Great question but the answers will vary according to the viewer's perspective.
Ovi does not love Arjun, she wants him, she is obsessed with him. Loving would be wanting to see him happy at all costs, much like a parent that would sacrifice all to see her child happy. Ovi gives not a thought to him when he stands there next to her at the reception lost in his own misery. There is not one iota of remorse at what she has done, no empathy for his suffering, she is excited and happy she got what she wanted. That is selfish to the core and selfishness is the very antithesis of love.
I thought Purvi loves Arjun and perhaps she does but she does not love him enough, she loves her mother more.
I agree with you, Arjun if he had any sense would chuck both girls like old, torn socks and take off to find a girl that loves him, Arjun, and cares for his happiness and well-being more than her own.
As for the sacrifice, Purvi is a fool, Archana has tested the limits of my patience. How could she want to move in to the house so Purvi's sacrifice is not in vain? I would be trying to set the wrong right if Purvi were my daughter instead of rejoicing at the fact my family will be restored to me. At what cost your happiness? Your daughter's happiness? That should be too high a price for any mother. The way she jumped up at Sachin's remark that Ovi wants her back was insult to Purvi's sacrifice in my mind.
How could she go to the reception even when her daughter's heart was breaking? If she did not condone the wedding, her presence was not required. It was not a religious occasion, the wedding was over, it was a party, so to endorse what Ovi did (albeit at the insistence of her overly foolish other daughter) and to make Ovi feel good about the way Ovi wronged Purvi, Archana makes an appearance at the reception?? She had the time and mind to deck up when her child was heartbroken? How selfish is that! Purvi tells her if you go Ovi will be happy and so Archana happily trips off. Not kosher at all. I have written posts in support of her in the Manav/Savita situation so there is no bias here, just my two cents and my opinion on the recent epis.
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 13 years ago