Love: does not equal Trust/Respect - Page 8

Originally posted by: boreddamsel

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Originally posted by: smilydear

I have one point... there is no harm to ask your partner about anything ... If you have any doubts its better to ask and its responsibility of the other partner to clear them n keep checking whether the issue is gone or not ... their is a thin line between trust n blind trust ... which we saw in case of Anjali n Shyam if we saw with the eyes of Anjali she was Blindly trusting her hubby ... Here in case of Khushi she is Trusting Arnav but not blindly ... thats OK ... there is no harm ... and that is also because of his past relation with Lawanya where he was in a LIVIN relationship. which Lavanya explained to her like they r like husband n wife but without any commitments ... So somewhere she is thinking Arnav has some physical relations in past and there are good possibility of having a child with those relations ... Khushi is not wrong anywhere... Arnav has to understand and let her understand what and which level of relationships he had with his Ex Girlfriends... They r totally different streams they came together... so they have to respect and let the other partner understand in which and what environment they grow up with . They need to talk and unfortunately they are not able to talk to each other. And this is not there issue alone this is an issue of lot of couples who can't talk or clarify there issues just because they thought n its true that other person think that their partner is not trusting ... What trust level do you want ... if your partner is asking a straight question with you ... according to me this is the biggest trust they showed on You ...

CV butchered the characters by showing a foolishly crazy Khushi n ignorant hubby Arnav ... Which they both r not before this track . I don't know how they r going to clean up this mess ... this is a big mess... All the best writers ...

Originally posted by: boreddamsel

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Originally posted by: Krani

Very well-put and definitely made me look at it from another POV. So your argument is literally based on that trust is lacking from Arnav's side, in their relationship, as opposed to him "flirting" with Sheetal to hurt Khushi. If that's the case, then I would have to agree with you, as you are right, he hasn't done much to show that he still completely trusts her. I think the CVs completely stuffed up the progression of their love and as a result we have been seeing such pendulum changes in both the characters that as viewers, we are unsure of what the CVs are trying to portray from their relationship.

I think you're right, Arnav has not done that much to placate Khushi's worries - however I still believe that the fact that he gave her the DNA reports, told her to open it, told her nothing had happened - shows that he has a clear conscience. She said that she believed him, but proceeded to show that she didn't is what frustrated me.

If she did not believe him, she should have just opened the reports - dealt with the anger later.

Like I said, I do not mind her being insecure and jealous - because any woman would with all the co-incidences in front of her - however I still do not agree nor do I condone the way she is going about with this.

Originally posted by: ArushiSagar

I get what you're trying to say there, but I think it makes sense with Khushi's character that she'd rather feel the distrust in silence rather than voice it and face Arnav's anger. I also see why you're irritated by Khushi's behaviour as you'd like her to start standing up to Arnav now and facing their issues head-on, but she keeps falling into her old ways. As does Arnav.

I also completely agree that Arnav and Khushi's characters have become very inconsistent now. I loved your pendulum analogy and quoted you in another one of my long rants 😛 in another thread (Is there any remaining tracks to save IPK!) Would love to hear your take on it!