Hi Archana, thanks a lot for making this thread.
And an amen to the prayer!
Shame on the CVs on a show with this title to treat this so lightly. And shame on anyone who would defend the actions of this immature brat, no matter what the motive, of doing what she did. There is no justification for this- period.
Strongly agree with everything you've said, especially the lines above.
I cannot see how Arjun is to blamed for Ovi wanting to harm an innocent, unborn child that she's carrying, a child that Arjun cares for.
I've seen real life instances of women (some of them very young) who face strong opposition from their in-laws or husbands for expecting a girl child (or yet another girl child, in feudal, patriarchal and orthodox households). Still, they gather themselves and bring up the child with a lot of love, because the child is innocent. It cannot be blamed for what the mother has faced. And their emotional, social as well as economic situation is much worse than Ovi's.
So to blame Ovi's behaviour on hormones or Arjun or anything of the sort, but Ovi, is baffling. If she has been emotionally unstable as some say - Arjun didn't even know about the bolt from the blue he got on his wedding eve! And I see him working on this marriage and being concerned for the child with very little help from Ovi. We've had that argument in different threads so many times, it's probably redundant to bring it up again.
If Ovi has gone ahead and decided to use the child as a bait to get close to Arjun (however ill advised an idea this may be), she needs to stand by that decision, be patient and stop hurting the child.
And the CVs, sigh, if I hadn't cursed them enough for the whole Ovi marriage fiasco, they've reached another low by bringing a child harming track into the mix.
Edited by peachesnplums - 13 years ago