the origin and continuation of the lie...

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ann5

@ann5

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

arti didn't know that her inlaws had yash parents that she was a widow and not a divorcee, on the day of her marriage when she found out she decided that she would not marry unless yash was told the truth, her inlaws mr and mrs dubey brought on the guilt trip on arti and not having anyone besides them arti racked with guilt decided to do as they asked. this had been a weight on arti from the day she got married, she knew that yash married her not for love but for their children, she went through so many problems and finally got accepted into the scindia family as their bahu...she fell in love with yash and he in turn is now in love with her...arti went through so many emotional turmoil and emotional blackmail from mr dubey,that she was stuck with this lie...is it really her fault?...she tried on so many occasions to tell yash and when she finally did he fell asleep...don't say she didn't opened up to him about her status...and then came the biggest blackmail of all...prashant parents wanting to save his life...she was again stuck between the devil and the deep blue sea...watching the two people who saved her life in terms of taking care of her, now asking her to do this service to them and save their son's life...what is arti to do? she did what any kind hearted, loving person who has no hate in her heart would do...help save prashant's life. in order to do this she had to do what she didn't want to do anymore, once again keep the truth from yash...she vowed that she will tell yash the truth when prashant had his last treatment...unfortunately the circumstances are now changing...i will not keep blaming arti for keeping the truth from yash in this manner...the situations keep warranting that she has no choice but to do this...arti is not only obligated to yash...in her heart she is obligated to the dubeys in a big way...this has been the cause of her dilemna to date...if we were in her situation what would be the decisions that we would have taken...more than likely we would have to do the same route that arti has had to follow...hold on to a lie to help the people that we love and feel obligated to...arti is not and has never been in the best of any situation...the circumstances of her life has put her in this situation...

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charmi

@princess121993

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Posted: 13 years ago

yeah...thats the same thing i feel...aarti is not at fault

if she had never tried to reveal the truth to yash..than we can say that she is at fault...but she tried everytime..but some or the other distraction would stop her to do so

so i also feel aarti is not completely at fault..she may deserve yash anger...but nothing more than that

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nan0102

@nan0102

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Posted: 13 years ago

totally agree with you..we simply cannot blame aarti for keeping the secret from yash..

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akui1984

@akui1984

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Posted: 13 years ago

hmmm...but I think if she wants to she could still have told him the truth...

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ns1970

@ns1970

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Posted: 13 years ago

Agree with you the DUBEYS ARE TOTALLY AT FAULT

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DMKJ_VB

@DMKJ_VB

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

The very fact that she felt that Yash might refuse the BMT if he knew the truth proves that Aarti doesn't trust him completely, inspite of the fact that he was willing to give up his life for a stranger. Aarti should have known that no matter how hurt or angry Yash was, he would never refuse to save Prashant's life!

Also, u say that we simply can't blame aarti for the lie, really? u say she tried to tell and he fell aslep? Kindly tell me when was that? after about 6 months of their wedding! Why did she choose to listen to Shobha and hide the lie when she had decided to tell him after the shootout? Shobha did not emotionally blackmail her then, it was Aarti's decision too. We can't just blame Shobha for it! Why didn't she have the conviction to tell the truth? she was not in love with him yet, she was scared for Ansh, right? So what does that mean? She chose to keep Yash and his entire family in dark so that Ansh could have a father...where does Yash come in all this? I still am willing to overlook that, because at that moment, she had to prove herself to the Scindhias, and more importantly to Palak and Payal...so she needed time. But after that? what happened in Mumbai? When she met her friend? She ran away with Yash from the place, and never felt the need to tell him the truth even then! For me, hiding the truth inspite of meeting Sunita in Mumbai that day was her greatest mistake! She was not under any emotional blackmail then, it was her fault. Yes, she was scared of losing him, but then that really does not give her the right to lie! While I can sympathize with her, I certainly can't say that she simply can't be blamed for lying to Yash!

However, what she did regarding the BMT, thats the worst of the lot! She took away Yash's right over Ansh, though she herself does not think so, but that is what it would look like when it comes in front of Yash! After Yash had fallen asleep, she had got several chances to tell the truth, even before she met Prashant, but she didn't. Even when Yash overheard part of their conversation, and Shobha was lying to cover up, aarti's actions were also how to cover it up,. She had not been told about the BMT yet, so why was she covering it up then? I would have been happy if she had attempted to tell the truth, and wouldn't have minded if Shobha stopped her somehow.but she made no effort. Yash had asked her a question, and she stood there.silent, her expressions indicating she was busy covering it all up, and then Shobha lied to divert Yash. Is that not her fault too?

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