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Today's episode was mudslinging all the way through. Women always having to prove their innocence...But in all this what I saw was 3 women shine and rise to the occasion. A helpless mother & her 2 daughters were exceptional in their fight to survive this storm that seems to have overtaken their lives. All I could think of when I watched was grace under fire...





Glimpses of a shaadi..."hatiye...humein unhe daantna hai, itna intezaar karvaya"...Her wait finally coming to an end...Beautifully done, as she runs down to get a glimpse of her husband...Not a care in the world...She is the jhalli and proudly so...





A twist of fate - his mom's back towards the camera, running away from cruel fate and succumbing to it...Khushi running towards it, in hopes of embracing happiness, finds adversity...She decides to fight it... 2 d
ifferent outlooks to adversity...






Garima & her daughters - Grace under fire!


Loved Garima today. So many allegations against a woman who has been a wonderful wife and a loving mother to 2 girls who are not her own. For a mistake she may have committed unknowingly almost a decade ago. She didn't throw counter punches, she stood there begging to be forgiven. All the while all she thought was the happiness of her 2 daughters who weren't her biological daughters. She could have defended herself by calling papa the scum bag who didn't reveal he was married but she didn't. Coz as a mother she would rather be the accused. She will take any punishment, if only the Raizada's accepted her daughters. Garima so beautifully expressed the helplessness of a mother...She was being reduced to a wh**e in front of her grown daughters, her helpless husband who couldn't defend her honor.


But there were 2 daughters who came rushing to her aid. This was their time to payback. This was their time to stand by their mother who had nurtured them like her own...First Khushi, the fearless...She like her mother was grace under fire. Even before she knew the truth she wouldn't believe her mom could do any wrong. Once she found out, she still stood by her...Her mother who could not hurt a fly would never do the unthinkable, bed a married man & be the cause for an entire family to be destroyed. Payal wasn't far behind...Kudos girls! They made their parents proud... When the going gets tough, the tough get going...




Dadi was plain evil today. Absolutely didn't like the level she stooped to...Lying to Garima, I could take but lying to her grandson's face? The writers to me failed today...So far dadi's portrayal was excellent, she was a woman of conviction, who believed in something and executed it well. Her portrayal was realistic but today they downgraded her to cliche just like they did w/Shyam.

What I wanted to see was a fierce protective grandma who was doing this to safeguard her family & that was her reason to leave the ashram. Shyam was the puppeteer and she the puppet.
But in the quest for higher ratings, they have downgraded her to evil...Wasn't Shyam enough? The dadi who was on board earlier was more realistic, an interesting watch. Now it is just eye for an eye.


Whether Garima knew about him being married or not, she still held her responsible for the death of her son & his wife...How can the writers justify that piece of writing with a pious woman who prayed to DM before she left. Pls do not compare this w/lying for a good cause mentioned in mythology...coz this wasn't a good cause, no lives saved with this allegation. Only lives destroyed...


Arnav's decision


What was he thinking? If the FB's were an indication he was torn, the events from the past & his future...His love, his Khushi...A past that he wished to forget and a future he was willing to embrace...Khushi expressing her faith in him, etched in his memory from that night they spent together...If he truly has decided to move on from the past, forgiveness should come shortly...He can never forget the past but he can learn to deal with it...To deal with it, he has to try to understand Garima's side of it... It wasn't just Garima who was responsible; it takes 2 to tango... He always blamed his father for this fiasco & he was right.

If Garima didn't know, how is she responsible? Just like Khushi isn't responsible for Anji's woes. Will his experience w/Shyam-Khushi, help him reconcile with the past & believe Garima' s side of it? He has to at least try to accept it and maybe forgive her...Without that there is no future to this relationship w/Khushi...Will he find it in him to move on?






At this point it is not about Arnav believing if he should get married or not. This goes to the crux of his character. Does he or does he not believe he was once married? Will he stand up & say to dadi, she is my wife; there is no question of not taking her home. My dad didn't stay true to his vows; I am not my father's son. I'm a Raizada. Yes, he needs to stay true to the claims he made in the past, he isn't a Malik.


Will the real ASR rise and say I may not have done the pheras but I married her in the presence of DM and I believe in this marriage. This marriage was just for the family. Since the family doesn't want this marriage, I will simply take her home as my wife. She is my legally wedded wife and this time with papers to support his claim, bas...This is what I want from Arnav Singh Raizada...




Anything short of this will mean ASR as a character has been compromised just like they did to Khushi several times over. My views on marriage is evolving as the days have gone by...From 360 to big fat to none today...After today I do not want a marriage at this point. I want them to be defiant in love. ASR did what his folks wanted, he tried the conventional approach...But now it is "me time" for ASR.





I want both of them to accept the first marriage for better or worse. That in my view is true love, ASR accepts this as destiny and she accepts it as DM's will. This was how it was meant to be... DM is her witness to their wedding & court papers are his witness to prove their marriage. Damn, the society! That will make them a hatke couple like Khushi claimed...Nayi soch...

What did dadi do today? She follows all traditions but lies to prove her point. Traditions are as good as those who follow it... A man who defied the norm and carved his own destiny, will have proved he does indeed believe in it....This will make him larger than life. They don't always have to be bogged down by traditions; they stay true to each other. What I want to see is a hatke couple....A defiant ASR, his hatke soch and a jhalli wife who complements him...bas, SKD much....But I'm a realist, all we get with this new team is dhamaka till I puke!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dadi continues to show what a vindictive scheming person she can be, she emotionally tugged at Arnav's heart by using his mother as a weapon to accomplish her goal. Dadi lied to Arnav about the picture and left him torn between his mother and his love. I really felt bad for Arnav here, he's been put in such a difficult position naturally he needs some time to process this shocking blow.

Dadi really does not waste time, she makes her way to the wedding venue and unleashes havoc. Dadi reveals she misled Garima that day, that she never forgave her and her intentions were to hurt her the same way she was hurt 14 years ago. Pieces of the puzzle slowly start to connect for the Guptas and Raizadas who are left in shock and disbelief at what is happening. A day which started out with happiness ended with doom with Dadi and Shyam enjoying every moment of it

I felt Nani, Anjali and Manorama were justified in asking Garima why she didn't speak up earlier. I know it doesn't seem logical for her to just come out and reveal her role what happened all those years ago, but for Nani and Anjali who have always held the Guptas in high regards that had to hurt.

Though the Raizadas were justified in their POVs, so were Khushi and Payal who really took me by surprise today. Both daughters really took a stand for a woman who raised them as her own after their mothers died, for them if she said she was innocent then that must've been the case. For Khushi it must've been a case of deja vu the way Dadi insulted her mother for similarly it is the way Shyam insulted her character and she wasn't about to let the same happen to her mother. Garima is truly fortunate

I've got to hand it to the CVs what I expected and what unraveled were two different things and I couldn't be more relieved! I fully expected to see an episode full of humiliation for the Guptas who would helplessly endure the insults silently but instead I saw two young women, daughters who put up one hell of a fight. I'm glad they did not go the cliched route by having Payal and Khushi be the damsels in distress needing their husbands to rescue them, these are two women capable of fighting their own battles and they more than proved that today. Hats off to Payal and Khushi!!

Arnav will return for Khushi but it remains to be seen how. Will he marry her with a 360 mandir wedding or will it be in your face to shut Dadi up?? Hoping with time to think logically he realizes Dadi's intentions were to always humiliate Khushi. I also wonder how he will react finding out Khushi is supporting her mother, will he understand or will this distance them? This track is gripping and execution has improved by bounds! IPK is back!

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hi everyone…so a power packed episode of ipk today…with some really amazing acting by arnav and khushi and near perfect execution of the scene ...it was truly an extremely imp scene…as much as shyam's khulaasa scene….imho…and they pulled it off quite well i must say…..

will talk about arnav first…poor guy cant seem to catch a break….his happiness looks to be forever doomed….mind blowing expressions with no dialogue…barun...u rock!!…the flashback, his pathos everything was spectacularly portrayed…..now noone knows what will arnav do….but for today he didnt come to the wedding venue…for me…he did leave khushi to tackle his dadi and this mammoth problem alone…..yeah i know..he will come back and all that(hopefully; we still dont know whats gonna happen) but still…..not that im complaining….gave khushi opportunity to bring her fiesty self back….and i so loved it!!
anyhoo..ive gotta say im loving the suspense..

today was the day of khushi….the anxiousness to await for her love/ excitement at seeing his car/ rushing downstairs "hatiye..humein arnav ji se ladai akrni hai" awww…cant get sweeter than this….sanaya portrayed it fabulously….just amezing only!!…the fear when she sees no arnavji around/ silently reprimanded buaji when she says did something happen/goes 2 dadi n asks anxiously/stumped beyond belief to hear the truth from dadi/ but takes no time in standing up for her amma👏 she needs no proof/she has seen her amma selflessly sacrificing for them/gets an approving nod from babuji/.…khushi u rocked gal…..bravo!! daughters like u r indeed the best!!⭐️

payal…loved u for standing up to amma n khushi…noone has any NSTS clue what khushi does for everyone…..

btw garima…this is how u stick for ur family…not the way u treated khushi when she walks in RM after marrying arnav

dadi….im not a fan of ur character or ur acting capabilities….but u did prove today that u r a big fat liar, when u lied 2 arnav.."humein aaj pata chala"…n then viciously make an announcement of ur evil intentions in front of RM and GH families….u played arnav's mom's card in front of him…how cheap can u get n then at the wedding venue..u said the real reason why u did it..for ur son…lemme tell u…even if garima is responsible for breaking arnav's mum's parivaar…ur son is equally if not more responsible…so please…just…cut it!!

IPk team…have u got our attention back and how!!! 👏cant wait to see what u guys have planned next!!


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Sari you are right...Grace Under Fire indeed! ⭐️ And Oh today you have outdone your self! Girl once this is all done you need to compile all the posts and create a book! 👏

"Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has many ' not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some." ' Charles Dickens

As it all began today...Arnav's past and present flashed thru FB's infront of his eyes. He had grown out of that pain and anguish and was finally starting to put the past behind him and beginning to adopt a very beautiful future with his Khushi and Dadi just took the ground out from under his feet! He had worked so hard to hold himself together and lock the past and it's painful memories in a deep corner of his heart and tossed the key away until Dadi ripped his heart out and broke the lock and reminded him how his parent's were taken away from him. He was all ready to move on with everything to finally start a new life ...his excitement all killed by his Dadi. 🤢

Arnav Singh Raizada rose from the ashes of Arnav the boy hid himself within the fortress of ASR and swore never to let anyone ever make him vulnerable again. But love changes everything and Khushi came like a breath of fresh air and changed his existence forever.

"Regret is an appalling waste of energy; you can't build on it; it is good only for wallowing." ' Katherine Mansfield

There he stood in his very room where he realized his love for her...where he spent endless sleepless nights missing her...longing for her...wishing he could change what he done to her in past...his darker past flashed before his eyes...a past that made him who he is today...a past his Dadi absolutely refuses to let go off...informing him that the girl he is going to marry tonight is the aunt of the woman that his father cheated his mother with. The reason why his mother ended her life and so did his dad...orphaning Anjali and him. 🤔 But the FB's ended on the promises he made to Khushi...and the moment's he spent with her in the recent past that were happy memories for him and for her. She made him want to live ...want to love...want to feel...want to be alive all over again...memories and promises he cant let go of now either. 👏

An excited bride on the other hand awaits the arrival of her groom...oh how the moods change in a matter of a few seconds. Joy to sadness oh so well done Team IPK! This entire segment was thrilled, depressing, revitalizing and enthralling all at the same time. You kept us on our toes and our eyes glued to the screen wanting more.

The Khushi Kumari Gupta we once knew and loved came alive today. Fiesty, defensive yet authoritative and commanding yet very respectful all at the same time!👏 She wont hear anything against her mother and she proved that not having a son made no difference that boys or girls when someone points a finger at ones parents children stand up and defend their honor and pride regardless of a blood relation or not. She feels for everyones pain and she will not hear a word against her mother my fear though is when she feels her pain...shel shatter to a million pieces...that i dont know if i have the heart to watch once again...😭

Dadi on the other hand has sent her Grand Daughter back in the Lion's den to that good for nothing cheating, lying husband of hers.The grand son is already pretty much screwed up in the head finally gains his senses back and his life together only for her to come back under the influence of the sneaky good for nothing son in law and has at this point in the story killed any chance of anormal life for this boy. 😡

Reflections of the evening:

-Our leads are fabulous Actors! Sobti Boy ka kya kehna...those expressions are to die for...no words just expressions and he like nails it perfectly! How can anyone be this brilliant???? Ms. Irani what a performance girl! If there was a standing ovation emotion id be pasting it all over for her today! 👏

-Our leads Look mighty fine when all well groomed and are provided clothing they look super hot in!

-In the mean time Shyam stands in the back...enjoying this circus...🤡

-Shashi watches his daughter's defend their mother's honor with a smile on his face..

-Payal find a backbone ...and shut's her husband up rather quickly but i thought he as actually trying to defend her for a change.😛

-Mamiji speaks at the wrong time sometimes...today she should have just kept quite. 😡

-Bechara NK was completely Shell shocked...kahan shaadi mai aaya tha...must be like Nannav Mere Bhai and Khushiji ki shaadi kabhie normally nahi ho sakti kya?😕

-So essentially Dadi did today what Garima did 15 years ago...They both are even then...can we have the wedding now please?

Overall episode # 10 in a row with tight execution, story telling, editing and the works! Yes the stress level's rise but this is what keeps it all exciting and as always we wait for tomorrow to see what other storm heads our way. 😃 All I can say is that if I or any of here know Arnav Singh Raizada the man the character we can all firmly say he will not let the honor of the woman he loves be at stake here today. He was young when his mother had to live that anguish today the ball is in his court and he will come to save his Khushi from the evil jaws of his Dadi. He knows the woman's agenda well enough to know what shes planning. Yup I have faith in Arnav Singh Raizada/ ASR/ Arnav/ this pile of Khushi Mush! I have faith...oh yes i absolutely do! 😳

Song of the evening...It's all about the Pal's in life...Aajke liye 2 song's...❤️

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"You are responsible for your life. You can't keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on." ' Oprah Winfrey
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Hello Sari and SG's!

Sari: Awesome post! Loved the title and pics👍🏼

Drama packed episode today; but I enjoyed it. It is needed for the story to unfold and I am super glad about the quick pace and crisp execution👏👏.

Dadi is a vindictive conniving bitch who is so blinded by her beliefs and so bent on vengeance she is all set to destroy her grandson's and family's happiness😡. While I hated her for playing such a shrewd game and hitting ASR with the most devastating truth of his life at the last minute, she has underestimated the strength of the ARHI bond and how far Arnav has evolved in his love for Khushi. I do not blame the family for questioning Garima as to why she never mentioned this past connection to anyone till now. Garima may be an innocent victim but the fact that she was hiding showed her guilt and she should have come clean to at least someone. Yes she was a mother trying to protect her daughters but her very silence has resulted in this dramatic last minute revelation. The highpoint of the whole Garima character assassination was the rise of the feisty Khushi who believes in the ones she loves and stands up for them. She knows her mother can never intentionally harm anyone and I'm glad Khushi and Payal shed the abla nari image to stand up for their loved ones👏👏.

I have no doubt Arnav will show up for the wedding; he has been dealt a big blow; his mother is sacred to him and her death was what has resulted in his character today. He has shut himself up and brooded over the past for 14 years and that cannot change in an instance. I think his FB's were perfect; his parents broken relationship because of who aurat, the devastation it wrecked on Anjali's life and finally that of his most precious moments with Khushi. I do not think the FB for the intimate moments they shared the night before were indicative of his guilt or responsibility but of his love and her trust in him. What they shared was a culmination of their attraction, true love and deep bond; it was special to the viewers and it was special to Arnav which is why I think it was very appropriate😉.

I really hope the spoiler about Khushi waiting for him at the madap is true; I do not want her to run away. She knows Arnav too well to understand how he will shut himself up after this revelation, how he will need time to process this new information but I hope the "hume bharosa hai aap pe, apke pyaar pe" comes into play and she waits because she knows he will not abandon her and will definitely come. That would be truly wonderful and a big slap on the face of Dadi and Shyam that despite all the evil planning they could not dent Arnav's love and Khushi's trust.

Khushi looked gorgeous and loved the return of the tigress who will stand up for what she believes in and not shy away and shed tears. She is far stronger emotionally than Arnav and I hope she stands with him while he faces the biggest conflict of his life. She is the only one who can help him truly move forward and rise from the memories of his dark past into a bright future. Destiny is about to test their love once again; but the past few months of blossoming love and trust along with their mothers and DM's blessings will take them through this tough phase.

Sanaya was superb today; she looked fantastic and was excellent in the confrontation scenes. Barun: not one word said, not a tear shed but the emotions and turmoil flashing across his face brilliantly portrayed⭐️⭐️. NK was hilarious with his phone holder today🤣 Why was Sashi babua so expressionless today😕😕? Overall great execution and good pace is keeping me glued to my screen in anticipation of what is next.

Edited by meens80 - 12 years ago
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A gripping episode from start to finish.

IPK team give yourself a pat on the back. For using regressive soch and adding a new flair, two daughters standing up against their in-laws for their step-mum. How often do we see that? Usually we get the parents put down and the in-laws glorified instead by the DILs. Let this be a lesson to society! So a big jhappi for that alone.🤗

SI was absolutely brilliant today from showing Khushi's impatience, excitement, eagerness to her shock and determination.⭐️

BS, zubaan se said nothing but the face said all. The shock, confusion, helplessness beautifully portrayed in those three minutes of screen time.⭐️

Dadi -Meh..👎🏼. Amma -Meh..👎🏼 Di - Meh..👎🏼

Acting school for the three. Dadi chokes her words, Di chokes her tears, Amma just chokes and makes us choke just by watching her.😵

We start from Dadi putting Arnav to the spot and launching in a monologue to confuse the poor guy. Bechara looked so lost like a little boy who's sweetie's been snatched.😕

There goes loveface Arnav, you will be missed. Peetal bartan, welcome.

Dadi seems to have a lot of confidence in her plan to stop the wedding. However, she has strongly underestimated the power of Arnav and Khushi's love. They aren't our conventional couple. They have an unbreakable bond, no power can break.😳

Then what cheez is Dadi? What does she know about sacha pyaar. Obviously, she never had sacha pyaar, since Dadaji chose an early grave than spend his dotage with a batty old twat. Smart Dadaji.😈

Oh she is a liar as well. Joothi Aurat! How can she lie to her grandson, just like that? Some matriarch. Tchah!😡

I don't blame Chotte for walking out. Who can stay in a room with her for more than a minute when she spews mouldy banana peels .

Khushi on the other hand, waits impatiently for her groom to arrive and take her away.😛

Till the very flowery car arrives carrying museebat.👎🏼

The only positive of this museebat was the return of the fiesty Khushi. We love this girl. Don't change her Cvs, pretty please!😃

She tells Dadi to shut up twice and puts up an awesome fight for her mum even without knowing the whole truth because she is a good daughter first. Then the bahu of the museebat. Pura Seethi bajao moment. And Payal joining in, means double seethi!

Precap- Dadi can take her fugly kangans away. We don't care. Chotte has a very pretty diamond bracelet in his pocket for his wife. His Ma's Bahu. So don't you worry Khushi.

Chotte will come. When it is the right time for him to enter. He did say.

"rasta hamara takna, darwaza khula rakhna.." Right now he's battling his purane demons on the raasta,
Aajayega, to wed you in that phera fire and shut up Dadi and society that dared to question your marriage in the first place.😃.


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Hi Sari and SGs,

The bomb has been dropped , first on Arnav and now on the Gupta family. Dadi unflinchingly, without an ounce of remorse proceeds to unleash her venom bottled within her for 14 years. Once she is done punishing Graima , her girls , Arnav and everyone who caused her son's death will she be at peace and return to her ashram where she came from ? Hate begets more hate , it's a vicious cycle dadi and forgiveness is the only way.

After several months of dithering on various tracks , especially since the Payash wedding, the cvs have not managed to hold on to tracks that had a lot of potential. Starting from the kidnapping, to the end of the contract marriage and not to talk about the miscarriage what starts and continues as "possibilities" ends dead flat. The current track to me is hell of an interesting one. Unlike the silly Shyam MU or the Didid ki saut where the story had no legs the current situation is a real conflict for ODC . How will they as a couple so much in love deal with the current circumstances. Seems very exciting and fervently hoping I am not disappointed with lame execution and character assassination. Fingers crossed.

I do not want to write much about the episode as I think most of you will cover it and it needs to be played out more before I form an opinion. It was 3 episodes in a row what I call brilliant.

For me two images remain . The first was Arnav's childlike expression at dadi's question as to what will you do it it's your decision. As if he was transported back into his past facing the same devastation that shaped him to be the man he is today. What can he decide ? What option does he have ? Is it so easy to forget and forgive and move on ? His inner conflict well described by the Fbs , his past and his future. He needs his long drive and time to even collate all this information thrown at him . I was reminded of Lavanaya's parting words to him , If you ever are in a circumstance where you have to choose between love and hate , choose Love as it is bigger than everything. Arnie this is your biggest test and I have faith in you ( not as much in the cvs though..) Come thru for your Khushi.

The second image was the childlike Khushi rushing down the stairs in anticipation. My heart went out to this women who has to pay such a heavy price for small dreams. She like any other girl had wanted her prince to come and sweep her off her feet . DM has a different plan and as my mom would say that god tests those people he loves the most . A lame explanation but her pariksha is not over as yet. Will her prince charming come thru for her ? Yes I have faith in him. Arnie come thru for your Khushi.

Sari, I apologize for the next few comments . I tend to stick to only my views in your post and stay away from criticism of comments made by other members. I make an exception today as I was so stunned at the comments on the general forum today on the episode. Remarks on "Does Arnav deserve Khushi ? " " Arnav is a coward ? " , "Khushi should take roop of her DM and walk out " etc etc… Really ? Is this about one or the other – you defend Arnav and I defend Khushi !!! Is the show not about flawed character's who are dealing with feelings and emotions the best way they can. Would I love Arnav more if after listening to dadi he walks right in the mandaap for the phearas. Would that be acceptable knowing his love for his mom. Would I be happy if Khushi shows Arnav the finger and say – get lost you had all you could have of me now no more !!! Isn't she the girl who will do anything for the person she loves so why will she want to walk off Arnav ? Just found it very illogical and off the cuff reactions scaring me as to how we the public react to fictional characters and hoping it is only to fictional characters. Anyway…I was appalled at the lack of maturity and sensibility.

I am so hurting for Khushi & Arnav right now….wanting to walk right in the screen and give them a hug. This is going to drag for another day and then tomorrow is TRP day. Lets see if there is any positive change or have all IPK fans migrated to Mahadev !!!

Love to All.

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Arnav and Khush are in the epicenter of a storm raised by the past.

Arnav : Stunned silence is his only reaction to Garima's reveal. After 14 years he gets to know Garima along with his dad is responsible for his mom's suicide. Images of what happened 14 years ago flash before his eyes as does the fact that he loves Khushi, Khushi who has complete trust in him and decided to cross her self imposed boundaries for him.

Will calm thinking prevail after the initial shock wears off? Will he let the past overrule his present and future with Khushi?

Khushi : Once again she finds herself in the middle of chaos - One she never starts or is in no way responsible for, yet always ends up bearing the brunt of the impact. It happened when:
* Arnav stopped her in Seesh Mahal breaking Payal's wedding
* Shyam threatened to disrupt Payal's wedding when the Gupta's planned to reveal the truth
* Arnav dragged her to the altar to marry without any explanation
* Reveal of Shyam's true face lead to questioning of her character in front of the Raizadas.

This time however the slander is on her mom and she will not take it lying down. She will bounce back as always, pull herself and fight. She will heal people around her even though she is the most affected - because as much as ASR, a strong, feisty Khushi is indeed the backbone of this pyar saga !!

Sanaya and Barun excelled today. To the entire IPK team congrats on episode #350!!
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Sari!

OMG!! What a fabulous post...Girl...you are seriously talented at creating magic with words.

Loved loved loved your post...and I totally concur with your view on how Arnav should counter Dadi's evil ploy - loved how you have written it - that he tried to follow traditions and rituals to please his family, but now he should take Khushi home, because he always believed that his marriage to Khushi is already done...she is already his wife.

Loved Khushi defending Garima today...I hope in the upcoming episodes we see more of the strong Khushi, not the crying silent one, but the firm, adamant daughter who will not let anyone tarnish her mother's honor.
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Bas. Bohat ho gaya. Khatam karo.

A remarriage didn't make sense in the first place but Dadi's crash landing had to be justified. So a big fat Indian wedding part 1 was attempted only to be short circuited by an electric pillow which had to be taken out because it was too much area to be covered by net sarees. Big fat Indian wedding part 2 is playing rugby in the rain with Dadi, with all this mud, it is hard to see which way the game is going. Dadi seems to be winning because TRPs need to win. Apparently 2 is not as good of a number as 3. More is better seems to be the case here for real: more mudslinging = higher TRP? We shall see.

Today's episode was dedicated to the 7 women of IPK. The three accusers (Dadi, Anjali, Mami), three victims (Garima, Khushi, Payal) and one (Nani), on the fence. Yay!! for so-called nayi soch and hats off (NOT) to driving the point home that women don't need anyone else to ruin their lives and that of the others. Put a bunch of them together in a room, give them a weapon (in addition to their tongues) and no one would ever need an army! Gee...thanks. I feel so much better! so somehow being berated by your own kind feels less humiliating? I don't think so.

Shaadi happens or not, I don't care. What I want is a constant reminder that at the very least ASR's character will stay intact because every other character has taken a hit just to keep him intact. I want the love story to stay intact. A resilient Khushi and defiant ASR, both in love and for the right reasons. I am as tired of this whole joke and mess of the riti riwaj as ASR should be. He is married for Pete's sake! Khushi is his wife. March in there and claim what's yours. Screw the society dammit! He is not his father's son, he is not a Malik, he is a Raizada! his Nani's grandson. He made a vow to never leave her, he made a promise, time to pay up. I don't want to see the mandap turned into the RM terrace. He learned his lesson the hard way by not listening to the truth, let alone believing it. No matter how grave the situation or incident is, the same mistake can't be repeated - the truth needs to be given its due from both sides. Garima needs to be heard. Will the real ASR please stand up? and soon?

The sad reality is this drama will only get validated if the TRPs are high. Sure.. capital gains but doesn't make the mudslinging palatable, not even one bit. Another sad reality is no matter what decision ASR takes, it will always be somehow justified by the makers and re-validated by the fandom - biases run deeper! Heaven forbids if Khushi turns him down, she will be roasted alive for "abandoning the man in times of need", hypocrisy much?

Like I said, bas. Bohat ho gaya. Khatam karo.

Just for kicks: My mom, though international audience, still represents the core "aunty" demographic. Between yesterday and today she has exhausted all punjabi galiyan and hand gestures at Dadi. BUT the very interesting thing, she said ASR should use his brain, figure out Garima is Khushi's massi AND it is not Khushi's fault. He should know better. So there you go makers, don't question your audience's intelligence.

Was listening to this song and thought these lines apply to us and the show 😊:

Abhi abhi dil ki suni hai
Abhi na karo zamane ki baat
Abhi abhi baatein rukhi hain
Abhi abhi dohrane ki baat
Abhi abhi aawargi aayi
Abhi na karo sambhalne ki baat
Abhi abhi zindagi shuru hai..
Abhi abhi tham jaane ki baat

Woh subah toh bewaja ho
Ke guzare bin tumhare jis ki raat
Edited by joenet1234 - 12 years ago

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