Cvs please cut down on Shobha ji! - Page 2

Originally posted by: villager00

i don't see the need that even Aarti have to ask for arpita's blessing and i didn't say they forced her... it gives me this feeling that the dead is powerful than them who are living which i don't think should be the case.. sure, aarti has no grudge with arpita but to include aarti to deal with the dead is already too much for me.. she accepted the children as her own and she respects the dead wife, and now she talks to her picture too..it doesn't get right with me..

Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB

Originally posted by: villager00

Its aarti's choice! if she feels a connection with arpita, where is the problem?😕 And what is the problem if she asks for Arpita's blessing? Isn't she the one whose forgiveness Yashw ants? Don't we fold hands before the dead? Don't many ppl believe that the dead are close to God, so they should bless us?

Whether anyone likes or not, Arpita was, is and always will be a very important part of Yash's life, and in that process Aarti's life too!Simialrly even if there is no feelings in aarti's heart about Prashant, he will always be a part ( unwanted, but still) of her life, and in that process Yash's life too!Yash will also have to deal with Prashant. If we can expect him to beat Prashant up, or whatever, why can't aarti share her feelings with Arpita? I find it very natural that she can share everything with Arpita, even more than Vidhi and probably Shobha. Becoz She loves Yash and Palak and Payal.If someone had forced Arpita on Aarti, that would have been wrong. But if she naturally feels a connection, what is wrong?😕

Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB

i don't see the need..and i don't see why the particular dead wife will also be a very important part of Aarti's life...and sharing her feeling with the dead who she hadn't meet is really weird..if she was to utter a prayer for arpita, that would be okay..but for her to be attached with the dead, i really don't see why there should be particular closeness..