If I were to guess the number one reason for pain and suffering, it would be a closed heart. Tears help to open our hearts. And an open heart allows you to feel a connection with significant others. SAPNE ...just did that today...
There is often valuable information in those tears of Shail,Gunjan ,Rachna or even Rajiv &Mayank. If you can stay with the discomfort, you can discover what the tears are about.Crying is distressing when we don't know why crying happens. It may help to know that we will cry as a way to release pent up emotion. The trio had different situations to contend in their current standings.I do not always know why they are crying.Sometimes the reason is blocked from awareness due to the way my thinking is structured. Yet i can trust in the fact that human beings do not just invent sadness; tears are an expression of our real emotions.
Here are my personal experiences with tears in sapne ...today. I wonder if others have felt the same.Oddly enough, I am embarrassed at being emotionally touched by what I feel in the episodic moment. This is ironic since I sincerely believe it is inherently human to feel deeply and that there is no need for shame.each tear gave me a reason to drop my guard today...gunjan cries because she s hurt and she caused hurt..shail s was a depressive cry caught in dual crisis...Shail s firm tear at the door of Rajiv s residence was a winner for me ...why so?because the undropped tear had so much words to even decipher.her inner strength of combat to even defy the challenge and do whats right and at the same time,cry out that 'no matter what,my love for gunjan stays the same even if the whole world gangs up against it'...that scene won half of the battle for me.Im convinced mothers need not be biological ,true love is what maketh it.While flashbacks commanded wily tears ,the encounter of the duo at the door was worthy of a silent assault of why's? Rachna 's tears ,altough somewhat tainted with hatred still has a little percent waiting to shout out the question of truth. A drop of tear from Rachna watching Gunjan leaving the room affirms her ...i saw a concerned sister there ...i really did! Even a silenced expression of sadness in Rajiv s eyes displayed rather subtle watching Gunjan is of a good take.and tear worthy ..(when a bunch of performances affects a viewer ,the applaud goes to the artists whom has delivered.kudos to the cast!)
Crying takes me to a place that's childlike for I feel exactly as I did when Gunjan cried . I feel vulnerable and afraid. Yet, this childlike energy helps me know myself better.Feeling joy in tears is a new experience for me. I feel this especially when someone else is crying with me. This kind of connection feels warm . Yet it feels real. sapne...makes it okay to cry…and to feel deeply.
I believe that tears are heaven sent because they lead to a different place. So when I cry today I also quietly rejoice. I know that my heart is opening and that I've taken one more precious step in discovering that sapne suhaane ...has its heart on the right place...
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