BV-WU-15th Nov 12 - Saanchi gets anandi's dose

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nutmeg7

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

someone plz tell sanchi that this villager anadndi is much smarter, better and sweeter than her...sanchi has a kingsize ego just cuz she is a city bred girl...phooey

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Yesha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Thank u so much for the awesome update :)

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riks111

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: smeenakshi76
. She says nything nd everybody incl Shiv are speechless. Y, does her opinios matters so much. Y in every show, it is assumed that DIL respo to winover her in laws. Y inlaws cant winover DILs. BV is losing its sheen due to its current track and coming track of shiv's arrest will also be on the same line, disappointing.

I liked what you write that I made bold and blue? Very ture! In our culture it is believed that in-laws have say but dils have no say and she is responsible to win the heart of in-laws disgusting. When will our culture accept that marriage happens between two individuals and not two family. What BV is showing is what generally happens in our culture. Most sisters don't like their brother's wife

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lifelessons

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

thanks for the WU...Sanchi is not a threat just a nuisance and I dont mind her anymore...I agree she is mannerless and formed her opinions on Anandi but one thing I liked today was that she said everything out in open...Jo dil main woh zubanpe she didn't try to go behind anyone's back and try to manipulate...By saying this I am not taking Sanchi's side but this is my observation, right now she is seeing Anandi as she wants to see her, a gaonwali and not her choice. But there is still huge hope that Anandi will be able to win over Sanchi and when she does sanchi will be loving towards her because Sanchi is a mannerless brat not a vamp. Also for shekhars I think the only way to deal with sanchi is with patience becuase the shouting and punishment will just create more rift between her and Anandi as Sanchi already thinks Anandi has done some jadu on her family.

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lifelessons

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: riks111

I liked what you write that I made bold and blue? Very ture! In our culture it is believed that in-laws have say but dils have no say and she is responsible to win the heart of in-laws disgusting. When will our culture accept that marriage happens between two individuals and not two family. What BV is showing is what generally happens in our culture. Most sisters don't like their brother's wife

i like the point in blue too...first the DILs have to leave their family and settle into totally new family and home culture(by this i mean how they behave at home) every house's culture is different from making tea to fixing dinner. The girl already has to adjust and compromisde so much then why do we have to then winover inlaws. y can't the inlaws realise this and help the girl to get better adjusted to their house. ok my point is totally different from the point you are trying to make but still I dont why is it DILs responsibilty to winover everyone

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Jan50

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Thanks for the nice update. Anandi stole the day with a cool reply to arrogant Sanchi.she was so composed and poised. She hadvthevskills of a very highly educated groomed diplomat. It goes to prove that some people no matter where they grew up have unique qualities.Anandi proves this.it is also a credit to Shiv that he spotted such a gem.he is super special himself, not just because he is a collector and a hunk, but beyond that.

Regarding why DIL has to win over her in laws, we believe in the merits of this culture. Upto now we strongly believed that marriage is a union of two families rather than 2 individuals as declared by A.

A DIL is Ike an apprentice learning the ropes in a company where he orvshe has to win over every one.which is ok, but at the same time the daughters of the house have to be reined in, which DS does very well. She expected Suguna to give respect to her bhabhis.

But now a days we are following western culture in some famiLies where people are individuals. Boys marry according to their own choice and DIL is independent. In that case the children should be independent and not impose their problems on parents.

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redapple1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Jan50
Thanks for the nice update. Anandi stole the day with a cool reply to arrogant Sanchi.she was so composed and poised. She hadvthevskills of a very highly educated groomed diplomat. It goes to prove that some people no matter where they grew up have unique qualities.Anandi proves this.it is also a credit to Shiv that he spotted such a gem.he is super special himself, not just because he is a collector and a hunk, but beyond that.
Regarding why DIL has to win over her in laws, we believe in the merits of this culture. Upto now we strongly believed that marriage is a union of two families rather than 2 individuals as declared by A.
A DIL is Ike an apprentice learning the ropes in a company where he orvshe has to win over every one.which is ok, but at the same time the daughters of the house have to be reined in, which DS does very well. She expected Suguna to give respect to her bhabhis.
But now a days we are following western culture in some famiLies where people are individuals. Boys marry according to their own choice and DIL is independent. In that case the children should be independent and not impose their problems on parents.

Yes, I agree. Anandi was very poised and composed. She had gone to select wedding jewellery. Good Sanchi didn't say why are you selecting antique jewellery. The way Sanchi communicated, was way too rude. When Anandi saw daddu scolding Sanchi, anyone with some decency would try to calm down the situation not aggravate it. It is a very uncomfortable situation to be in. She saw the situation, temperature was rising in the room, and she tried to put a smile on her face and played it down.
Good luck to the family who will get Sanchi as their daughter-in-law.

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hooked

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Thankyou Neha. Good update.

To some extent Saanchi's dislike has a valid reason. She seems very fond and possesive of her brother and seeing him lose his head over someone else - specially someone she does not understand is naturally scary. to top it all - her entire family seems nuts about this outsider - this is enough to give Saanchi nightmares.

She is not being nasty - she is just being a kid who is scared that the family is getting a new darling and all this love she had is probably going to have to be shared. I have a 5 yr old - he hates to see me holding another kid even in photos that belong to pre his time. I see Saanchi behaving just like him. She is resenting her share-holder. But yes - now that she seems to be near 20 and not 5, she can afford to voice her fear of losing her family'love in a better way so that Daddu and the rest understand her and reassure her and she doesn't further alienate herself.

I say this coz my sis married a guy I did not like at all, coz I did not get to spend enough time with him and his sisters were pretty mannerless and rude. I couldn't understand what my sis or parents saw in the family and I was quite vocal about my feelings. My logic was - if a new member is going to be part of my family - I do get to vote on selecting him. Saanchi is just way more extreme - but I get the reason for her fear.

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andv

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Thanks for the update

So the Sachi drama continues. I am glad, Aalok and Daddu expressed their disapproval to her behavior. She looked quite surprised by their reaction. Was she expecting them to praise her rude behavior?

All the same, I liked the way A handled Sachi by speaking to her with empathy and giving her ears what they want to hear. That was the only way her attention would have been caught to give her a much needed dose in soft and sweet words. A made it very clear to Sachi that she is not going to change to suit Sachi's tastes and expectations and that if she wants to accept her, she will have to do so in the way she is.

Anyway I don't have anything else to say of the family cannot control their youngest member's behavior in front of outsiders or a relatively new member of the family.