Urvashi Fans, your excuses won't work

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I hate how all of Urvashi fans are justifying her action of sleeping on the same bed as Niketan. You guys are saying its okay because their friends and people who think anything else have a dirty mind. Some are even saying people dont understand their friendship.
I find that a very poor excuse. The truth is her behavior is not acceptable, it looks bad and its being shown in poor taste. She has a family and kids, and her actions are just disgusting. Scratching Niketan's head while Niketan is making his "pleasured faces" and then sleeping in the same bed. They may be good friends but there is a limit when you are on TV and thousands of peopel are watching you.
A lot of people on this forum support Urvashi, but whats wrong is wrong. Plus, when they showed Karishma saying she won't sleep with Niketan on the same bed because she respects herself and her family, that made Urvashi look EVEN more bad.
Please wake up people, most of us are Indians/South Asians here and our culture is different from the west!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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URVASHI and NIKETAN are peacefully sleeping on the same bed without having any dirt in their mind -------why are you LOSING sleep over this ? 🤔-

Keep watching LIVE FEED specially in night hours ---who knows you might get to see something happening there /:P


Edited by --GODFATHER-- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: DIDfan89

I hate how all of Urvashi fans are justifying her action of sleeping on the same bed as Niketan. You guys are saying its okay because their friends and people who think anything else have a dirty mind. Some are even saying people dont understand their friendship.

I find that a very poor excuse. The truth is her behavior is not acceptable, it looks bad and its being shown in poor taste. She has a family and kids, and her actions are just disgusting. Scratching Niketan's head while Niketan is making his "pleasured faces" and then sleeping in the same bed. They may be good friends but there is a limit when you are on TV and thousands of peopel are watching you.
A lot of people on this forum support Urvashi, but whats wrong is wrong. Plus, when they showed Karishma saying she won't sleep with Niketan on the same bed because she respects herself and her family, that made Urvashi look EVEN more bad.
Please wake up people, most of us are Indians/South Asians here and our culture is different from the west!


It is your opinion, whats wrong for you may not be wrong for someone else and the way you perceive things may not be perceived the same way as you do.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Just because you find it impossible to decipher it does not mean everyone should too.If you do not understand why most of us feel fine with this then it is alright with us. You may not have experienced a relationship or a situation where something of this sort is not even an issue but most of us have. Karishma has been in a relationship with nik so naturally she does not want to let BB play on that angle however URV belongs amongst those who wouldn't feel awkward coz she has nothing to be ashamed of.She knows her family - her mother, two teenage sons and extended family would be watching this show and so would be NIK's parents yet they wouldn't have thought twice about it coz it doesn't mean a thing. BB knew the number of men and women and did it on purpose. The intention is all that matters at the end of the day!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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So what will she do.. Leave her bed and sleep on the floor or make Niketan sleep on the floor ?

The issue with Karishma is different. She and Sapna were on the same bed already and if Niketan squeezed in there it would make 3 people on the same bed. Each bed got two seperate mattresses and two seperate blankets. 3 people means squeezing leaving less space for all 3 and Karishma had to share both the blanket and her mattress with Niketan which would have looked awful. Even if it was Urvashi in her place I would have felt same because no way 3 people can sleep or look good in that bed.

When Niketan shifted to Urvashi's bed it didnt look awkward because there is a divider between them. Tts two seperate mattresses and two seperate blankets and much more space between them as compared to what it would have been if he slept with Kari/Sapna. Plus Karishma and Niketan had a romantic past unlike his relationship with Urvashi which is much safer. I find nothing wrong in it.

That hair caress was nothing close to being wrong/obscene to me and I am sure to many others it didnt' came across the way you interpreted it. It was an affectionate moment between two friends. It had more sisterly vibe to it. You should not feel so offended if her fans or other members didnt't create a hungama out if it because they probably didn't find it such a sick thing like you did and they probably didn't interpreted and see things the way you do ! In season 4 Sameer and Shweta also shared a bed and it was nothing obscene.

Nobody is here to give excuses..hum kyon de excuses 😕 and what works or not .. its not for you or me to decide ! If it works for them if it works for so many people then.. like Rajeev says, *I rest my case*
Edited by ablazedmelody - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Opinions differ!

What you saw as cheap and perverted when Urvashi was scratching Niketan's Hair, I felt that it was a very motherly thing to do. Urvashi being a mum definitely does it instinctively. No need to feel so surprised about it. I do it to all my guy friends to. Does not mean that we will end up having an orgy. Friends are family you choose and it is natural to behave like siblings with them.

About Karishma, she said those things not to Niketan , but for Imam as Sapna was suggesting Imam could sleep with Karishma and herself.

PS : I have been born and raised in India (South-east Asia) in the 21st century.
Edited by -sanika- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: DIDfan89

I hate how all of Urvashi fans are justifying her action of sleeping on the same bed as Niketan. You guys are saying its okay because their friends and people who think anything else have a dirty mind. Some are even saying people dont understand their friendship.

I find that a very poor excuse. The truth is her behavior is not acceptable, it looks bad and its being shown in poor taste. She has a family and kids, and her actions are just disgusting. Scratching Niketan's head while Niketan is making his "pleasured faces" and then sleeping in the same bed. They may be good friends but there is a limit when you are on TV and thousands of peopel are watching you.
A lot of people on this forum support Urvashi, but whats wrong is wrong. Plus, when they showed Karishma saying she won't sleep with Niketan on the same bed because she respects herself and her family, that made Urvashi look EVEN more bad.
Please wake up people, most of us are Indians/South Asians here and our culture is different from the west!



To each is own, it depends on where and what environment you are raised in. For me its no big deal to share a bed with a friend. Plus they have two different mattress and separate blankets.

The concerning her children, I think her being their mother she knows how they will react to it. I'm pretty sure her kids now their mother better than all of us combined. Have that much faith.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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And... Who are you exactly? 👎🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: DIDfan89

I hate how all of Urvashi fans are justifying her action of sleeping on the same bed as Niketan. You guys are saying its okay because their friends and people who think anything else have a dirty mind. Some are even saying people dont understand their friendship.

I find that a very poor excuse. The truth is her behavior is not acceptable, it looks bad and its being shown in poor taste. She has a family and kids, and her actions are just disgusting. Scratching Niketan's head while Niketan is making his "pleasured faces" and then sleeping in the same bed. They may be good friends but there is a limit when you are on TV and thousands of peopel are watching you.
A lot of people on this forum support Urvashi, but whats wrong is wrong. Plus, when they showed Karishma saying she won't sleep with Niketan on the same bed because she respects herself and her family, that made Urvashi look EVEN more bad.
Please wake up people, most of us are Indians/South Asians here and our culture is different from the west!

@ Red Are we watching the same show???? I didn't see any pleasure faces😕. Instead a very affectionate, platonic warm friendship.
@Blue: We all have different perceptions. Though I respect ur sentiments...I didn't find it offensive. If u happen to be travelling and camping, it's absolutely ok to share limited sleeping areas. I didn't see them doing anything that would hurt our cultural sensibilities.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Here is the full video of the head massage, the channel cut the video in the episode, but they posted the whole clip online. Maybe it will give you a clear picture

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_EMu2Zc7YHk&list=UU2O0_glJWoH9QNl0stexh4g&index=13

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