Why was Zoya shown to be lame?

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Ron

@ronshaan

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#21

if a girl say qubool nahi hay in her marriage then I think her family should respect it !

she was not sure about it but was feared to face it then she sow his family people reaction then decided to run away

some how asad did mistake by sending her alone !!! h should have gone there with her but not alone and also listen to her side too !!

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sochona

@sochona

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#22

i agree with you somewhat.call asad a sexist,a chauvinist or whatever, he does not impose his ideas and rules on people until they are his responsibility.he sounds off people only when they mess with him.agar woh kar raha hai toh apne ghar pe kar raha hai.zoya seems to be a little touched in the head.as i had said somewhere else in this forum, the only sensible thing that zoya has done so far has been to run away from her wedding.she is totally justified in doing this.but what amazes me is her behaviour in someone elses house.there is no justification for this at all.she cannot crack jokes at her hosts expense.whatever her feelings maybe about asad being too old fashioned,she cannot lead a revolution in someone elses house who is doing her a favour.she definitely cannot upset t.he prevailing system of the house .to me that is not spunk or sassiness, its plain foolishness.of course everybody percieves things differently and i totally support that.sorry for the longish reply but zoya does really irritate me.😊

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adeeti10

@adeeti10

Voyager

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: aditi222
Hey guys before you jump on me saying that don't watch these serials if you hate them so much.. I would like to say I am just giving my opinion and everyone is entitled to their opinion. I love the way this show was going until they made zoya stupid Why would anyone run from their wedding? In monisha sarabhai's language - hall ke paise waste, logon mein badnaami and bride-groom se panga,. she had ample time to tell her sister that she is in no mood to marry😆She is living with total strangers and still behaves like a lil girl. I agree with asad that she is really annoying. she thinks its cool to behave like a kid when its disgusting. Being an independent woman does not mean to act dumb. Any female would know that its not safe to be outside home after 7. I do not find asad to be sexist. I think he is a very sensible guy. Also its extremely rude to not follow the rules of the house that you are a guest in. I hope CVs show make her character a bit more realistic.

Hey Aditi,

Welcome to the forum!

I don't get why she ran from her wedding too... But that's actually how the show started... So I'm a bit confused about what you meant by you liked the way it was going until... 😆

Her sister didn't listen to her on the wedding dat... But It would be really odd if Zoya had a rushed wedding and no time before it talk to her sister or even her more open minded and willing to listen jiju.

I think Asad's attitudes are sexist... He judges women by what they wear, and expects his mom and sis to hum and haw around him. The thing is we've been brought up to believe that men deserve that kind of treatment cos they come home after a hard day at work... And while I think you need to give and take some tender loving care, it should not be expected or demanded.

I'm a neat freak too and so is my hubby, but we don't go around pointing about at what's messy. We just clean up.

About safety, yes... The sad state of affairs in our country is that because men don't know how to behave with themselves, women don't have true liberty. We can't dress the way we like, go where and when we want to... Mumbai was safe a decade ago... But it's no longer like that. The other cities/ towns I don't want to even mention... So it's ok for Asad to be concerned... And I think Zoya should take note of it.

As for the rules of the house, he can't impose them on a guest. He could have told her nicely. The way Asad decides everyone for his sister, that's a bit much. I would hate it if my bro or even my hubby decided the length of my hair... It's different if I want to ask their opinion on what suits me better, but I decide not them

What irks me about her character is how she's so messy as a guest. That's a strict no no!

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aina123

@aina123

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#24

I have started liking th show story wise but zoya nope, i feel she doesnt look good wid asad and found her too huge when asad was holding her in his arms, i mean she was not convincing that she was hurt and i miss delicacy which is required in lead actress

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-RohitMaxwell-

@-RohitMaxwell-

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#25

i absolutely love QH, your post is alright bt i didn't like the TITLE AT ALL. the title is offensive

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SStephy

@SStephy

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Welcome to the world of TV serials where lameness is the name of the game!!

Now coming to the points you have mentioned... I know the ideal thing would have been to reject the marriage in the beginning but Zoya still had a right to reject the wedding even at the last moment. There is a reason both the bride and groom are asked whether 'qubool hai'. So that if either of them have any doubts, they can back off... it is lot better that they don't enter into a marriage they think they can't deal with rather than marrying and then ending up with a broken marriage...

And being a host, I would never consider it polite to be imposing all sorts of rules like where to go and when to be back, etc. on my guest. I'd rather give my guest their space; the least I might do would be to offer suggestions...