ASHNI's own child can make their bond stronger..!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I feel that for the following reasons, ASHNI should have their own child than an adopted one...


1. It can make the bond between ASHNI stronger to have their own biological child than adopt a child.

2. If adopted, at this time, Nidhi can keep feeling guilty looking at the child that coz she kept Ashu deprived of his own child , he is keen on adopting a child to satisfy his instincts and wish for a child.

3. She will have to bear the brunt from DB and others in the family who would not be a game for adoption of a child.

and...many more issues, as to her near and dear ones accepting this child, the feeling of belonging, that comes towards your own child, over an adopted one...and so on and so forth...what do u feel friends...?

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rajanigandha26 thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I was hoping someone will make this kind of post. I feel adoption is not simple but very complicated issue. Adoption requires courage and commitment of life time.It can not make up for the satisfaction of having own child. a couple should go for adoption only when they are sure that they can not have their own child .. Parenting an adopted child is tough.
I really dont feel they should go for adoption because its very imp for ashu to have his own blood relation.When you hold your own child in your arms you feel connected to the life, to the earth.
I agree with you and hope there is no adoption
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Adoptation is not bad in my pov,and ashu will see his own shadow in that girl,and natural bonding occue between them.so it is natural.but adoption for nidhi long way to go.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajanigandha26

I was hoping someone will make this kind of post. I feel adoption is not simple but very complicated issue. Adoption requires courage and commitment of life time.It can not make up for the satisfaction of having own child. a couple should go for adoption only when they are sure that they can not have their own child .. Parenting an adopted child is tough.
I really dont feel they should go for adoption because its very imp for ashu to have his own blood relation.When you hold your own child in your arms you feel connected to the life, to the earth.
I agree with you and hope there is no adoption

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Fully agree with you.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ashni should have their own child. Khushi can stay in their house and Ashni just can take care of her needs but as uncle and aunty. Ashu should have his own bloodline. The baby will make their bond stronger.1st their own child then in distant future if they feel they can adopt, but not now. Khushi will bring khushi to Ashni's life by awaking Nidhi's desire to taste motherhood.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Fully agree. They need to have their own kid. Ashu has been an orphan and he has no family at all. He should definitely have a child of his own - it will be a complete family for him - and that is what he desires...They can always take care of Khushi if she has no family..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Actually adoption of the first child is not that easy. So many legalities are involved and both the parents have to fulfill the conditions like the age of mother, father, their medical reports and assurance that they dont have chance of having their own child etc. So it is difficult in real life to actually adopt .

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree with you.. Infact i hv been saying this for last few months, since ppl here were speculating abt adopt child for ashni.. Ashni needs child of their own..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I would like for them to have their own child but not right now as I wanna see Ashni's relationship developing more to a point where we see more depth and from there going on to have their own child will only things more interesting to watch as a viewer.I also don't mind them adopting either after they've had their own child as that will go to show how much Ashu would wanna give a better life to a child just like Baba gave to him,showing more of Ashu's inner thought's and turmoil of how he felt as an orphan without the love of his own flesh and blood.

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