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Joyel

@Joyel

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Posted: 12 years ago

Do u agree it is the right time for Sandhya to become a mother,if bhabho forcing her continuously?

If she obeys Bhabho,whether it is a hindrance to become an IPS officer?

I saw Nache Baliye reality show where female married celebrities dances well with their partners without showing any fear or care about their health even though they become mother of one or two kids .So sandhya can now becomes a mother and after two years she can join Police academy withoutany fear of health problems.

So Sandhya's kid could be taken care by Suraj or Bhabho.

Negative and positive comments are expected from u...

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-Liebe-

@-Liebe-

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Posted: 12 years ago

i dnt knw...but surya will not consummate by forcing...i think surya will consummate before ips track,then baby and new twists.😲...oops its my prediction after seeing promo and spoilers🤪...

but dabh cvz may give surprise also...i cant say more as they r different...

if they consummate before... and baby born then bhabo may accept for sandhya's dream or stop her by baby...

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UMDU

@UMDU

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nice post. However I do not subscribe to Bhabo's views. Studying for the civil services is no mean task. It is not like Nach Baliye. Sandhya has to study 12 to 14 hrs a day for almost a year if she has to pass. It is one of the most difficult exams in the country. Having a child always increases a mothers responsibility. Even if Bhabo and Suraj help out, a mother is expected to do a lot in the early years of upbringing. I do not think in the Rathi family scenario Sandhya's studying is possible. If Sandhya goes in for a child then she should forget about her IPS dreams and become a full time beendani that Bhabo wants or take up some other less demanding profession . If she waits for the child to grow up and then appear , then she would have crossed the age limit eligibility. So either way, I find it a difficult proposition.

Edited by UMDU - 12 years ago

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Bharathi

@b2011

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Posted: 12 years ago

Preparing for IPS exam is tough and they need to study for long hours like Sandhya used to study in her parents house, only study without any disturbance. Having a baby and then studying, that too in Rathi house is an impossible task. So it is not the right time for Sandhya to have a kid, better after she becomes an IPS officer.

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-rp-

@-rp-

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Posted: 12 years ago

Firstly if they decide to go for baby because of bhabbo's pressure,then they will lose respect in my eyes. having a kid means you are taking a responsibility ,it not like 15day test or proving to be a good cook.they should only go for baby if they are mentally and physically prepared for it. if they are doing it because of pressure then they are doing injustice to unborn kid.
but having said that if they do it because of their own wish and take responsibility then they can do it.it will be hard for sandhya after that but if she has will she can still become ips officer with help of suraj. haven't Mary kom proved it to the whole country, she won olympics medal in boxing even after being mother of three.

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DILIP KUMAR GUPTA

@dilipkumarvit

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Posted: 12 years ago

Sandhya and Suraj share tea.

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Fatima

@Fatima_Q

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Posted: 12 years ago

Bringing a life into this world is one of the biggest decisions a couple makes...partly because the decision to do so is irreversible. Once a child is born...you can't return it...it has to become someone's responsibility.

I don't know what the CVs have planned...I was caught off guard with Bhabo's ultimatum to Daisa. But SurYa, and especially Sandhya are in no way ready to have a baby. 😕

Sandhya has a lot to learn about family life...she's book smart...but she still makes silly mistakes in terms of every day familial life. Even when she was handling her neice...she was having a hard time. Plus her priorities are just so different right now.

Sure people have children and then go back and complete their education...but it is very complicated and not very common. I don't think Bhabo should force the issue as far as SurYa are concerned.

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Shirin

@-Ayeshi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

I agree with rp n Fatima ji...!!! Its not like that a woman can not make career when a baby comes but Sandy is young n more importantly not yet ready 4 a baby...!!! Be mentally prepared is a huge thing...!!! And until she is ready... SurYa should not have a kid...!!! And it should be a decision of husband n wife only... No way in laws should interfere between the couple...!!!

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Ritu

@Ritu-

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Posted: 12 years ago

i dont think that if sandhya became a mother it will stop her from becoming ips officer. i am sure that she can manage both looking after baby n work well. Its not right for babho to force sandhya to have a baby. Sandhya n suraj should become parents when they are ready mentally n physically.

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Ritu

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Ayeshi-
I agree with rp n Fatima ji...!!! Its not like that a woman can not make career when a baby comes but Sandy is young n more importantly not yet ready 4 a baby...!!! Be mentally prepared is a huge thing...!!! And until she is ready... SurYa should not have a kid...!!! And it should be a decision of husband n wife only... No way in laws should interfere between the couple...!!!

agreed. couldnt have said it better.

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