Bad vs. Good - Hate vs. Love!

Why is it so that we like bad-boys better than the nice ones... we also like the nice ones, but secretly we find this certain something in the bad ones?? We hate bad-boys for the way they act but we also lose interest in them as soon as they start getting nice. Although we say Nirvan is bad because he's misusing his father's love, not helping his sisters and simply being selfish; although we hated Yudi for hurting his parents, for being mean, selfish and egoistic... we still love them?! Why is it so?

Is bad attractive? 😉😉😉

What say, guys?

Bad IS attractive - because a bad boy gets what he wants without fear of consequences. No one wants a sissy boy who has to think 100 times before he makes decisons - a bad boy may be rude, but at least he is confident, and that confidence is sexy.

Every girl wants to be the one who "changed" a bad boy - who made him realise the importance of her love.

Originally posted by: psawyer

Bad IS attractive - because a bad boy gets what he wants without fear of consequences. No one wants a sissy boy who has to think 100 times before he makes decisons - a bad boy may be rude, but at least he is confident, and that confidence is sexy.

Every girl wants to be the one who "changed" a bad boy - who made him realise the importance of her love.

I agree bad boys are attactive, but that doesnt mean good boys are sissys!! We do find so many good looking, confident and smart good guys, definitely they may not be as attractive as the bad boys, but still, any day i would prefer to go for a guy who is less attractive personality wise but has many other good qualities like a good character, confidence smartness, talent, etc. Infact they are quite good decision makers too, and incase u are confused, they may help you also arrive at the right decision, clearly listing their pros and cons. They dont blindly take decisions thinking only about themselves, but they do give considerations to others too when they take decisions. Since these bad boys are of the selfish type, they dont have to think about anything or anyone while taking decisions, so it comes quicker for them. Good boys do have good personalities, but its just that their personalities may not stand out as that of these extrovert bad boys! But individually taken, it might be much more fun to spend time with these good guys, once u get to know them 😉 !!

And ya, i do agree even i am one of the girls who may get attracted to bad boys, but i make sure this attraction is just for myself and for time pass of my 2 senses, mainly eyes and ears 😉 !! Wont want to get close to such boys and would rather maintain a safe distance, so that in the end i dont end up falling for them unknowingly also 😉 !

There was an article posted by someone long time back regarding 'Y good girls fall for bad boys' and they had referred these bad boys as 'sociopaths', and their characteristic traits were also mentioned in detail 😉 !! Actually there was a term for girls who fall for these guys too, it is some kind of disorder 😕 !! Just imagine, we girls dont even know we suffer from such a disorder 😆 !!

I will try to get the link of that site, and post it in here 😊!!

BAD....sure they can be cocky....but there usually the more attractive ones...sure it sounds shallow....but its true.... 😊

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

I agree bad boys are attactive, but that doesnt mean good boys are sissys!! We do find so many good looking, confident and smart good guys, definitely they may not be as attractive as the bad boys, but still, any day i would prefer to go for a guy who is less attractive personality wise but has many other good qualities like a good character, confidence smartness, talent, etc. They do have good personalities but its just that their personalities may not stand out as that of these extrovert bad boys! But individually taken, it might be much more fun to spend time with these good guys, once u get to know them 😉 !!

And ya, i do agree even i am one of the girls who may get attracted to bad boys, but i make sure this attraction is just for myself and for time pass of my 2 senses, mainly eyes and ears 😉 !! Wont want to get close to such boys and would rather maintain a safe distance, so that in the end i dont end up falling for them unknowingly also 😉 !

There was an article posted by someone long time back regarding 'Y good girls fall for bad boys' and they had referred these bad boys as 'sociopaths', and their characteristic traits were also mentioned in detail 😉 !! Actually there was a term for girls who fall for these guys too, it is some kind of disorder 😕 !! Just imagine, we girls dont even know we suffer from such a disorder 😆 !!

I will try to get the link of that site, and post it in here 😊!!

Not saying that all good guys are sissies...not at all. But the fact remains, that a girl is attracted to a bad guy because of his confidence, overbearing personality and that "go-getter" attitude that often remains unnoticed in good guys. Not that they don't have it, its just that they play fair, and playing fair means that their deeds remain under the surface - whereas a bad boy is loud and proud. That's the diff, and that's the reason girls are attracted to that. Besides which, a girl always thinks that a bad boy who can take care of himself will also take good care of her...not that it works out that way.......

certaninly vasu di..kya answer hai 👏 ...absolutely agree....

Originally posted by: psawyer

Not saying that all good guys are sissies...not at all. But the fact remains, that a girl is attracted to a bad guy because of his confidence, overbearing personality and that "go-getter" attitude that often remains unnoticed in good guys. Not that they don't have it, its just that they play fair, and playing fair means that their deeds remain under the surface - whereas a bad boy is loud and proud. That's the diff, and that's the reason girls are attracted to that. Besides which, a girl always thinks that a bad boy who can take care of himself will also take good care of her...not that it works out that way.......

In case of a bad guy, its all about his personality and attitude! And somehow its only these traits which are shown outside, so girls get attracted to them easily, without giving enough time to understand their other important aspects! But if they give enough time to understand their character and other behavioural aspects as to how they behave with elders, etc., they will get a clear view of how the person actually is. But somehow, cos of young age, girls dont tend to understand these things! Love is not only about outer qualities, inner qualities are more important in the long run for a relationship to be a successful and a happy one!

When bad boys do something good, it's simply adroable! I dun think the bad ones are bad ALL the time. Of course, they're also nice to others in some situations... the thing that attracts about them is their confidence which IS sexy as ps said.
But yaar, it is so annoying if boys are nice all the time... this just becomes boring and a real turn-off.

Bad boys are more fun to be with as they're always looking for crazy stuff to do and are quite adventurous.

Hey amy, circuit really looks cho chweet in ur siggy yaar 😳 !! Really feel like pulling his cheeks 😳 !!

Oi APPU! Not circuit - Sarkeshwar 😆