Maturity in a person is a relative term like temperature, here i take instances of 3 characters ...
Maanvi:
Should Maanvi be more serious and more mature just because she is married...Virat fell in love with this bubbly chirpy, innocent and loving girl in Maanvi .. Maanvi does not act immature or selfish .. when there is problem around.. she is the most mature and strong girl, with head over her shoulders and with heart and brain in the right place, when a trouble befalls anyone.. be it Jeevika's accident .. or be it her cancer or her di aborting baby . she knows how to behave in each situation..
to substantiate that i would say she does not act childish when there is sorrow and others are crying.. had she done that .. then i would agree that she needs to grow up and be mature
Virat
even Virat is so similar to Maanvi..he is a fun loving, masti type guy when the situation is normal.. But in crisis, he the only ONE, who acts with his head over shoulders and his confidence and maturity and determination will pave a way out for him in crisis ...
remember Kajol... in K3G - even after having a son of 5-6 years. she is the same., full of life.,. in broader sense .. childish .. and has fun in every little thing screaming on top of her lungs if sachin hit a boundary..every little thing is full of life...,.as long as everything is fine but when situation is dire .. her maturity and her approach is way different .. same with Maanvi
so, marriage will, give an opportunity for two people to share their life and live their life together, but it definitely, is not the reason or factor which influences you to change your character
Edited by munnihyderabad - 12 years ago