Love, Loyalty and Arhi- Part1 - Page 11

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: golpokobita


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Arnav did wrong not only to lavanya, he did wrong to lot of people. he was attracted to khushi, he knew and he was not aware of the fact that, it could be love. cause he never believed in love. and attraction, i am sure, was not a new thing to him. all his relationships (with girls) were based on attraction, for sure, like the one he had with Lavanya. what surprised him and made him deny his attraction to khushi was, may be, khushi's background. he was confused, how could he be attracted to such a girl and he wanted to get rid of it and engaged with lavanya. he was already with lavanya and he just agreed to marry her after feeling the attraction to khushi... his relatipon with lavanya remains the same, the only change was he started feeling for khushi..
and regarding arnav'sharsh words to khushi, those are unforgiveable. just because the girl was poor(but bold), she had go through such torture! i hated the show initially specially beacuse of all those humiliations.
and, yes, i am bengali!

umm...i dont think arnav was attracted 2 la. The relation was only 2 keep away the marriage thing frm his life! R8?arnav used 2 b a jerk that time! I felt pity 4 la nd khushi .i would've 4gav him,if he didnt announce his engagment wid la, after the dewali scene! By then he should've realized his luv 2wards khushi. But sigh:-(
Btw, m also a Bengali!:-D
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: bong.girl

Yeh ishq nahin aasaan
Bas itna samajh leejay
Ik aag ka darya hai
Aur doob ke jaana hai

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind to save a lifetime of misery and heartache. Indifference is worse than hate. Living in a limbo isn't going to help. If you can't make someone happy, you certainly don't have the right to make someone unhappy. Do yourself a favor, first and foremost by being loving, don't stifle it under obligations. Be true to yourself. Don't let several lives to be ruined by acting as a martyr at the altar of family and social obligations.


👏 In a big way I agree with this! I think these are tenants that we should live by.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: pinq

umm...i dont think arnav was attracted 2 la. The relation was only 2 keep away the marriage thing frm his life! R8?arnav used 2 b a jerk that time! I felt pity 4 la nd khushi .i would've 4gav him,if he didnt announce his engagment wid la, after the dewali scene! By then he should've realized his luv 2wards khushi. But sigh:-(
Btw, m also a Bengali!:-D


Exactly... If he didn't announce his engagement then it would have been ok...by the announcement of engagement he gave hope to La about their relationship which meant to be nothing ho gaya... BTW i am too bengali...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Naach_Basanti


But my question is whether it is okay for 2 pople who are already committed to others to fall in love with other people? Of course Shyam was a conniving and cheating 🤬, but in certain way didn't Arnav and Kushi do what we accused Shyam of doing, may be at a much lesser scale?


We could debate about whether it is okay, if falling in love is something that could be planned.

Khushi was engaged to Shyam under stressful circumstances. No one really asked for her consent. Her Buaji was the one who literally held her hand while SHyam forced the ring down her finger. She was given no time to assimilate her feelings for Arnav.

Arnav, as we know very well was never interested in marriage or love. He was very clear when he brought Lavanya to stay with him that he was not interested in marriage. He announced his engagement as a rash decision when he realized he was developing strong feeling for Khushi on Diwali night.

So "commitment" in both the above circumstances is also pretty debatable.

When Arnav's feelings got stronger he came clean with Lavanya and broke it off with her. So it cannot be even compared with what Shyam did to Anjali.

It may not have been wrong for Shyam to fall in love with kHushi while being a married man. But trying to marry Khushi while still being married to Anjali is undebatably despicable.






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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rini_kat



Exactly... If he didn't announce his engagement then it would have been ok...by the announcement of engagement he gave hope to La about their relationship which meant to be nothing ho gaya... BTW i am too bengali...

i know that rini.and jannat
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Posted: 12 years ago
Thanks for the post!

Had similar questions while watching the scene (reruns :P).

My analysis -

The attraction they shared that night was instinctive and they both were not in control and it just showed

Arnav prided himself to always be in control of not only himself and but also all situations around him. For the very first time comes along a slip of a girl, who defies him openly and makes him completely mad when she is around.

He looks at it as pure physical attraction initially and even after the almost kiss he questions himself as to how he could get so weak! I think his announcement to Lavanya was a self preservative act to regain his lost control. Even his relationship with Lavanya was on his terms and seemed a safe haven to get away from the tumultuous one with Khushi.

They have always shown that externally his character has always been grey with shades of darkness at times but with a hidden soft heart.

I think IPK has been more true to life in its bold handling of human emotions and situations. We do see such things happening. If we look at it morally, he opts out of the relationship with Lavanya as soon as he realizes that his feelings for Khushi are deeper and it is not fair to La to be kept in the dark.

The dhak dhak track on the other hand showed Khushi's innocence in understanding the feelings she has for Arnav and also not knowing how to deal with them.

Shyam on the other hand wanted to keep his apple and eat it too. Totally unacceptable as he was a married man unwilling to let go of his wife but at the same time wanting Khushi in his life!

Edited by sheanuzz - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Part 2 updated, can be read here-
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3389182#73800954

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