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Posted: 13 years ago
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cm has asked anandi if she can forget jagdish.correct.some one must make anandi feel if she makes herself fully committed or not.anandi must have chotima who will be watching her if she can move or not.not like all begging her to marry. chotima is correct...i dont know if she asked anandi to go back to jagya...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you. When I saw the precap yesterday, I hated CM. When I read comments today I hated her even more. But I was surprised when I watched the episode. Someone needs to speak from Shiv's side. Anandi has all along thought only of fulfilling her mother's wish. After Bhairon and her father gave her a pep talk she realized that she needs to change her behavior which she did. But she still has flashbacks about Jagya even with Shiv, and she has not fully committed to Shiv. Somewhere she is still living in her past. Neither Shiv nor his family has complained.

Someone has to speak for Shiv, to make sure that his life is not ruined due to a loveless marriage. I am glad CM spoke to Anandi. Now Anandi will really focus on moving on fully without any memories of Jagya and completely focus on her new life with Shiv. This was much needed, and CM was stern and selfish enough to do it. Of course she needs to stop babying Shiv, he is a grown man, she needs to stop saying "my Shiv" because Shiv will be Anandi's in future, not CM's. But this talk was much needed, and coming from someone who doesn't care about Anandi but does care about Shiv will have a bigger impact.

Now whenever Anandi is in CM's presence and she thinks of Jagya, she will snap back instead of giving into those memories. She cannot even eat a jalebi with happiness because of Jagya, even though Shiv brought it for her with so much love.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you. But she need time too.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You are 200% right..but it is considered ansh bashing...and even no body wants to see Jagya is moving..

The whole family was against Jagya because he cheated Anandi and has relationship with Gauri...He broke that relationship because everyone was mad agianst him for this and he still thins that this is cause and he is feeling sorry for that.
Everyone is diplomat in life..Ds is still diplomate..and if someone denies that ..good luck.. And if Jagya thought and asked for forgiveness from Anandi then what s wrong..yes Anandi can say no to him..and move on
Regarding CM..she is right,,she talks about practicability..not therotical..Hats off to her...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I accept that someone was needed to speak for Shiv as Anandi takes him for granted for most of the time. Even I was irritated at jalebi scene. But what cm did and the way she did was wrong. Isse kya badlega? She should have said this after marriage, if needed. Better still Irawati should have said this.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: elasingh

I accept that someone was needed to speak for Shiv as Anandi takes him for granted for most of the time. Even I was irritated at jalebi scene. But what cm did and the way she did was wrong. Isse kya badlega? She should have said this after marriage, if needed. Better still Irawati should have said this.

arey after marriage how ? then if anandi is thinking abt jagya after marriage then shiv will b hurt more by that...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ela - CM was downright nasty but she also did something good unintentionally.

She made A admit that J was her past and S is her present and future.Something Anandi has never admitted to herself before.That is a good thing.Now Anandi will aske herself whether she is doing justice to her relationship with S hiv or not.Once she does that she will wholeheartedly get into that relationship with Shiv.

Having said that I still don't think that CM was right in what she did or the things she said to Anandi are right,
But you see times good results can come out of nasty deeds.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: AshBendre

arey after marriage how ? then if anandi is thinking abt jagya after marriage then shiv will b hurt more by that...

Haan Ash. u r right. Shaadi ke baad she wont think about J. But still I don't like CM's ways.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with Aparna's view about CM doing good unintentionally...😊
Also., let's think in the perspective of script writers...at the moment., all they are focussing are on two things ...not that CM needs to be bashed now, or Shiv's SIS needs to be bashed in the coming episodes...
1. the prejudice that a woman cannot move on completely inspite of remarraige...
2. the prejudice that a village girl cannot be a perfect life partner for a person like Shiv., on both personal and professional fronts...
CM and Shiv's SIS are only the means to trash above ideas...
Their behaviours and nastiness are very much required for CV's to achieve their goal...and we need to appreciate these characters for the greater good that they will be able to bringforth finally...
Also, I cannot but appreciate how CV's are tackling above prejudices...all in a natural and emotional manner...not with HIGH DRAMA as in most other soaps...It is rather heartwarming that these prejudices and concerns from CM and SIS are stemming only out of their LOVE for Shiv.,

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