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Julie

@JulieD

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

It always amazes me in these serials how quickly people remarry after their spouse passes. I hope to God that it is not that way in real life in India. I mean Babloo and Sargam loved each other and she died not sooo long ago, maybe a month or two and already he has decided that he needs to remarry.!!! 😲😲Seriously?? That fast? Even in MKKPB, Shibu married Karantiya a couple months after Simran's death, In YMGGK, Abha was forced to marry Karna's twin brother a few days after his supposed death and then his sisters-in-law and sister married a couple months after their husbands mass death. 😲 This is all to soon for me. Don't these people mourn their loved ones or is it "Out of sight, out of mind".😲😲😲😲😲😲

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Monica

@moniluvskinshuk

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+ 9

Posted: 13 years ago

In real it doesn't happens like this . I don't know abt other shows u mentioned but In case of Babloo's , it's not that he nees any wife , Saragam's memories are enough for him to survive but here the case is of his son who is just 5 yrs old and lost his mother , he demands his mom daily and coz of that he is becoming Ziddi and not living his life which he should live as a child . So it became necessary for Babloo to take some step regarding rhis major Prob . And there should not be any wrong in that A/c to me , Remarrying doesn't means u will forget ur previous love or something like that . Here babloo is remarrying just coz of his son and not coz of him .

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zeezee55

@zeezee55

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

Actually Bablloo has been given a much longer time to mourn his wife. I have seen shows where a remarriage is arranged before the "dead body is cold". This is the tradition in Zeeland and i have learned to accept this obscene haste in getting a person married immediately after his/her spouse dies.

Babloo would probably have been spared the remarriage if Krishna had been around as she is on suspension and she would have had time to look after Sonu. So no thanks to Krishna (I'm sorry i am going to lay the blame on her because she made the mistake of obeying her mother 100% without thinking of her husband or her inlaws) Babloo is now forced to marry Pinky - and I am sure that will come to past.

And then Pinky is going to make Krishna's life hell at her inlaws - if Krishna is every brought back to her inlaws!!! which i am beginning to doubt very much.

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Taahir

@taahir004

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Posted: 13 years ago

I personally don't see anything wrong , its difficult for a man to multi task to take care of kids these are things are truely cannot do .

in the case of Babloo remarrying its a good thing because he wants someone to care and love his child to teach Sonu everything he does not want Sonu to miss a mother

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kmfan_2

@kmfan_2

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

This is an interesting post...

Remarriage...I think it is a very personal issue and we need to respect the different views on it.

In this case of Babloo - it is crystal clear that he realises that with no other female in the house -

his mom is all alone in taking care of a household,
managing none other than the Ghazab TTS with all his temper and
plus now to manage and nurture Sonu towards leading a life with good values, teaching him his academics etc...

is not so easy for her...

Ganga needs someone to be supportive and share her responsibilities at home.

So Babloo is remarrying to help his mother and for his son's welfare!

He is not at all selfish - in fact he is selfless enough to lend a part of his life to another lady ( though he can never ever forget Sargam...they made a wonderful couple too...)only for the overall happiness of the TTS household!

Edited by kmfan_2 - 13 years ago

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Shaun

@Jade0001

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

I do think for men it would be different as that for woman

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sohan12345

@sohan12345

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Posted: 13 years ago

Babloo should remarry because he needs a life partner and not a maid for sonu and ganga to take care and help. the girl who remarries him would be devastated to know she is just a maid and not a life partner and is brought into the family to take care of sonu and ganga.

His remarrying a widow is a right choice but not for right reason.

Pinky is a ding-bang, but she did become a BDO indicating that she is no illiterate. Her reasoning for marrying Babloo is beyond any rationale. As a young girl, she should be marrying to lead a happy life for herself and not marrying to make someone else life hell.

But then, there won't be any spice in the AB serial.

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792774

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Posted: 13 years ago

I'm fine with Babloo remarrying mot of the time its difficult for the 2nd wife to take full place it does take time so with pinky its going to be difficult as she will throw herself on Babloo and it may make him feel uncomfortable

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kmfan_2

@kmfan_2

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

@sohan 12345 - well said!

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zeezee55

@zeezee55

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#10

I agree that there is nothing wrong with Babloo getting married again but the producers must be circumspect about the time for him to mourn. Its ok for him to rush into marriage if he does not feel anything for his wife. But in this case he does and i think a suitable mourning period is called for.

But Babloo must marry for the right reasons. I agree with Soham12345 on that. He must marry for himself and for Sonu. If it is a case of caring for Sonu then he might as well get a fulltime nanny for Sonu who will do all the necessary and who knows who would also love the child. Marrying a woman to take care of your child does not guarantee love for the child.

As for Babloo prefering a widow - i think that is a good idea. You are giving a widow a second chance in life and who knows Bablloo may just fall in love with her and have a second chance for himself too.

Next about spicing up AB - hmmm - don't you find having one anatagonist a bore!! I mean there is only so much Pinky can do - and all her efforts are mindless and amatuerish. May be nice to have another antagonist...

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