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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

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Posted: 12 years ago

I have often said love stories don't make sense to me.

Never a big fan in movies and hardly watch tv so not going there at all. All the big time romantic crap they have in Yash Chopra movies and even Hollywood don't make sense to me. Even my cousin whom I look upto as if my parents have love marriage but still don't get it.

First time ever I actually liked love story was SINAL and it made sense. We saw a proper progression of their love passing from mutual respect, understanding, friendship, care, closeness, emotional attachment, love and now beyond love. So first time I accepted something like love exist and it is not some insane idea.

Now again I am questioning this idea. This Abhay dude comes along and I love Siddhi so much and whatnot. Sorry dude, when the hell that happened? Because she put ointment on your hand, had dinner with you, and because your mother says so?

You lost your wife and son resulting in major depression, or you say so. But came along Ac2 and you were rejuvenated? And now you are ready to marry again and whatnot?

Call me crazy SINAL fan but I respect them lot more. SIddhi sure loves her son but not able to live fully without Kunal. Kunal on the other hand is just extreme. He has his son with him, his family with him, has been fed all the lies in the world for 9 years; still not able to make one step forward without Siddhi. His words to Siddhi, "I can't live without you" and "Kunal Chopra is dead" actually came true.

So please explain me what the hell is this love everyone else experiences?

Edited by jay_bpm - 12 years ago

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Padmini

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Posted: 12 years ago

good point Jay ..
SINAL is the only love story that has affected me so much .trust me .. i hev seen many love story but none is even near to SINAL mad love for each other ..
i seen show where every episode leads say I love you to each other but SINAL they dont have to say , we can feel their love story ..
chipkoo and vamp are OTT , neither do I understand their love nor do I feel what tehy feel is love indeed

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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: d.padmini
good point Jay ..
SINAL is the only love story that has affected me so much .trust me .. i hev seen many love story but none is even near to SINAL mad love for each other ..
i seen show where every episode leads say I love you to each other but SINAL they dont have to say , we can feel their love story ..
chipkoo and vamp are OTT , neither do I understand their love nor do I feel what tehy feel is love indeed

agree padmini.

never understand need to say ilu every god damn time. my mother watches those shows and i ask her every time i have to endure through them; what the hell are they talking about? now even she has started questioning when the hell they fell in love?

chipkoo and 🤢 are delusional at best. calling their feelings love is an insult.

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musiquelover

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Posted: 12 years ago

Jay

Even I was never a fan of any soaps. Rarely I watch but got glued to Paricha just for the sake of SINAL . The portrayal of actual how the transition happens to a person if he is in a relation gradually. Its just mind blowing.

Now comming to insande dudes of the show.. abhay even today doesnt love her truly or i should say he doesnt love her. His worry is anand. To make Anand his son permanantly he has to get glued to Siddhi permanently and The great Sulekha suggested him that she is too good as a girl and if he wants anand and siddhi to stay with him forever he need to tie the knot. Since then he is trained to see siddhi that way and now he feels he is totaly madly crazily in love with SIddhi

but My dear insane dude abhay

what the hell do u know about being love or true love ask the pankhas olf love aka sinal to understand .If you go by insane ladies words you will lead to grave yard. Not to siddhi

BUt its high time we are bearing all the crap that they r showing us.

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rima31

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Posted: 12 years ago

what a question Jay 👏

Courageous i must say 😊

u have decided to crack the most complicated thing ever LOVE

cant comment here with full authority as i also never have sensed true love

Love for me is always subject specific ... being love with your family, with friends, with ur books and other things.

But as far as Ishq wala love is concern ... i believe LOve as a feeling can happen any time any place like we have witnessed in so many films and Tv soaps of course .. but true love is some thing different ... Like u mention SInal's case ..

Their love is some how similar to my perception of Love ... for me Love can not happen without having a sense of respect for each other ... if u respect some one then only u can truly trust that person and trust is the ,most important staple for love

In Sinal's Case also the progression happened only due to the strong respect for each other

Kunal always hated siddhi but her decision of marrying him some how made him respect her which he showed when Ritcha came after his wedding and he gave Sid's example (ye hai pyaar, ye hai sacrifice)

Siddhi always respected Kunal as Anand Loves him a lot then came the respect as a husband that he earned when he denied Ritcha's offer the very next day of their wedding

Their respect was also there when Siddhi ws insulted in Thakral's office and she regretted her decision of not listening to Kunal's advice ... with the passage of time we witnessed several instances where the relationship progresses on respect and trust basis

Siddhi respected Kunal's honesty and values and we saw her returning the necklace gifted by Gaurav's FIL ...

I have never seen them attracted to each other due to their physical appearance ...Kunal the handsome , Siddhi the gorgeous they never actually shown appreciating their physical beauty but yes they appreciate and admire the other one as a person ...

that loyalty towards each other the respect towards each other is actually essential for love and this is what happens in real world ... may be thats why we love these fictitious character so much coz they are closer to reality

ohh... Big torture for u Jay

only my POV

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jay_bpm

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Sreearabhi
Jay

Even I was never a fan of any soaps. Rarely I watch but got glued to Paricha just for the sake of SINAL . The portrayal of actual how the transition happens to a person if he is in a relation gradually. Its just mind blowing.

Now comming to insande dudes of the show.. abhay even today doesnt love her truly or i should say he doesnt love her. His worry is anand. To make Anand his son permanantly he has to get glued to Siddhi permanently and The great Sulekha suggested him that she is too good as a girl and if he wants anand and siddhi to stay with him forever he need to tie the knot. Since then he is trained to see siddhi that way and now he feels he is totaly madly crazily in love with SIddhi

but My dear insane dude abhay

what the hell do u know about being love or true love ask the pankhas olf love aka sinal to understand .If you go by insane ladies words you will lead to grave yard. Not to siddhi

BUt its high time we are bearing all the crap that they r showing us.

yes sree I know he is blindly going by his mother's words.

but i imagine for a man who was once married and even in love with his wife may know thing or two. but here dude is just going on without really considering real factors, just going by what momma said. what a momma's boy.

he sure needs to learn from Siddhi, after so much crap she still loves her husband.

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jay_bpm

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rima31
what a question Jay 👏
Courageous i must say 😊
u have decided to crack the most complicated thing ever LOVE
cant comment here with full authority as i also never have sensed true love
Love for me is always subject specific ... being love with your family, with friends, with ur books and other things.
But as far as Ishq wala love is concern ... i believe LOve as a feeling can happen any time any place like we have witnessed in so many films and Tv soaps of course .. but true love is some thing different ... Like u mention SInal's case ..
Their love is some how similar to my perception of Love ... for me Love can not happen without having a sense of respect for each other ... if u respect some one then only u can truly trust that person and trust is the ,most important staple for love

In Sinal's Case also the progression happened only due to the strong respect for each other
Kunal always hated siddhi but her decision of marrying him some how made him respect her which he showed when Ritcha came after his wedding and he gave Sid's example (ye hai pyaar, ye hai sacrifice)
Siddhi always respected Kunal as Anand Loves him a lot then came the respect as a husband that he earned when he denied Ritcha's offer the very next day of their wedding
Their respect was also there when Siddhi ws insulted in Thakral's office and she regretted her decision of not listening to Kunal's advice ... with the passage of time we witnessed several instances where the relationship progresses on respect and trust basis
Siddhi respected Kunal's honesty and values and we saw her returning the necklace gifted by Gaurav's FIL ...

I have never seen them attracted to each other due to their physical appearance ...Kunal the handsome , Siddhi the gorgeous they never actually shown appreciating their physical beauty but yes they appreciate and admire the other one as a person ...
that loyalty towards each other the respect towards each other is actually essential for love and this is what happens in real world ... may be thats why we love these fictitious character so much coz they are closer to reality

ohh... Big torture for u Jay
only my POV

yaar I am not trying to crack it so much as just get some idea what the hell these people are talking about. i too understand love for family, your study and friends stuff.

but as you say, ishq wala love i only came across and somewhat understood in SINAL case.

we actually saw a proper progression there. we hardly saw any physical attraction as strong factor. sure now they both are attracted to each other but it is due to more of emotional attachment they have. it's not lust there but too much care for each other and yearning to be with one another. their hug said it all.

sure respect was one big thing for both. If i remember correctly, many members here started loving them from day when Kunal proposed. he actually proposed to siddhi in simple, straight forward manner. his proposal is big reason Siddhi considered marriage and viewers too consider this can be damn good thing. sure they hit some rough parts, but it's just part of beautiful progression. when both finally said ILU, it made sense.

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rima31

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Posted: 12 years ago

me also one of them ... i also started liking Kunal after that very scene

He proposed Siddhi the simplest but most sincere possible way

it was so compelling as the ardent Anand fans stopped thinking about Him and started Considering KUnal and Siddhi as a couple .. i do love them and their love of course

may be i have my personal reason as i mentioned

BUt the way each and every emotion was portrayed was magical so simple and real

the other 2 creatures are just spoiling the name of love or better say they are using the term

to fulfill their needs ...

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eshi

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Posted: 12 years ago

Jay nice post read everyone's views.very nice
I have seen many shows from college days...when ever some lame twist came...i happily n easily moved on.but sinal love story is totally different...they r simple in expressing their feelings.no need to say ilu every single day.they understand each other more than anyone.whenever they r with eachother they don't give Dam n to anyone.n don't e en remember about their kids.kunal couldn't move on in life for 9 years n siddhi waited for him in jail ...even after knowing about his marriage ...still confessed her love
I love them to the core.we know they r fictional characters but we expect so much from them.n got addicted to them.
SS and KN did an excellent job n made them alive for us.
Coming to abhay he doesn't love siddhi...it's just a force by sulekha...that duo have some serious problems...they think they own all the people around them..

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vipraja26

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Posted: 12 years ago

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well said jay !

sinalmnhas been quite a love story to affect most of who have experianced watching them in agreat way !

their transition has been most interesting and agreeable and lovable .

just like u mentioned though i have seen a lot of love stories , yet nothing has touched me as much as this .

i have been hooked to this show like crazy , only because of sinal and some goodness that usd to be there earlier in the form of a wonderful supportive family

sure abhay or richa cannot nterm their feelings as love and if at all they term their feeling as love then sinal's feelings have to be named something else !

after having started to watqch parichay , somehow no other story seems to be interesting enoug h to catch my attention .

but then such a lovely plot has been quite sadly handlede in recent times !?