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Nabila

@bila_a

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: kkksr
People are pissed off at the actress because she threatened to quit and negotiated this ridiculous track. Here - read the interview back from June 24th!

http://www.india-forums.com/tellybuzz/buzzin-hot/12078-im-not-quitting-says-daljeet-bhanot.htm

She is fully responsible for negotating something this stupid! The PH is equally responsible for killing a perfectly good show to accommodate one actress.

People have the right to voice their opinion - that's called FREE SPEECH! If you dont like it dont read it!!!!

there's a difference between free speech and pathetic and disgusting bullying towards an individual. if everyone followed your logic then god know how much worse of everything would be. so what if she did that. there's opinion and stupidity of telling someone to die.

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herebedragons

@herebedragons

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#52

As far as I can tell from your post, you're not against people venting about a character or letting out steam or even offering constructive criticism. You're just saying that it's not nice to see people get personal and abusive.

And with that I agree - irrespective of whether it's people getting personal/abusive with the individual playing the character, the CVs, the PH etc. or people in the forum getting personal and abusive with each other for having differing opinions (and differing ways of expressing those opinions!).

Copy-pasting a post I made earlier regarding this below:

Originally posted by: herebedragons

I just read the above comment (on this post: http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3179577#), and it made me think.

Now I don't know if it's true, but I don't know that it's NOT either. What if it IS true?

No one but the PH, the Creatives and (maybe) the channel really know why the story's taken the direction that it has. It just doesn't seem fair to target one individual personally especially when there is no direct proof that the thing the individual is being publicly blamed for actually even happened.

Granted that we're all frustrated, and most of us are just venting 'cos it's disappointing to see the soap we fell in love with not consistently living up to the brilliant standards it set for it self awhile ago, but still...I think the problem is way bigger than just any one actor or individual and as far as targeting or abusing any one individual (or any individual for that matter) (in a public forum) without tangible proof (or even with tangible proof) goes...well, it makes me think of something Thumper said in Bambi - "If you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all'!

(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nGt9jAkWie4)

Just saying.

DISCLAIMER: Of course, this doesn't mean I'm saying we should all start cheering and stop venting or even stop debating or making a point with regard to what's not working for us. We're all entitled to our own opinions, plus freedom of speech and all that. (Hey, I have no wish to see a lot of Anjali + Shyam in a 'Didi ki Saut' type family drama storyline anymore than the next person. In fact, here's my incredibly long attempt at expressing why I think IPPKND isn't what it used to be: http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3176675). I'm just saying that sometimes it's nice to be well, nice (!) and think about what it'd be like if you yourself were in the other persons shoes. That's all.

:)

Cheers!

(Also, this is just my POV, but I think we (as frustrated fans who just want our old show back) have better chances of being taken seriously or being listened to at all by the PH/ Channel/ CVs, if we just present our case in a rational manner and avoid getting personal and abusive. Isn't there something about catching more flies with honey? Plus, I don't know about you, but I'm a firm believer in Karma. 😃)

Peace!

PS: Just to be clear, the whole "If you can't say anything nice, don't say nothing at all'! is with regard to getting personal and abusive and NOT with regard to venting/letting out frustration/ giving constructive criticism etc. Once again, I come in peace!

😃

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Maverick29

@Maverick29

Voyager

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: bila_a

there's a difference between free speech and pathetic and disgusting bullying towards an individual. if everyone followed your logic then god know how much worse of everything would be. so what if she did that. there's opinion and stupidity of telling someone to die.

Again -- emotional rants are NOT meant. And just to repeat, Freedom of Speech is NOT subjective.

You can disagree with the person when they say something like "go die" but, you have NO right to tell them "you cannot say this".

So, you at 17 may have to take some time to understand this -- if someone else did this to you on another subject where you were ranting and raving -- what would your reaction be? You should be able to say "right" things and "wrong" things. Right and Wrong is actually a perception based on Majority opinion.

So, think about the rest before I make this too complicated. See if saying what you believe at the time whether right or wrong should be allowed or should you start yelling at those people because they spoke their mind??? What would that do? People thinking about "what is acceptable instead of thinking "what I am thinking""!!!

Think it through.

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Khushi

@khushix

Stunner

+ 8

Posted: 13 years ago

#54

I don't see this post going anywhere, other than serving to instigate members into arguments/fights. Avoid making post which targets members or other fanbase. Closed.

Edited by khushix - 13 years ago

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