SINAL - is love alone enough???

No way I will question SINAL love each other more than anything in their lives. SINAL as couple have defined this concept to me or I use to get annoyed by the word it self. So again, no way I will question your love and majority here love you two love birds very much.

But love alone is not enough to maintain a strong bond. To explain what area, first need to say a word or two about your individual characters.

Siddhi dear is dangerously selfless person who loves to act mahaan and put her happiness on side. Without a doubt, her happiness is Kunal, but lady doesn't know how to be normal selfish.

Kunal dude is person who has little to no faith in himself. Yes, problem is he doesn't respect himself or trust himself enough required to be a functional individual.

Now what areas you people suck, here they are:

Communication - biggest issue in your relationship. Well actually you people had started establishing good communication, but great CVs😡 Both of you love to open your mouth at the wrong place, time and people. Why? seriously? Siddhi dear, what is it with constantly hiding and lying about things? 9 years ago if you had opened your mouth, life would be different. Let's say for once you can't say the truth (like dreadful wedding), but why lie dear? Kunal dude - you love to talk to your diary. But other than that you too will give this fake hatred to Siddhi. Only time your real feelings come out is when you are roaming streets drunk where you expose your pain, love, longing, etc for Siddhi. Why not say it directly to her? You have no problem talking to other people about things, how about do at least half of it with each other😡

Trust - due to lack of communication, you people suffer here. It seems you guys trust others more. Siddhi dear has no problem in telling even strangers about things in her life but will not share it with Kunal. You don't trust him enough to confide in him and later both of you are in big mess. Kunal, you operate on extreme level. You take her words way too seriously.Either you trust her so much you will accept whatever she has to say, good or bad. But once you lose it, you will not believe anything. Well dude, how about assess what she has to say on your own. Good or bad, whatever she has to say, don't accept it that easily, go find out for yourself and you will know what is what.

Respect - Siddhi dear, you really have no or very little respect for your husband. That is why you lie, hide things, taunts and make decisions on your own that actually affects both of your lives. You don't respect him enough to tell him what is necessary so he can take some steps. You also love to antagonize him thinking (assuming) well it is for his own good. No Lady stop it. Enough acting mahaan and take all decisions on your own. BTW, how is that playing out for you? Kunal dude, it's tricky with you. You will hear whatever she will say to you with your head down, but other times won't let her say one word. She can go ahead and curse/insult you at times, then other times you won't hear praise either. How about respect her enough to first to hear things out, then think before you react. When you get emotional and you will say whatever; only to hurt yourself for saying it later.

Understanding - Both of you really need to start understanding each other rather than misunderstanding. Siddhi dear, you have so much power over this guy, yet you fail in this area? By now you should know he is clueless, but most importantly, he is pathetic. Yes, your husband is simply unable to function without you and breaks away as soon as you are gone. He doesn't need your lame sacrifices, he just needs you to be with him at all times. He simply needs your acceptance and that's it. Kunal dude - you need to understand your lady is sacrificial lamb and she loves to act selfless way too much and will get fooled easily by other people. Anyone can make her fool by taking your name as your family is doing it again. So you need to keep an eye on her, she is high maintenance in this area.

Honesty - how about you two start by being honest to yourself. Just accept that you two pathetic can't live without each other. Really, Siddhi your stupid act of sacrifice and Kunal your fake hatred is not fooling anyone. You two know it, just accept you can not live without each other and how about be honest with each other as well.

I don't need to mention this but still, both are big idiots who do not learn anything from their past mistakes. I often have urge to go smack their heads hoping it may just start functioning😛

really hope these are read by our cvs , so that atleast sometime sombody would understand their charecters better and probably try to give us some sort of a good show in the coming days !

sure its just a hope against hope !

yes jay sinal lack in trust, respect and communication. thats the sad reality, they have loved each other the most in they life, they love for each other is undying, however too much love too causes destruction AND in sinal's case they love for each destroyed themselves, destroyed each other and they kids lives too.

norzar

Yes Noreen,

I do believe they love each other too much. Their undying love often overshadows everything else and that's why both are in big mess.

I guess they need to learn channeling their love to other factors soon.