Originally posted by: Jaishankar
Soham needs both Arman and Manav has to calm down and the only person who can calm him is Archu. I dont want to see another non-sense where Arman are again separated for Soham .Manav is way to angry and is equally angry coz Soham tried to kill his wife too and abused her.The guy looses his senses when things go wrong.I want to see the sparks between Manav n Soham. Like father like son ,both have their ego's clash and best thing for Archu to do is just try to calm Manav down by constantly talking to him and make him understand her view point.OVer a period if time he will but right now he is way too angry.
I dont want Archu going to Sulo for all this .The major party concerned in this is her and Manav.I think its better if Purvi is not dragged into this .She already has enough on her plates I think with Manju and company coming to live with them.
This is a matter between a parent and their son and it should remain between them alone.Rest of the children ideally should not be dragged into this.It will really affect them like Tej she seems to be hell scared seeing Soham and Sachu is just one step away in kicking the day lights of Soham just behind Manav..Manav has become like a caged animal waiting to pounce.He needs to be calmed down big time.
Manav and Archu together ideally should be bringing a solution. Somewhere down the line Manav will calm down not sure when but its equally important that Archu keeps talking to him and stays besides before he looses control of himself and even harms Soham.,I wont be surprised. Soham has become a instigating factor more than anything for Manav.Manav has lot his moral thought process of thinking in anger that its Arman's fault and negligence that has cost them.
I am sick of this separation non-sense. I dont think it will happen eventually Manav will see beyond his anger and support Archu.At the moment he is way too anger.
Gosh even old Manav (Sush) never used to get so much anger.The current Manav remains way too angry and it seems Archu gets really afraid when he is in anger mode.Wonderful acting by Hiten ,Anki and Ankit ..
hi Jai...yes it sure is an ego clash between the two men...father and son...you could see that coming a long ways back...Soham has been taught to be a tough guy...gunda guy...😉 . While he is ok with showing emotion to the women in his life...no way would he show soft to the male figures...Balan beat the crap out of him whenever he didn't deliver, and Soham is a little afraid of him, so i think Soham is a little taken aback that this man whom now he knows is his father...shot him is yelling at him. but most of all ..abandoned him. Of course he will be angry..and a bit cocky...he'll show his dad ...he'll just walk into that house and sit down. Which he did. 😆
(And everything he said was right on !! )
What's so hard to understand is why Manav can't feel the anguish in Soham. Manav is not in touch with his own emotions ..i thought he had matured, but...guess not yet. There def. is an ego issue that "my son cannot be a gunda" and my son will NOT grab me by the collar.
But there's another factor. Manav felt terrible almost hysterical remorse for having shot Soham (you are right Jai when you so often say that Manav operates on extremes..there's no balance)..so i am sure he expected Soham to say something like...i didn't know that Archana was my mother, and i am so sorry ...but why did you shoot me???... in other words, Manav (unrealistically expected Soham fo feel what he Manav was feeling. When he didn't, when he was cocky and angry it confused and infuriated Manav...but the bottom line feeling i think was rejection. He felt that Soham rejected his love, even though Soham has had no way to know of Manav's love.
Gonna be tough for Manav to work through this...so who should help him? See, i think there is confusion about who helping whom because some are talking about who should help Soham...but there are two people to help.. Soham AND Manav. My feelings are that the people who can help Manav are 1)Archu 2) Teju ...and Sachin could have but...now that looks dim.
Who can help Soham? 1)Archu 2)Purvi...
It's interesting to me that all the men are being so macho with each other.. 😆 Of course that's the way it works...hhh...Arjun against Soham. Soham against Arjun. Manav against Soham, Soham against Manav, Sahcin against Soham, Soham against Sachin.
ahh...we women go.. arrgh... cause it takes a woman..to soften hearts. 😃 ..
My thinking is this...Archu and Purvi will help Soham get in touch with his feelings...and when he breaks, Manav will be all over him in tears and love. Cause it will be Soham's tears that break Manav's heart in the end.
Edited by naava - 13 years ago
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