Please help us in doing intercaste marriage(marwad

Hi,

I am 28 years old Hyderabad guy. My girl is 27 , Rajasthan marawadi . We are in relation from last five years. We both are well settled in careers. There is no problem financially. My parents also accepted our relation.

Only problem is girl's father. Her father is having problem with caste... and he is very stubborn on caste issue... He clearly told her that I cannot let my daughter to marry a guy outside agrawal community... if you want to do... go and marry.. but don't come back...

And her parents started emotional blackmail by saying... if u do run away marriage... we cant live here... evryone will say bad about us... either we have to die.. or leave this town...
Daily her mom will call and say... ur dad is crying like anything ... plz unka tabiyat karab ho jayega... papa ki baat manlo...

By listening all these... my girl's situation became very worse... she even saying I cant give this much pain to my parents... I will do any sacrifices for them.. I will take any pain for them..

Plz suggest me.. how can i convince my gal.. or how can i convince her dad... Even her family members came to my house.. ad they talked with us for relation... but when it is about fix... her dad started saying she cant let her go in outside caste...

I understand ur problem completely. I have been thru this whole thing. Infact, I am a Muslim and my husband is Hindu. Besides our religion, we have 18 yrs age diffrrrnce as well.

Now in this situation u have 2 options: Either wait and convince her father. U should talk to his parents or ask ur parents to talk. And try to convince him. Or ask girl's mother to talk her hubby. In thes cases emotional blackmail is normal.
Other way, u guyz cN run away and marry. Thata what i did.

Tall to ur gorl and male her understand thay if she sacrifice then no one would be able to live happy. Parents dont live forever, she might agree with her parents but tomorrow wbn her parents wont be here then would she able to live with life that has nothing but co
Prpmises. It wouls be hard to go ahainst her parents but sooner later whn they will see their daughter happy they would be happy as well.

My father didnt talk to me for 2 yrs.
But then everythibg sorted put!!

Tell her to think of future and not current situation.

Hope it helps!

All the best!

Sonia