BV-WU-15th Nov 12 - Saanchi gets anandi's dose - Page 4

@Aparna: 🤣... I liked your take on it. Words are also in the ears of the hearer 😆, to some it may sound as a sermon while to others a way to put your strong point forward diplomatically as well as subtly. For me it sounded like the latter and hence I enjoyed the way she put her point forth. That silly girl Sachi is too dumb to understand it and considered it as a sermon 😆...

I don't understand what are her parameters of a modern person? As much as the CVs have shown her, it only looks like its limited to her clothing. Her thoughts are still centuries old. If she considered herself so modern, for one she would know to talk the talk in front of strangers or some one new and secondly she would not have such a big issue about A being a divorcee, unless her bias towards A is masking her so called modernity...

Anita - People just don't see it that.They only see it as Anandi's bhashan.

@Aparna: Personally I would love to have that quality of putting your point across and at the same time not hurting the other person. Its not necessary that everything be got by a fight or a scream or for that matter defiance. A little bit of empathy and politeness goes a long way in being able to get what you want to convey. I don't in anyway consider Sachi's behavior as on your face but more-so as rude. A was on-her-face today but at the same time not that harsh.

About G, I would rather not say anything, since marriage she ceased to make any sense to me.

Anita - I agree.

Sanchi must be like this because she was never stopped nor taught how to act like a human being. So being kind to her is not going to turn her around to a good person. I appreciate Anandi's way of looking at things, but it only makes this worse. A strict hand is what she needs but no one seems brave enough to do it. her character is way beyond reality, even bad people pretend to be polite in certain situations and know when to keep their mouths shut. Sanchi is like an extreme cartoon brat

Aparna: sorry I could not reply earlier. I did see a few threads and comments on those lines and I have a different view from them. I guess our individual experiences shape our outlook and perspective. Hence what they see as a sermon looks like an outspoken comment to me. While A cleaning the kid looked like an unhygienic action (A per se) for a few, while for me it looked like she was helping that kid become more hygienic.

About the J issue, I look at it as him owning up for his mistake and for the first time showing glimpses of him taking the first step towards truly repenting for his actions and may be on the path of redemption.

I prefer to stay out of such threads coz SOMETIMES at the end of the day a simple debate can be blown out of proportion and the same things just keep getting repeated without any outcome.

Sachi's behavior is sheer rude, when she shows no respect for her parents I cannot expect anything better from her...

Saanchi is being unreasonably rude to everyone currently and she deserves a royal dressing down and time out to boot. Maybe Shiv will be the one to do the honors. Maybe the CV's want to build it up to an intolerable extreme just like umpteen other Jagya and Gauri tortures before they give a voice to our feelings.

Hooked: This possessiveness and fear of loosing the position of the most loved, is something which did not occur to me. That is quite possible and she being immature as well as not knowing A well, she can't see that A would be the one to pamper her the most. I am sure she has been getting all that she has ever wanted which has lead her to be such a spoiled brat. She needs to be taught to tone down and not be rude.

Thanks for the WU.I really wish i had Anandi's patiennce in dealing with brats like saanchi. I think anandi did a great job in putting forth that she will not change. As for Sanchi on one hand she says that she is modern and Anandi a behenji and on the other hand her major gripe is the fact that her brother chose his own bride. If she is so modern then why does she want to choose a life partner for her obviously accomplished, well placed and mature brother and have a problem with Anandi being a divorcee. Her family should point it out to her and tell her that a village girl is much more modern in her thoughts and has obviously accomplished so much despite such adversity. furthermore they should also tell her that dressing in modern clothes doesnt make you superior or modern, you also need modern thinking to go along with it and by that yardstick Anandi is much more modern despite dressing in traditiional clothes. They should tell her to shut up and try to grow up and count her blessings by being born into such a loving and broadminded family.