues or should I say monologues given to her fit for a mother not a wife. 🤢
No wonder he fell into pia's arms.Atleast he got unadulterated passion and love(or so she maintains) from her 🤢 🤢
The serial is in a right royal mess and we are the losers. 😭 😭 😭
Have put up quite a few posts today.Have to give vent to my frustration.

Varun, thanks a lot for your comments. Believe me, I dont want to see this Bani too. I want that old Bani who used to give it back to Jai as good as she got.

But I dont agree with the way Jai is fighting the problems now or is he fighting anything? He just lets everything go. I wonder how he manages to run such a huge business or should i say, managed to run? I dont remember seeing him doing anything regarding his business at all. Even if Saahil had managed to save the day for the Walia Business, still he and teh other shsould have bothered their pretty heads of how to normalise the situation and return the money.

Leave aside Bani, everybody is busy running him down. Ranveer and the Dixt property at Mt. Abu, Saahil and this Barnali fiasco. Why doesnt Jai pull up his sleeves instead of wallowign in drinks and self-imposed pity?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Absaloutely true Sangita!

Nowadays we only seem to blast Bani, support Jai, and for those 24 hours following the ONS, blast him as well!!

But you've understood Banis position in the family perfectly!............I wouldn't blame her for going round trying to find out the secrets.............even though the PR was annoying, she ahd a right to know!!

I can't believe Banis the scapegoat of the Walia family!............whatever hapenned to that woman who had the guts to get Pia married in Jai's own home?!...........who his Ranveer aroudn the head to protect her sisters honour?!

The Bani running around in the dark, looking through cupboards and taking all the blame is no the same one!

Truly........KS is dead!😛

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Posted: 18 years ago
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sangita,
that's exactly my point.You are absolutely right in saying that jai doesn't do anything but then jai is not allowed to do anything what with bani,sahil,ranveer and jigs trying to control his affairs....too many cooks spoiling the broth......inspite of all this somehow his dialogues save him from being a complete irritant wheras bani with her never ending sermonizing and sacrificing and hiding really irritates the hell out of me 😡 .I know she means well but can't she adopt a less bugging way of doing all this.Her sister act with peabrain also puts me off 😡 .pia is her blind spot.Ther's is no other justification for her love for pia.'I'll give u whatever u like that is mine,even if I like it'..eewee...indeed.The dialogue writer needs to be strangled for this mish mash stuff.
somehow jai still has retained some semblance of his earlier self whereas bani seems absolutly out of control!

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