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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 12 years ago

One section believed in their 'sources' and blamed Gul

Another section refused to believe Barun wanted a break , though he is on a break till April and he looks ready to collapse

One section blamed Gul of playing dirty and getting the show closed, and believed she conspired

Another section said Barun lied about break and believed media which said he has an ekta movie, and believed he conspired

One section calls another delusional for believing in sources

But another section believed the worst of Barun and acted delusional

One section worships a hero who has not even entered the show

And another section is against the hero who has not even made an appearance in the show

One section hates the hero who has entertained for 18 months in favour of a hero who has never appeared

Another section is obsessively stalking his every move though he wants to move on with life

One section bashes everyone for the sake of the heroine who has always given her best for the show

Another section bashes the heroine to counter her fans who attack the hero for the sake of the heroine

And both sections believe the other is bad

Both sections believe the other is mean

...And there is no end to this

No one has been spared

The producer Gul

The actor Barun

The actress Sanaya

The director Lalit Mohan

The script writer Gautam Hegde

We came to the forum for the love of the show

Today all there is left is hate,

Hate for everyone linked to the show

Hate for each other

Hate that corrodes the beautiful memories of the show

Of course it is a free forum and everyone is a free agent

Of course everyone has a firm opinion

Only one question, will this hate destroy the remaining love for the show and all that it gave us and all the people who worked to make it such a beautiful treasure?

Will it destroy the joy of those fans who still love the show and both the actors ?

Yes the show is over and we have nothing else to discuss

But in the name of hate do we need to ruin the 18 months we loved?

some good comments:

QUOTE=itsmadsera] Nice post Rima. The condition of the forum is like a war zone. Egos has overpowered the sensitiveness of the individuals

Everyone are to be blamed here. First accusations has gone overboard on the lady who has given the serial

Now accusations are going overboard on the person who has contributed to the serial for 1.5 years. Actually people forgot that IPKKND is a bang on package

If story or actor or actress or anyone didnt contribute to the series, we would never be in this forum. We have made this number one forum in IF because we loved all. If one is not there also, it wouldnot have been same

I agree everyone are feeling bad for the closure, including the ones who asked for closure. But perception of things are different.

One thinks barun at fault, one think gul at fault, one think sanaya doesnt want to work, one thinks barun is lying and the list goes on.

We actually dont know anything, then why take out our frustrations and perceptions on those persons. if i support barun - it is undue rule in this forum that i have bashed gul or i have bashed sanaya or I am delusional girl

I support him because I feel he is free to do anything. I didnt feel bad with his behavior. But I am not a gul basher and am not a delusional girl.

Guys bygones are bygones. Leave them.

Edited by rima - 12 years ago

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DushtKanya

@DushtKanya

Alumni

+ 11

Akadu Singh Arnav

Posted: 12 years ago

Bang on post Rima! 👏

You said it all.

Why do people bash an actor who has entertained them for 18 months? They didn't even thank him instead started bashing him! On popular request, he gave interviews despite his bad PR skills. And he didn't even need to tell why he left! It's his personal choice! Whom are we to stop him or to know? We are just a bunch of people who watch the show and admire his acting! He still gave interviews! Still people bash him! Then what should he do???

On the other hand, some people made 'conspiracy theories' and made him appear like a victim in despair and who needs help. Dude, he is a grown-up of 28! Not a kid who depends on us! Leave him alone and wait for him in his future projects if you are a true fan! That didn't help him at all! What was the use of making up all these?

Why hate a person ho entertained you in a wonderful show? Why should we interfere in the offscreen drama? Who are we to do it? Can't we just sit down, chill and move on? (with the memories of the show always in our heart of course)

No, people would rather bash him and find fault with whatever he does!

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anannya

@aneelovesarshi

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

true.Its just getting worse day by day. Everytime a new article comes up and there starts a war .

Why just cant fans be happy with their favourite actors decision and support them in their future endeavours?

I am happy that Sanaya will be back and I am eagered to catch her in new avatar and same applies to Barun.I'll be looking forward to his projects as well.

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Swati

@Swati_

Dazzler

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

Rima di this was indeed a awesome post..
The most bashed people here are Gul and Barun...
Barun's every fan is termed as delusional fangirls...
I seriously cant believe people in this forum..
I have been a part of 2 to 3 forums before but this forum just is full with hatred...
Thanks for this post...

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arshi21

@arshi21

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

Seriously.

What has this forum come to? In the name of mocking and criticizing people cross limits (BOTH the sides)

Why?

Because one worships hero and the other side worships heroine.

And BOTH the sides claim to love BOTH the hero and heroine. Really?

If so, I'd want to see the proof and people now calming down and reminiscing about the good old days and having a nice time here rather than slinging mud at forum members and actors and actresses who are very much REAL.

If people REALLY love BOTH the actor AND the actress, people would stop this. Honestly because this is taking us nowhere.

Absolutely no where.

Its just better to reminisce about those golden days and stay happy rather than creating a distressing environment here.

A very good post Rima :)

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Arshig8

@Arshig8

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

100% agreed, bang on post Rima. Some people Unnecessary hatred spreading in the forum. Peaceful forum became Jung ki maidan . Very depressing to see our beloved forum like this.

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DushtKanya

@DushtKanya

Alumni

+ 11

Akadu Singh Arnav

Posted: 12 years ago

Also, if someone is bashing Barun like crazy and you defend him, you are called a hormonal and delusional fangirl. And if you aren't a teen, they call you immature grown-up who eyes married man. In other words, it's a crime to like him. 😲

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sun_shine_girl

@sun_shine_girl

Inactive

+ 7

Posted: 12 years ago

Beautiful post, Rima..

Why is it necessary to daily bash an actor, to curse him, to send hate-mails to prove that we are not delusional, hormonal, obsessed?

Why is it so difficult to make one positive post which might make people happy?

Why do we find it so easy to pull someone down? Why is it so easy to curse someone when it is so difficult to wish someone good luck?

Why is it so easy to create mocking posts? Why is it so easy to mock someone's efforts just because we do not approve of them?

Why is it so easy to call someone delusional when we do not know anything about that person?

Why is it so easy to hate?

Why is it so difficult not to jump into a post we may not like and bash the TM or the topic? Why can't we stay away if we do not like someone or something?

I might be rambling, but I really feel saddened by the posts wishing someone ill-luck.

Why is it so easy?

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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Ipkknd_ArHi
Also, if someone is bashing Barun like crazy and you defend him, you are called a hormonal and delusional fangirl. And if you aren't a teen, they call you immature grown-up who eyes married man. In other words, it's a crime to like him. 😲

that is truly sad

because liking an actor who entertained for 18 months is no crime