BV - Sep 11th 2012 - Written update - Page 11

Originally posted by: ritzy09

@Mahi..@Anjy...reading your posts...well what about Jagya getting flashbacks of Shiv hitting him...this was after his so called realisationa nd redemption...right...

I don't think he is going to repent so soon...not only he wants his home, his hospital, money etc...he wants his girl back as well and that too from the collector who hit him...abhi woh mission ghar ka ladesar pe hai...very soon it will be mission meri beendni ki khushi...

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Mahi - u are forgetting Anandi mai ki prior vachans to J... that he never do to G what he did to her. That is Y I am sure she will try to suljhofy his rishta with Singhs but, also return him gift wrapped to Gaurimatashri... also don't forget Antaryami Mummy, she will not let Kawarsaa go that easily

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

No chappals though JaAn enthusiasts ve suggested same. Here is my q, Y wud A take responsibility for J's kid? Its J's kid. Its his responsibility. Moreover, he has Sumi, DS, etc. Y Anandi? If J died or abandoned the child and AnSh adopted...but, short of that Y?

i am not supporting Jagaya but i do believe dear you going are over board with accusations on jagaya which are going out of serial too ... the accusations you are putting on him for leaving Gauri for his purposes because he was fed up of with her wanted a way out even cvs didn't show ...tell me since when she was living up to his expectations or he was living a happy life with her that one day he found fault in her .if he wanted a way out he was fed up with her why not leave her after her countless insults . the difference of Anandi and Gauri started coming in his mind long before ..he wanted to come back to his family say to them Gauri does this to me she is so bad you guys were right but did he do that . no ..badi massi incident could be a perfect excuse for him did leave her no ...her miscarriage if he wanted a way out he said to her many times not to drive in pregnancy she did ..did he leave her no ,,,she ruined his career confessed he forgave her was not angry on her its ok ...for what for her love ..the day before he came to know about her truth he was happily feeding her from his expressions from this you deduced this guy wanted a way out from relation he is fed up of this girl .?..this guy was sleeping with this girl hugging her to overcome his pain of losing everything ..he has her she loves him the day reality of her true love will open to him she cares damn about him all her love shove was to keep him away from his family .what you expect him to do shower flowers on her or say to her thank you since i did wrong so that gave you birth right to do whatever with me you are right i am wrong ?why he can't be angry on her when she cheated him ..is he not a human being ...yes whenever he does wrong everyone has to throw him out their lives if anyone does wrong with him he cannot complain ..just because he is no saint then tell me who is saint in this serial...😕those who are wiping their hands on Jagaya continously blaming him for everything have they did no wrong in their lives ?

.this girl did no small mistake ..if for you lying cheating manipulating your husband knowingly .knowingly planning and plotting for your husband to separate him from those things those people he is dying to go back..use his blind trust and faith in you for your selfish purpose then flatly throw it on in his face with yes i did attitude if these all for you are small mistakes then i will Jagaya say is wrong here he should not have left her ...but i believe you will think these are no small mistakes ...when she proved to him she doesn't love him by caring damn about him no shame for her mistakes even for her lying to her husband is no wrong why you expect him to be with her following relations when this woman proved to him she care damns about him ..for her own self is important ..she is wrong doesn't she deserve to even apologize to him or he should do that to her

and i believe our dear cvs the ones who are writers of this show too blamed Gauri for Jagaya Gauri break up held her responsible because if you see the episode the ending voice over was for her not J on her face it came all relations , love relations based on lies with a spark of truth burn down to ashes ...she was the one buliding her castle on lies with her truth coming out it shattered down to pieces ..this is what writers have shown to us and you are accusing Jagaya for dumping her ... what i can deduce from it ..you are saying you don't blindly hate him is this no blind hatred that is making you going out of your serial with your accusations 🤔

where Jagaya has said he wants comfort of his haveli back in his life ..if he is desparate for his family members love he has been for a long time this is no one day story ..today he is yearning for them even more because he is alone ..he is yearing for their love not for their house ...he left if came back in his bhikari stauts he came following his imagination .i believe cva at time have shown him having no money to reset his looks ..😆..he wasn't coming back ..he thought everything is over for him that dadisaa imagination of him made him come back saying maybe dadisaa will forgive him ..he didn't imagine Anandi there saying i love you Anandi but dadisaa ...if when he was coming back from Mumbai there he thought he still has a chance in Anandi's life have you seen in FB's .. was he remembering his honey moon days? no ... he was remembering his interactions with Anandi after his marriage with Gauri where again and again destiny brought him back in her life... her in his ..again and again giving him an indication ..chances but he failed to understand now was remembering them when he saw he is not getting any chance there in Anandi 's life he backed away ..

i believe from so many episodes all i am hearing from his mouth about Anandi is only forgivness no where he said or even dreamed about her ...in his unconscious state all he is blabbering when a person has no control over his feelings his deepest heart desires all he is saying please forgive him where he said or saying i am back Anandi please accept me 🤔all he is doing is family family family and their forgiveness which i believe cvs have shown him a human being too not an alien any person who is guilty over his action his first effort will be forgiveness ...his soul is overburdened with guilt ..he is not finding peace ..he wants to lessen that burden by getting the people he hurted their forgiveness otherwise he will die...which is quite normal for anyone in his situation ..he will try to rectify his mistakes in future too he is currently on very first stage of his redemption with his mnd and soul too much consumed with guilt even in his dream the dark cave where he was trapped was symbollism of his guilt and ray of light he saw was dadisaa because he found her mala later he still has a chance to get forgiveness from his family ,,surely in future he will try to find a way to rectify his mistakes for that we need to wait and see ..he will win trust back of his family he said he will keep TRYING ..so that trying meant he will do something

sorry dear don;t mind but i am kind of completely disagreeing with you its not just own view points case here but i do believe you are going out of serial with your accusations on J because many things even the writers of show didn't show which you are putting on him 😕

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Mahi

When I said he wants back the comfort of his family.I didn't mean that he wanted to be in Haweli.I meant it in the emotional sense.

His apology is motivated by his need to have the comforting presence of his family around him.Not because he has realised the extent of the damage he has caused.

When he left Gauri he wanted to go back to Anandi if she would have him.Sorry to say but that kind of thought process is not acceptable CVs have shown this.Leaving one woman and wanting to run into the arms of another woman is not acceptable.

Anandi was never blind to J's shortcomings or his faults.She accepted him with all his faults.That's what love is all about.

If J and G find each others shortcomings intolerable what kind of a love is that?If he had loved her he would have dragged her along with him to his parents place would have had her apologise.

He still thinks that if he can convince DS he can get back to his family.

I will still stand by what I said .His apology is only a means to get his family back.Not because he has realised his faults.He has a long way to go before I can say that he is on path to redemption.

I do not think I am going overboard with accusations.I form my opinions only based on what is shown by the CVs If you think otherwise it is fine by me.😊