Mockery of LOVE & Feelings! -- My Take!

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I agree Niky, even I felt really bad after knowing that the attraction that was being build in the past episodes has been termed as Elena being sired to Damon?


I can't digest it properly too... there are too many loopholes that negate the 'sire bond' theory. Now Stefan will make Damon feel bad for having s*x with Elena even though at that Damon had no inkling, he thought that was mutual.


Even though if this is the direction the CVs wanna head, I'm still enjoying seeing my favorite Delena together. Hopefully this sire scenario will build up to something bigger for Delena in future. I know I didn't spend 4 yrs hoping for the inevitable. Delena MUST happen otherwise it will be a waste of a sizzling firecracker chemistry and saccharine sweet love story!

yes, it was the mockery of love and feelings... but of Stefan.. not elena or damon.

^Damon has no idea and I'm sure they didn't think it was possible for vampires to be sired...

Also, Stefan quite clearly stated that he doesn't like this vampire Elena and 'its not her' whereas Damon outright said 'I'm fine with her either way'. So, why shouldn't Elena feel the way she does about Stefan?

Okay I never really come here but I saw this topic and I had to post my views. Firstly I disagree completely about Elena's feelings for Damon being a result of the sire bond. Yes the things Caroline and Stefan talk about do make you wonder whether Elena really is sired to Damon but I think there's more to it and there are some outstanding loopholes in the whole thing that I can't ignore.

Frankly, I hated the episode. We've all been kept waiting and waiting for Delena to be dished out and we get this! This effin' sire bond I'll-screw-you-cause-am-so-frikkin-grateful theory!
Excuse me, but I need a neat spot to BARF!
And I really wanted to shove some hummingbird crap into Caroline's mouth when she went "Stelena EPIC...Delena auggghhh" Stitch it up will you!

It's clear that Stefan can't love Elena for what she is. He loves an edited-for-personal-purposes version of her. And that wants me to throw something at his face.

And cause we're all so very clairvoyant and we know that dear, sweet, annoying Elena is gonna be back someday to go jump back into Stefan's arms...I DEMAND KATHERINE or ROSE to be back for DAMON.
He deserves someone who loves him for himself. Making an errr-bonded-female fall for him is like demeaning the awesomeness of him.

Honestly, there is no point analzying this and that could be the reason for this twist and it is not a sire. The writers just need some reason to have Elena-Damon in one episode and Elena-Stefan in the next. In that process, they are finding stupid reasons to explain that. It is really a whole big sh** and nonsense they are showing us. Makes no sense. And for the poster who said that she didnt obey him before...of course she wont...coz the writers just made this "sire" reason just now! I dont care whichever brother gets Elena..hell its so boring to see the same thing again and again. Julie and Kevin,move on from this idiotic triangle...the writers are spoiling the essence of the story and the basic characters itself.

@Maham, a very convincing answer that is!👏

Originally posted by: AquaNymph

yes, it was the mockery of love and feelings... but of Stefan.. not elena or damon.

I still don believe that damon has used his sire bond to get what he wants.. is that the tough decision of him?

and what about elena? i'm still confused about her. Why does she think stefan loves only human elena.. for heaven's sake he loves elena...

the chemistr between nian was awesome.. and yes super hot.

but i love nian not delena.. as somewhere their story is just not meant to be after this sire thing.

How could damon use the sire bond when he himself doesn't know about it?😲

Originally posted by: ...Maham...

Okay I never really come here but I saw this topic and I had to post my views. Firstly I disagree completely about Elena's feelings for Damon being a result of the sire bond. Yes the things Caroline and Stefan talk about do make you wonder whether Elena really is sired to Damon but I think there's more to it and there are some outstanding loopholes in the whole thing that I can't ignore.

Lets start with what exactly is a sire bond all about. Its about you feeling obliged to follow someone's orders and to protect them because they created you. It has nothing to do with you falling in love or feeling a mad attraction towards that person. If that were the case that Klaus's hybrids would be after him and Tyler would be gay. -_-

Secondly, while Elena has done quite a few things that Damon has told her to there are also things she has NOT done. Take the episode where Elena feeds from Damon. When they were at the grill he clearly told her to pick a random person from the many people sitting there yet she refused pointblank. How is that possible if she were truly sired to him?

Also, in 4x06 Damon again told Elena to give her relationship with Stefan a proper chance and to not let this complicated phase she is going through lead her to the conclusion that Stefan and her weren't meant to be and he isn't the right person for her. What did Elena do? She broke up with Stefan despite being explicitly told by Damon to do the exact opposite.

Coming to DE, Elena having feelings for Damon is not new. Its not something she discovered as soon as she became a Vampire. It was there before and in a way that it 'consumed' her. Go back to 3x19 people. Also if a sire bond is about blind worship then how is Elena still able to tell Damon off or hurt him in the way she did in the first episode itself after turning into a Vampire, she accused him in that scene of choosing to save her and not being able to let her go and she defended Stefan. Also when she went to that party with Damon, I hardly think she would have been so confused and scared of her own feelings as she was later on if she really was sired to him in the way Klaus's hybrids are to him.

In the latest episode, give me one moment where Damon tells Elena to kiss him or to sleep with him. He didn't do anything of that nature so no Elena did NOT sleep with him b/c she was sired to him. She did it because she is clearly in love with him. This sire bond is clearly more complicated than the one we have seen between Klaus and his hybrids b/c Elena definitely maintains a fair amount of personal will which was never the case with hybrids.

I just think they have introduced this track as more obstacles in DE's lovestory as now they will have the same doubts about the real nature of Elena's feelings. For me DE are endgame.. they have seen worse. They'll find their way around this.

We got an awesome episode.. Cheer up people! 😃

Sorry for the essay.

Maham.