Originally posted by: gcluv
even , i felt bad for pari .
but ---
she created her own grave by
1. lying about her job in the family
2. disrespecting prateek
3. unnecessary confrontation with vidhi
4. disrespecting / disobeying G3
there was nothing else she could do but lie about her job...she begged pratik to talk to his family but he didnt have the guts to do so...what else was she supposed to do...sit at home all day...vidhi and aarti have kids so their days are occupied and they have their priorities straight and they dont have the desire to have a career but why should pari change and be like them...Did pratik ever tell pari that she wont be able to work after marriage? no...pari knew pratik not his entire family...she got her shock after marriage...
as to disrespecting prateek...how can she respect him when he doesnt even have the guts to talk to his parents about what he wants for his wife...he has to be a man and act like a man...why does aarti respect yash because during the kidnapping time he went against his parents because he knew the right thing was to save ansh no matter what...he has a voice when somebody is wrong or being unfair...
I do agree that she should have been way nicer to vidhi many times but there were also times when vidhi was unnecessarily interfering in pari's life...just because vidhi doesnt have a voice or has the desire to have a voice does not mean pari has to become like her also...
and why should any of the bahu's obey G3...that goes for aarti, vidhi and pari...g3 is not their general...it is one thing to respect your mother in law but it is totally different when you have to obey her...
however I do not agree with her working at night time because it is unsafe...that was her own fault...i do not agree with her laziness when it came to house chores...vidhi and aarti are not her maids...pari should also do her own share of house work...having a career does not mean that you should stay away from house chores...
Pari should have never gone to a hotel room with another man and start drinking...the end result is never positive
but this the way fro Cvs to show that a woman should only stay home and take care of family and not dare to work outside