shaping of child's personality and grand parents

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Posted: 13 years ago
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jagiya has become a despicable being.
selfish, ignorent of others emotions, manipulative, irresponsible.
but we must think of the real reason.
in my opinion it is all dadisa's fault.
the moment you condone one mistake of a child, you push him one step closer to destruction.
grandparents' love can spoil a child.
actually some thing fo smaller proportion happenned with me.
. i am just saying how a child who is too much loved gets personality problems . especially when he/she goes out intot he world when that perspn is not there. becuase at that time a child's sense of right and wrong is developing and it is very important to teach him or her this sense.
i must say grandparents unconditional love does mroe harm to the child than good. even their heart is over flowing with ove for the grand child , hey must express it in moderation and NEVER forgive the child's mistake.somehow jagiya's story is rewind.
i think dadisa made jagiya what he is. the day she insulted anandi to pacify jagiya's ego , he made hime goistic insensitive retard. the day she forgave his mistake sand covered for them, she made him a bit of a criminal who thought he woudl always get way with it.
in my view more than jagiya it is dadisa who si responsible for what he is.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good Analysis. I think Dadisa realizes that too. In some of her introspection scenes, she did see how her laad-pyaar has changed Jagya's personality forever. Bhairon is the only one who called spade a spade (in case of Jagya)

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