Sugni no better than Vikram

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree that what Vikram did was wrong. he should have told the truth about Riwa to to Sugni .
Now what Sugni is doing is no better. She is hiding the truth about her being Bedni from Maa Thakur, making Adi betray his girlfreind who was so nice to Sugni.
vikram was right in questioning Sugni about all this. Gulabiya attacked Vikram first and then he shot her.
I beleive Vikram however negative he is he does love Sugni a lot but Sugni and Gulabiya now are just manipulative.
Just my opinion let me know what you think.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Curious you are correct. And did you notice that when Vikram questions her, she just ignores him and starts her own questions.. or should I say accusations as that is all she seems to be doing these days.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i sorry a lot of people think the Sugni and her mother are being manipulative. but what choice did Vikram give Sugni. let me explain the way i see perseive it. sugni finds out that vikram lied to her about his wife, she is still alive, so she cant marry him, and now she does not want to marry him because she will become the womam that stole another womans husband. thus increasing the sitgma on her community. she did her sirr dhaki, to get away from vikram. but he just kept bidding higher than the other Thakur.
Aditya did the only think he could do at that time to stop Vikram for bidding for her. he made a bogus deal with vikram. if vikram had done sugni dhaki then she would be his to do as he pleased. he may have married her or he may have not. but she would always be the other woman and whats to say once a man has had what he wants, he would still be intreasted in the her.
even if sugni would break all ties to the place they are living in and left with her mother. vikram would follow them and bring her back.
love is love when it is nurtring but when that same love becomes an obcession, in becomes something to fear.
by marrying aditya sugni is changing her relationship with vikram. Aditya is nephue to vikram, so sugni will become his niece by marriage. the dinamics of the relationship will change. putting sugni out of his reach.
besides sugni was not the one to lie to ma thakur, Aditya did. for obvious reasons,
what do you think will happen when ma thakur comes to know that sugni is a bedni, and vikram want's to leave his wife to marry the same girl. will she accept sugni then after she is responsiable for a broken marriage of her son, wont it reinforce her beliffs that the bedni women are nothing but homebreakers. and nachanavalies that prey on rich thakurs.
Aditya and Sugni may not love each other, but they understand each other, and even respect each other. what they are doing is for their family's happiness. so that vikram may give his marriage to reva a chance.. and the Bedni are not only seen as homebreakers.
beside its not only gulabya that wants sugni to marry Aditya, reva too want sugni to marry aditya. and adityas mom doesnt seem to be protesting too much either.
and i doubt amrita is commin back. and even if she does would she want aditya after knowing he has done sugni dhaki. doubt it. and that they are doing this to save vikram and reva's marriage. i have a feeling she would support them and wish them luck.
someday the truth will come out that sugni is a bedni, but when the bigger truth of why Aditya is marrying sugni comes out , even ma thakur would accept that Aditya sugni marriage would be better for the family. and vikram breaking his marriage to reva to marry sugni would be unacceptable to her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@merrydock
what do u think sardhakai is ? isnt that being a mistress to some other thakur and being the other woman in society ?? And what is she doing with Adi? isnt she coming between Adi and Amrita ?
Its not that she does not know Amrita...she knows how much Amrita loved Adi and how she was such big supporter to Sugni ...so what is she doing here? she is backstabbing her friend, stealing her love and was willing to sleep with Adi ...
how do u explain all this?
And now if she had little self-respect she could have gotten out of this situation by telling Maa Thakur about her mother and her back ground...she goes a step further to hide all this ...so what Adi said she is an orphan..she doesnt have to go along !!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@merrydock Sugani has alot of choice however she took the easy way out. She could have done Sardakai quietly. She created tamasha out of it. She still has choice, she doesn't have to have her engagement at Vikram's house.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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There is a big difference between love and obsession. Love is giving and obsession is snatching. No matter how much Vikram chants about his love for Sugni, it's just plain obsession. He wants her at any cost even if she hates him and makes his life a lot more miserable (if he married her by force).I hope his mother finds out and straighten him out
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is only natural that Vikram would feel that Sugni is in love with him, when she made such Grande Announcements, "I trust you completely," "Is see you as my husband already," "I would kill myself, if you turned out to not be true," She even turned against her Mother.

How would Vikram believe that such a girl, so in love could fall out of love already?

I am still waiting for Sugni to kill herself, I have not seen one attempt at suicide.

So, please don't expect the man to just get over his love, and believe Sugni is not in love any more.

We may know she was never in love, but we are not Vikram, we did not hear her tall claims of love.

Vikram feels he hurt Sugni badly, he feels that if she understood his reasons and his helplessness, he could win her over.

Some of us on the other hand, no better than Vikram, that she was never in love with him, only the idea of being a wife.

How long are some people going to defend Sugni cheap, now lying behaviour? Lying that you are an orphan is SERIOUS sin to God, who gave you a Mother. She keeps cheating her Mother and everyone else. This girl will allow her Mother to die just so she can become a wife. Where was her strength when her Mother was trying to tell her about Vikram's wife? Now she is crying the woo is me, when she always does her own way. She disgusts me.
Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago
preetie thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: suresh555

There is a big difference between love and obsession. Love is giving and obsession is snatching. No matter how much Vikram chants about his love for Sugni, it's just plain obsession. He wants her at any cost even if she hates him and makes his life a lot more miserable (if he married her by force).I hope his mother finds out and straighten him out

Vikram needs to move on. Let Adi have Sugani.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hillydee

It is only natural that Vikram would feel that Sugni is in love with him, when she made such Grande Announcements, "I trust you completely," "Is see you as my husband already," "I would kill myself, if you turned out to not be true," She even turned against her Mother.


How would Vikram believe that such a girl, so in love could fall out of love already?

I am still waiting for Sugni to kill herself, I have not seen one attempt at suicide.

So, please don't expect the man to just get over his love, and believe Sugni is not in love any more.

We may know she was never in love, but we are not Vikram, we did not hear her tall claims of love.

Vikram feels he hurt Sugni badly, he feels that if she understood his reasons and his helplessness, he could win her over.

Some of us on the other hand, no better than Vikram, that she was never in love with him, only the idea of being a wife.

How long are some people going to defend Sugni cheap, now lying behaviour? Lying that you are an orphan is SERIOUS sin to God, who gave you a Mother. She keeps cheating her Mother and everyone else. This girl will allow her Mother to die just so she can become a wife. Where was her strength when her Mother was trying to tell her about Vikram's wife? Now she is crying the woo is me, when she always does her own way. She disgusts me.

As much as I dislike Sugani - Gulabia, Vikram needs to move on and kick both mother & daughter out of his life and his house. Yes he should still divorce Reva.
Edited by preetie - 12 years ago
croziaxx thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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who saying she is better, she is worst then him... even all character worst then V...
Edited by croziaxx - 12 years ago

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