Why people think that ?

I dont know why people say that CV ruin A charater;show her dumb,why she always silent, why she can't stand for herself, always follow what other people said, she always do what DS said, woh usko jagiya ke paas jaane ke liye kahegi aur woh DS ki baat maan legi, Kya chup rehna weakness show karta hai, jis ne apko dukh diya jaroorat ke samay uski help karna weak hona hota hai, ya bado ki baat ko maana unki baat ki respect karna galat hai... agar situation ko dekha jaaye toh A abhi bhi weak aur dumb character nai hui hai... Abhi jis tarah ki situation hai usme silence rehna hi sahi hai... Aur Rahi baat DS ke khilaf jaane ki toh A kai baar gai hai jaise mumbai se ke baad padai karna; gully ki shaadi rukvana; girls school kholna, apni dusri shaadi ke liye mana karna, jab DS ne shiv ke liye galat bola toh bhi A ne uhne galat kaha, aur yeh baat SHV ko vhi batai sach nai chupya kyuki woh janti thi ki DS galat hai phir bhi usne sach btaya yeh soche bina ki SHIV kya sochega... A ne hamesha sahi ke liye khadi hui dusro ke liye hi nai apne liye bhi, phir bhi log kahete hai ki usse ek baar DS ke against jana chahiye :... aap aisa kyun soch rahe ki DS usse J ke paas jane ke liye kahegi toh woh chali jaygegi... A kabhi galat ko support nai karti usske liye usse cahe DS ke against bhi kyun na jana pade itni toh A weak nai hai... Aur mujhe nai lagta DS kabhi A ko J ke paas jaane ke liye kahegi... its just my POV so i want to share with u... i dont know what do u think about it...

I agree Anandi is a strong character dear, but the problem is she is not strong enough for her ownself...She gets trapped in emotions and doesn't realize that she might end up in a big mess here...Every one is waiting to see what Dadisa's reaction will be for the upcoming track, when Jagya will ask Anandi back from her...And her reaction might lead to Anandi's decision...If she sees dadisa in pain, she might just go with the flow, not thinking about anything else, and that may lead to butcher her character, because if she does, then she will go against her own principles and promises...She now needs to remember few things...1. She promised her mom on the death bed to marry Shiv...2. She is commited to Shiv after this engagement and seeing for his feelings is her duty as well...3. Jagya is the cause of her mom's death and her father might be hurt if she does go back to Jagya on Dadisa's request...4. She will go against her own principles, that she would never look twice at a married man, because no matter what, she should know that Gauri and Jagya are still registered in the court as a couple...5. .And most important of all, being a sarpanch, she will give a wrong message to the society, that whatever the men do, it is ok at the end of the day to accept them for the sake of the family, even if he has abused, cheated and given you worst pain ever...!