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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sulochana boasts constantly of the best sanskaars in the world .

Well here's some news . About some basic sanskaars .

One never goes and undoes a pooja done by some one else in the Hindu religion . Yes even an enemy . That pooja ...that relationship is strictly between God and his child ...his child can commit any number of mistakes . But he accepts that pooja .

Going and undoing some one's pooja is regarded as the biggest sin in Hinduism .

I am not on Varsha's side .

But

She is not the one frequenting others' houses .

The Karanjkars r going again and again to her house .

Purvi , Archana ., Vinod , Manju . If they believe she is living in sin , that it is a sinful house , why go there .

Neither did she go there , neither did she badmouth them nor did she undo any pooja .

They did it . They .

I have not seen a single scene of Varsha instigating Soham against Archana . May I know what nonsense was Sulochana talking about .

Varsha may not be correct but she has stayed away from Archana and expects Soham to do the same . Manav rightly or wrongly almost killed him coz Archana chose those moments to smile vacantly . Manav has now registered a case against him in court . All Varsha has told him is to stay away and she is not even interested in badmouthing them or begging them to take the case away .

So what was Sulochana talking about . What instigation .

Doing the shraaddha of a living person is again a sin . Not a sanskaar . Sanskaars teach us to keep a hold on your personal emotions and do your duty . Be it rage , revenge , grief , whatever .

In this case Sulochana was angry with her daughter , Fine . But doing her shraaddha in front of God is a maha paap . Sulochana has no right to undo someone's pooja and do shraadha of a living person for her temporary rage and tamasha loving spirit ...Hindu religion does not permit it .

This woman deserves a slap and its a pity her husband died .

This is what she taught Archu in the guise of sanskaars ...these tamashas . And Archu grew up thinking these tamashas were sanskaars .


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Gauravc_More48 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Kools,
She has rights to do anythng about her children n why nt??
A lady who theft a son of her sister thats nt against god or what..
I mean that God has witnessed everythng n he knws Sulochana was on rt path..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Disclaimer: I am not condoning a sister kidnapping other sister's child...
Now this is what I have to say about Sanskarki devi Sulo and her daughter Varsha..
The minute Sulochana went to Ganpati bappa mandir I was wondering what is she going to do? Is she going to take this mandir out of varsha's house or what? To my shock she removes garland from the mandir and puja thali and decides to do shraadha of a living daughter..
Mother is there only to take and support her favorite child Archana..
Mother has no time to listen to the other child's words...Varhsa was right in Q archana abt why letting her keep Soham for straight 6 months and than suddenly deciding to take the child back? why did ArMan not think b4 letting Soham stay with SaSha for 6 freaking months?
Varsha yet has not said one evil word against Deshmukhs or Karanjkars..Especially ArMan to Soham..SHe has not raised him poisoning his ears against his bio parents..
What Soham did to Vinod was a natural reaction of a child for his mother...he has loyalty, love, trust for his mai..
Sulo has failed as mother..She told Varsha all those decisions she made were her choice starting with kidnapping and rest..
Did she say the same to Archana ? That her decision to let Varsha hold Soham was also her choice and decision and that has put this little childs life in danger and turning out to be gunda? Depriving him of a normal life??
If mother can point finger at one daughter than she can do the same for the other daughter too..
Archana is doing the same constantly sharing and planning how to get soham back in the family w/o even giving a chance to develop closer relationship with her other two daughters who she saw after 18 yrs...Does she not need to put an effort at those relationships? Naah as she is busy with her mother and daughter at karankars..
first 3/4 of the episode was a filler episode but the part when Sulo decided to go to Varhsa-Balan was so hypocritical...I could not believe my eyes and ears...But than again I know what to expect from Sulo the Queen B...Has she ever been a good mother to Varsha? My million $ Q...She has been bad mother to Archu too by putting her up on a pedestal which created more mental flaws in Archana as a person..
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well, one thing even I felt in yesterday's episode was that Archana talked about 'galti' that Varsha did. What 'galti' did Varsha do, except perhaps not returning back with Soham after she gained her sanity? How can jumping onto the waters be 'galti' since it was at that time her self –defending mechanism kicking in seeing Archana following her. I can't forget that she was mentally very unstable when the actual kidnapping happened? I don't support the kidnapping act, but do know a lot of women undergoing fertility that goes through mental breakdown – it is a very tough situation for these women. Was Sulo ever a mother to Varsha, always wrongly citing her sanskar? Did she take any responsibilities in the wrongdoing of her children? Besides, the whole adoption fiasco and the aftermath were disastrous for all of them. Why blame Varsha, when Archana fanned it fully first by letting Soham stay and then adoption fiasco…most infertile women could lose mental stability at that point…

As for Sulochana, well I never understood her Sanskaar. He sanskaar includes slapping damad, going against daughter Archana's direction and wrongly encouraging Purvi's affair with Arjun. Her sanskar is taking wrong sides and supporting blindly only Archana in all her atrocities, be it the court case or Dharmesh, the bigamist…she is the real Sanskaar-less in this serial…

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Disclaimer: I am not condoning a sister kidnapping other sister's child...

Now this is what I have to say about Sanskarki devi Sulo and her daughter Varsha..
The minute Sulochana went to Ganpati bappa mandir I was wondering what is she going to do? Is she going to take this mandir out of varsha's house or what? To my shock she removes garland from the mandir and puja thali and decides to do shraadha of a living daughter..

Varsha, is that what they showed today? Sulo, oh Sulo...is she a mother? Haven't heard ever a mother doing a Shraadha of a living kid...but this Sulo goes to the temple and badmouth Savita, what a convoluted definition of Sanskar, so I guess nothing new...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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No gaurav . Nobody has a right to do 'anything' however justified one feels .

Especially in religious matters .

God witnesses everything . HE will deal with Varsha in his own way ...we hindus call it karmic punishment . But no one has a right to undo anyone's pooja .

The same God is open for penitent sinners too . Its very personal , even more than a parent child relationship .

Sulochana expressed anger by not going even once to meet Varsha in jail . Fine . Her decision .

Siding with Archu in this matter ...her decision .

But these tamashas r not only immature and uncalled for they r sins .


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

Varsha, is that what they showed today? Sulo, oh Sulo...is she a mother? Haven't heard ever a mother doing a Shraadha of a living kid...but this Sulo goes to the temple and badmouth Savita, what a convoluted definition of Sanskar, so I guess nothing new...

Yes kalapi Sulo sure did...Does she not see her daughter's pain? Is she that much blinded by Archana and only Archana? What kind of mother is Sulo? She told Varsha they are not there to listen to her complains 😲 It was outrageous the way Sulo behaved with Varsha and Archu just stood there letting mother take her side as such..
Even Vinod said all the things in Archu's favor yesterday half of that was so wrong and hypocritical..TO me PR and the sanskars Karanjkars claim are so OTT and over rated..😡
BTW each human being is a child-bhakta in front of god when they worship...Be it criminal or a good samaritan...God takes care of everyones good or bad karmas-sins...No one has any right to be rude to someone's puja by removing garland and using puja thali to do the lady of the house's death rituals-shraadh..
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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These all Drama has happened in Previous serials of Ekta..
This is not fact what Cv's are showing us its just a way to describe a mother's anger.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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To add did Sulochana ever tell Archana that "To take her husband to the court for random chalu chawl walas was her choice-decision" which broke their marriage and handing soham to Varsha seperated them for 18 yrs?
NO
CVs showed us evil Savita take the whole blame for it.
Mistakes are only pointed out to Savita, Varsha, Sachu, Teju or Ovi
Punni, Vinod or Manju
Not to
Archana, Purvi or Sulochana herself..
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Savita is ten times better than Sulo..
She would have never done that, and she cares about both of her kdis, and Sachin Sr, when he was alive.
Sulo's sanskaars didnt take any of them anywhere... This is some proof that Suo's sanskaars werent very sanskaari, look at Varsha she was also Sulo's daughter.

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